Originally posted by JaxonRoberts
reply to post by tothetenthpower
As a former Restaurant Server, I can tell you Keeper that some people are just born miserable, and they are sucking everybody they can down the misery
hole! The old saying, "Misery Loves Company" is just sooo true! I could see it on their faces when they sat down. They were going to have a
miserable evening, something was going to be absolutely horrible, and that was that! The bright side is that they live in a 24/7 misery bubble, and
you only have to deal with them for a short period of time...
What about bad servers? Yes, there are some people that are always going to be a problem, but sometimes, they are the ones supposed to be waiting on
us. Let me give you an example. I went out one evening with my grown daughter, her young son (under a year), and my youngest daughter (a day older
than her son). Went to a local IHOP for a late dinner, just to spend time together. This was something we did often, both being night owls. Well,
we were seated right away by the hostess, handed menus, and told the server would be right with us. The place was VERY slow, with, if I recall, one
other table having people, and the rest empty. Well, the waitress came out, tended to something at the other table, looked right at us, and went
away. Alright, not a big deal yet. We figured she had to get them something else, and would be right back. She came back. NOT with anything for
them, and began just meandering around other, empty tables. During this, she made eye contact with me several times, and still didn't come to our
table, to even take a drink order. After a good ten minutes of this, some other people came in, and were seated at the table next to ours.
Immediately, she rushed to their table and took their drink orders. When she brought their drinks, a couple of the group glanced our way, clearly
noticing that she had not brought ours, and was making no effort to wait on us at all. They looked very uncomfortable at this stage. Not their
fault, of course. They even sated they were not quite ready to order, but the waitress didn't take a hint, and still stood chatting with them. Mind
you, during this, I made several pointed comments, that I KNOW she heard (because they did, and reacted) to the effect of how long before she waited
on us, speculation that we were somehow invisible to her, etc. She even looked at me a couple of times, but never, even once, indicated that she
would be waiting on our table. At this stage, the hostess came back through, and saw something was wrong, so I asked her to get the manager. He came
out, very polite, and we explained to him what was going on. He was, to his credit, VERY apologetic, and asked what he could do to fix the issue. I
told him, flat out, he could fire the, um, witch. We then left, and went to another IHOP in another area. There, in less time than all this took, we
had our order.
Yes, this is an extreme case, but there are bad people in the service industry, as well as bad customers. To be fair, I have seen some rotten
customers, too. One was a very LOUD fellow my husband (before we were married) and I encountered. He was loud, arrogant, impatient with the good
staff, and annoying the entire place. That time, several people, mine included, offered to help the staff remove him.
The important thing is that we all try to treat others as we want to be treated, whether we are the server, or the servee.