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Originally posted by Legend121
reply to post by orangetom1999
Excuse me! Easy on the stereotyping.. Im attractive, have a brain & know how to use it. Im a sole parent, my house paid for by me & do my own handiwork etc if i need to do a task thats beyond me i get a book & figure it out. Its nice to have a man, but u dont need a man. Where are all the good men, coz i gave up hope on finding one long time ago. It may just be a location issue, but i have many friends in same sitch.. Men are boys here. They can tell u who won the footy, or what latest pc game is, but wouldnt know 1 end of drill from other, or how to plant a tree. Let alone do any of the stuff you mentioned. As for alpha protection -give me a break. They would hide behind me! Caught an ex dipping his wicker else where, so figured he would flog me in2 submission, so i couldnt leave him. Hes the one who ended up on his sorry ass, not me! Show me a real man & i‘
it was more likely invented by women so men would get drunk, pass out & no longer be a problem... Men hurt women & women hurt men - if you aint happy, move on & find someone who does make you happy.. Or just stay single & find some good hobbies that make you happy... If you find someone who is good for you, then dont take them for granted. Booze is a depressant so maybe thats the real source of pain...
Originally posted by brindle
Men invented alcohol to take away the pain women have bestowed on man.
Originally posted by Legend121
it was more likely invented by women so men would get drunk, pass out & no longer be a problem... Men hurt women & women hurt men - if you aint happy, move on & find someone who does make you happy.. Or just stay single & find some good hobbies that make you happy... If you find someone who is good for you, then dont take them for granted. Booze is a depressant so maybe thats the real source of pain...
Originally posted by brindle
Men invented alcohol to take away the pain women have bestowed on man.
Originally posted by Legend121
I may be getting wrong impression but it seems you are saying if a womans attractive, then shes gota be a gold digger who can only get by in life using her charms. What bs! It has nothing to do with gender & everything to do with what type of PERSON they are. If my tyre goes flat, i dont start flashing womanly charms. I grab the spare & change it. So as such your assumption that women cant fend for themselves is wrong. There are people who are needy & dependent & they are found in both gender groups & they are found in all physiques.. From ugly to beautiful. I would rather change the flat tyre myself, coz if you allowed a man to help you, despite claiming hes happy to help, the majority of men would be figuring that now you owe them something & it wont be baked cookies. When ive had to get tradies in, alot of them try it on, yet they take it as paid in full when a bloke contracts them. Not to mention the fact i usually end up having to redo the job again myself
Originally posted by Legend121
Cont.. As for pulling the wagon for a bunch of freeloaders - what would i do? Tell them the wagon wont be going anywhere anytime soon til they pull their own weight. We have skills we can utilise. We have the power of speach as well.
Have you heard of such concepts like sharing, communication, cooperation, delegation, decision making, respect, freewill etc if you dont like it, speak up! Just keep in mind god gave you 2 ears & 1 mouth for a reason. If they have good reason to complain, then find a resolution. If bitching for sake of it, then FIFO! If you continue to accept the behaviour, the behaviour will continue to happen, but you also need to consider your own actions. If your dumb enough 2 pull that wagon, then dont whine. Instead ask why you‘ve ended up in this sitch & how do you change it.
Theres a breed of people who want all the perks without any of the responcibility, but are found on both sides of fence -male & female
... As for your take on adam & eve, we all interpret the scriptures differently, but that debate would be for a new thread.
Originally posted by Legend121
You say ive interpreted it wrong, but then follow with a statement that reinforces that im right. Perhaps you have an overinflated view of yourself, or you‘re 50 & trying to date 20 yr olds, or you simply dont know as many women as you think you do, or its fantasy land & you simply perceive damsels in distress, to feed your ego or self-delusions or maybe you truly believe in what you are saying.. Regardless dark ages are over!! Women are flying planes, fighting in armies, fixing cars, working as scientists, the list goes on. Say or claim what you want, the facts speak for themselves. For your opinion to be reality, you would have to be living under a rock, so i consider your sitch to be more a reflection on yourself than the reality around u. You give the impression of being a very arrogant, self absorbed, selfish & extremely narcistic individual, with a superiority complex. If some1 asks for help & they can do it for themselves no is a fair call, but if they ask & cant do it,
Regardless dark ages are over!!
Women are flying planes, fighting in armies, fixing cars, working as scientists, the list goes on.
For your opinion to be reality, you would have to be living under a rock, so i consider your sitch to be more a reflection on yourself than the reality around u. You give the impression of being a very arrogant, self absorbed, selfish & extremely narcistic individual, with a superiority complex. If some1 asks for help & they can do it for themselves no is a fair call, but if they ask & cant do it,
Originally posted by Legend121
Cont.. Then shame on you. Not coz its expected from a male, but coz u are human, & have 2 share world with others. By helping others you help yourself. Dont spit in the well, as u may need 2 drink from it one day... Who will be there for you when old & frail? Perhaps no1, as they will have better things 2 do with their time & who would blame them. As for your occult reference lmao!! You are again showing your ignorance. Its like saying you read a few chapters of the bible & as such have the expertise 2 form opinions about all forms of christianity. Omg u really are a tool! What systems did you review? Did you explore alchemy? How does it relate 2 chemistry & quantum principles. Did u research any manifestums? which 1‘s? Whats true essence of philosophers stone & how can it be utilised in 2days search 4 free energy? Do u even no what free energy is? Whats the secret of the mysteries? Are you aware of how much science & anthropology now support occultism? Ignorance is no excuse for stupidity!!
Are you aware of how much science & anthropology now support occultism? Ignorance is no excuse for stupidity!!