Dating Guide

Originally posted by andy1033
reply to post by inchworm

 

I sent you my pic inch, hope you like. I lost some weight for you.

You and liveforever8 can think about my pic tonight all in good taste now.

edit on 1/22/2011 by andy1033 because: (no reason given)

That porno picture you sent me is disgusting-- what is that, a 500 pound hillbilly in hog heaven!??

Originally posted by Tayesin
reply to post by inchworm

 

Normally I've been enjoying Inch's tongue-in-cheek approach as it often gives me some well needed laughs.

But sometimes I find myself being serious.. like now...

Big Mistake #1. Trying to IMPRESS.

That's the dishonest approach to take instead of being who you are at all times. And to hell with it if she doesn't like who you are... lots more fish in that sea.

Big Mistake #2. Spending up BIG on her.

You set the the Expectation level way too high right at the start so that all along the relationship.. if one develops.. she will anticipate and Expect Blingy-things for no reason other than.. "You are worth it baby".

Question, what makes one person so much more "worth it" than anyone else?

My problem is that most females are raised to Expect to be Spoiled, placed on a pedestal and worshipped as some sort of goddess.. meanwhile the guy has to work his butt off to pay for all that nice Stuff she gets to keep along with half your stuff when you split-up.

So I say NO to the females raised as Daddy's Princess because they have no concept of what a real human relationship should be based on.. which is not Money, Lifestyles of the pseudo-rich and almost famous, and lots of Stuff.

If they can't love you enough to live happily together in a tin shed in the bush, then send them on their way quickly to find some other sucker who will waste megabucks on her.

/seriousness

I've gotta admit I agree with Tayesin on this. Any woman worth your while should be with you for you and nothing else. I've been through working 16 hour days to try and keep a girl and yeah it worked for awhile but in the long run all she wanted was money. I found that out after 3 years together but in the long run it worked out because its improved my understanding of women.

Best thing you can do when it comes to finding a partner is communicaton. Talk to them and LISTEN!!!! Also women are more attracted to men who aren't trying to get it their pants from the word go. So don't jump into bed with them on the first date they will want you more for it. Always have manners eg hold the door for them, help them on with their jacket, and pull out the chair for them and the most important one is always offer to pay the ones that are worth your time will always take abit of talking round but won't always expect you to pay.

Rant over

reply to post by crazyscotsdude


Those is some real good ideas Thanks for your reply, Bud

Ronnie

reply to post by inchworm


No probs mate

Get prepared for dating. If you really want to succeed in the dating game, be ready to commit to dating. Half-heartedness won't work. In fact, it won’t even get you half-way. If you really want to date, put some effort into it. Do some research and think about what you want out of dating. Prepare yourself for the inevitable rejection we all face at some point in dating and commit not to give up.
Get your act together. Begin a regime of looking your best. Join a gym, read health magazines, get fit and start a diet. Get your hair cut or styled and begin a new regime of good grooming or beauty treatment. Though it will not find you a date in itself, you will feel a million times more confident about yourself, and others can sense that.
Go shopping and treat yourself to new clothes and even a whole new look. Get your image right, one that you can manage and live with, but one that flatters you. Don't try to be someone you’re not, but amplify and accentuate your positives. Throw out those tired jeans, old sweaters or cardigans and spruce yourself up. Your date will appreciate that you demonstrated some effort.
Think about what you want to gain from dating and what timeframes you expect. Do you see yourself married within 2 years? If you do, then approach dating accordingly. If you are more laid back and don't take dating too seriously then ask yourself some honest questions about why you are dating and what you hope to achieve. If it is purely sex then ask yourself if you are about to be honest with those you hope to date.
Surround yourself with people who will support your dating aims. By following the first four tips you will feel better and be more focused. Don’t sabotage this by sitting around with friends who are negative about love and relationships (often the married ones). Start attending social functions frequented by singles. Sitting alongside couples at dinner parties in suburbia is not necessarily where you need to be right now.

Originally posted by dccruibay
Prepare yourself for the inevitable rejection we all face at some point in dating

Speak for yourself, Bud

.... remember fellas,


If she says NO she just hasn't had enough to drink yet

Originally posted by IntastellaBurst



.... remember fellas,


If she says NO she just hasn't had enough to drink yet

Well, well, well more truth from the man with a plan. Everybuddy listen up!

Thanks, for yer reply, junior

Originally posted by IntastellaBurst



.... remember fellas,


If she says NO she just hasn't had enough to drink yet

Also ...........


If the Worm is saying NO to you ..........


your probably a woman

reply to post by IntastellaBurst


Real funny, wise apple.

Originally posted by dccruibay
Surround yourself with people who will support your dating aims.

Makes sense, I guess, but what about me? I surround myself with my best bud/roommmate, Rod-- If I keep goin at this pace I'm a gonna end up marrying myself

Originally posted by inchworm
Rod-- If I keep goin at this pace I'm a gonna end up marrying myself

Is that such a bad idea?

Originally posted by andy1033

Originally posted by inchworm
Rod-- If I keep goin at this pace I'm a gonna end up marrying myself

Is that such a bad idea?

.... I wonder what the legalities of that are.


Dont worry Worm, ... I'm sure Kentucky will allow the Union of two best buds. ...... one day.

reply to post by andy1033


Andy, my friend, maybe you're onto something One thing I knows for sure, I sure wouldnt' abuse myself (like Rod does)

reply to post by inchworm


Being by yourself is the best way inch.

reply to post by andy1033


Andy, I never gonna stop bein best buds with old Rod, ya understand. Oh yeah, sometimes hes' a real pain in the *** ** *** but hes' a real good fella.

Originally posted by IntastellaBurst

Originally posted by andy1033

Originally posted by inchworm
Rod-- If I keep goin at this pace I'm a gonna end up marrying myself

Is that such a bad idea?

.... I wonder what the legalities of that are.


Dont worry Worm, ... I'm sure Kentucky will allow the Union of two best buds. ...... one day.

Real funny Stella-- no best buds are gettin married nowheres near Kentucky, ya see. Rods lookin for a real nice lady, he just dont' know it yet. When we watch The Birdcage (Rods favorite movie) he's the one always commenting on the 2 ladies in the movie calling what they wear "horrendous' and saying their hairs look like it was done by a blind man-- He likes the ladies and I think he's sweet on those 2

Originally posted by IntastellaBurst



.... remember fellas,


If she says NO she just hasn't had enough to drink yet

Might be true.

Originally posted by inchworm

Originally posted by IntastellaBurst

Originally posted by andy1033

Originally posted by inchworm
Rod-- If I keep goin at this pace I'm a gonna end up marrying myself

Is that such a bad idea?

.... I wonder what the legalities of that are.


Dont worry Worm, ... I'm sure Kentucky will allow the Union of two best buds. ...... one day.

Real funny Stella-- no best buds are gettin married nowheres near Kentucky, ya see. Rods lookin for a real nice lady, he just dont' know it yet. When we watch The Birdcage (Rods favorite movie) he's the one always commenting on the 2 ladies in the movie calling what they wear "horrendous' and saying their hairs look like it was done by a blind man-- He likes the ladies and I think he's sweet on those 2

edit on 29-1-2011 by inchworm because: (no reason given)

Well, ....

Your right about one thing....

Rod is sweet, ...... REAL sweeeeeeeet.

reply to post by IntastellaBurst


Ron sure is a sweetie

Wonder what he's gettin his Valentine this year (lucky gal