I honestly see this alot!! I have two "friends" that are all caught up in the system and they talk about it as if they are
entitled to these
benefits. It makes me sick and I won't lie and pretend that I've never been on welfare, I have both as a child growing up (I guess that was my mom
though) and as an adult with children. When I was growing up I didn't know any better, we were just the poor family in my mom's group of friends.
Later, as an adult, I was on medical assistance during my first pregnancy because I didn't have access to insurance and my boyfriend (later husband)
was just a boyfriend so I couldn't be on his. I also got food stamps when we lived in Arizona (2nd husband and 3 kids by this time) and money was
extremely tight, the kids had to eat! BUT, the amount they gave me was outrageous $650/mo. I never spent that much on food before. As one poster
stated, I'm pretty good at being poor.
Seeing how much the government gave me in food stamps alone, I can see how so many people get used to the "hand-out" and start taking advantage of
it. The two friends I speak of would most surely be the first at my door should a SHTF scenario happen. In fact, the one is a single mother of two,
her ex has her son almost all the time and her daughter is 14 and running around getting herself in trouble. This woman is seriously, honest to god,
sitting around waiting for a "Sugar Daddy" to come and sweep her off to a life more lavish LMAO
!!
As it stands, my family is living very much hand to mouth and the money barely makes it to the next paycheck (and more often then not, doesn't make
it). However, you will never catch me in a welfare line again!! At this point in my life I have seen too much and am
aware of a lot more than I
was even a few years ago, which is one of the reasons I am on here now replying to this post hehe
!! Together my husband and I bring home approx.
$2,200 per month, we both have older cars we own outright, we have only two real "luxuries" and that is Dishnet (sports, cartoons and my Shotime
shows lol) and the internet! We both smoke, but we buy tobacco and tubes then make our own, only costing around $25 - $30 a month total. We eat fairly
balanced meals that do include burgers and mac-n-cheese along with lots of pasta, chicken and frozen veggies. Red meat is a once a week thing and
seafood almost never happens in this house!
So far we have only really stocked up on water and some dry goods like rice, flour and sugar. I own three chickens, but they are at a friend's house,
so we have eggs on hand almost always as well. This spring I will be planting a garden outside, but right now I am attempting to grow potatoes and
beans in old buckets and trash cans (saw hot to do this in another thread here. We also have basic survival kits for each of the kids and ourselves,
but that really is all we can do for the moment.
I know this is a long reply, but I want the OP to know that yes, there are "poor" people out there who abuse the system in every way, but there are
also poor people out there/here who want nothing to do with the system and still try to be prepared! Let FEMA build the camps, I know who will be
living in them, certainly not me