Here's my story, you may find it useful.
I was raised as an atheist by atheist parents, but they never preached me about it. Whenever I asked them anything about God they'd answer me with
more questions, never a direct answer. We never went to church, only interaction with religion were funerals and going to people's slavas (important
orthodox Christian religious practice). We get a lot of what you guys call "down your throat" religious stuff in Schools and in boy scouts as well
since I was there for several years. Most people found my "alignment" interesting rather than bad since our church is fairly tolerant (unlike in
most Islam countries for example). As a kid I had few weird reactions from teachers when they would realize I know nothing about basic things about
"our" church, as if that's mandatory education regardless of your "faith".
After a while, somewhere in my 20s I decided not to call myself atheist any more because I didn't feel like an atheist, I was just simply open
minded. People would ask me if I believe in God, because being "Christian" didn't always imply that you actually believe it... much like rest of
the modern Christianity. You just, like, go with it. But they'd be in awe on me telling them I'm atheist, because it automatically means not only I
don't believe in God but also not in Jesus, or anything he teaches, let alone church. They'd see me as a poor hopeless empty kid believing in
nothing, although I'd sometimes say I believe in myself and my family. Strangely after I "decided" not to refer to myself as an atheist no one ever
asked me anything about religion or God, especially what I believe in.
Soon after, some 5 years ago (I'm born 1985) I'd start learning about spirituality, ancient philosophies and whatnot. How we have special powers
within ourselves, powers of meditation, psi energy, even alchemy. Then I accidentally met a very good friend who led me into "higher" spiritual
studies and thoughts and eventually everything would revolve around God, ironically. Even though that person never asked what I believe in or what my
religion is, it was just not relevant for anything. So now, I'm as far from being atheist as you can be, far from any religious dogma or any
label.
That said, it was good not to be fed any specific religion. It was good that my parents didn't tell me "oh God will fix it" or "you'll go to
hell".... Although, for some reason I was always doing my best to respect 10 commandments because I've read them from a colourful Jehovah witness
pamphlet lol once and it resonated in me forever on, I think I was 12 or something. My father would love to chat with them about religious stuff (not
when I'm around) and then reveal he was an atheist to their shock, but he kept their little books which I then read (he was a book collector so
throwing away a book is worst of sins to him). I think you can't just "convert" to an atheist, it takes one to see "his" Church for what it is,
an institution. And if there is no other framework laid out for you, an open minded person would end up calling himself atheist in a desperate attempt
not to institutionalize oneself. My parents were never religious but had much knowledge of theology, especially my father. Being raised as an atheist
though had an effect on me as I still find it hard to understand people who kiss church doors, pictures with saints, or worship statues but consider
them spiritual. I understand now that it is simply their way and should be respected as it does no harm. I still don't like
seeing it though
so I keep away from temples and religious festivals/practices
.
Therefore, if you are an open minded, good hearted, smart person, what is there to worry about? What good person would force-feed his kid with
religious indoctrinations? You cannot achieve closeness with God if you were brainwashed by your ignorant parents
. My story proves not that being
an atheist is good, but that it doesn't matter at all. Novadays, I see many people strongly enforcing their "atheistic" views (there is no God,
religions are source of evil etc) but those people don't have good intentions, in fact most vocal ones were actually force-fed some religion by their
parents. As I said, if you're a good person you need not worry about it.... religion nor atheism is no cause of no evil, a cause of evil is malicious
intent, ignorance, apathy and intolerance.