New contest this year - how many women have you cheated with?

This morning, on the radio, I heard Jesse James (Sandra Bullock's hubby) is now up to ELEVEN women claiming that he cheated with them behind Sandra's back...

Seems like someone is looking to catch up to Tiger Woods...

reply to post by Gazrok


I am up to the grand total of.............in my 54 years...

zero, ziltch, nada, never been done..and damn proud of it

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Yeah who knew! I never would have thought they had a problem and he always seemed like a nice quiet guy. Guess many were wrong. I feel bad for Sandra Bullock, this has to be hard on her. She is usually so private and now she is all over the place in magazines and on TV. Tiger Woods surprised me too! His wife is stupid if she stays. Sandra better leave him. I have been cheated on and in my experience if you give them another chance, that's just another chance for them to do again. If you let them think it's ok one time they will think it's ok anytime.

Tribe good for you! I as a woman have never cheated either. I could never hurt someone I loved like that.

What a plank!

Well looks like his Affair days may be over, I mean gaa who would want a guy thats cheated with so many women??

Yuck!

[edit on 26-3-2010 by asala]

Just one.. it was a revenge cheat, and it was with twin of the person I was cheating on. And we weren't really together but she still considered it cheating (we were talking about getting back together). Either way the whole screwing her twin thing got her a little mad.

A fun idea, yes. A good idea, most definitely not!

Originally posted by tribewilder
reply to post by Gazrok

 

I am up to the grand total of.............in my 54 years...

zero, ziltch, nada, never been done..and damn proud of it

Hey ,me too!

But don't think I wasn't offered,because I was. I just wasn't going to lower my standards and beliefs to theirs..

If I wanted to do that I would never had gotten married.

Just one.. it was a revenge cheat, and it was with twin of the person I was cheating on.

Wow the twin of the the person you were in a relationship with!

That brings up a WHOLE different set of ethics,because ,"technically" she is biologically the same as the other person.Hmmm......Twins?

[edit on 27-3-2010 by Oneolddude]

Hey, does that mean that Sandra Bullock is going to be available? She's kinda yummy, with a good sense of humor.

...is this thread good for girls too?

I've cheated on the same guy that lives here now with a few girls!

He knows...just wishes he was there.

...atleast I tell the truth, right?

Go ahead start bashing me, I could care less.

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Hey, whatuknow!!!!!

Get in line mate lol

I cheated once, ended up hurting me more, never again........

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Na were all just going to play a little movie in our heads.

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Pictures or it didn't happen

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Yeah, I don't see much bashing coming from that...lol. Had a similar situation with the same woman I was talking about before. Ahh fun times She would still hang out with her ex Renet an aweful lot; I was always suspicious but seriously didn't mind.

A few years after me and her broke up, it turned out that Renet got all tatted up, a few.... strategically placed piercings, and became a stripper and the shoe was on the other foot (yes I know it probably isn't a good idea to mess around with strippers in a lot of peoples books, but not mine ). Ahh, even more fun times.

*sits back and waits for the inevitable flaming..hahaha*

[edit on 27-3-2010 by ganja]

Originally posted by Givenmay
...is this thread good for girls too?

I've cheated on the same guy that lives here now with a few girls!

He knows...just wishes he was there.

...atleast I tell the truth, right?

Go ahead start bashing me, I could care less.

Well I have something to say here.

When I friend someone on ATS/BTS, there is only one way that my respect goes for them, as time goes by and that is down.

I have only once ever taken someone off of my friends list once before and have hoped that I never have to do it again, as somehow it actually hurts to do so. (I'm fussy that way).

Now I come upon your post and have a bit of a quandary. Since I am so fussy when befriending someone, I have high expectations of them. I will admit that this though has never happened , that one has gone in the other direction.

Congrats Givenmay, for being the first person here to send Tribes respect-O-meter in the opposite direction, almost pegging the needle and breaking it.

Honesty is the best policy and my respect for you has grown quite a bit with this one post. Too bad that there isn't a button to click to make you a "very special" friend as you would surely be on that list.

I guess all we can do is do a mutter dance to celebrate..

On the other hand, If you are so excited to get bashed...here ya go,,:bash:

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Makes me think of what the comedian Rodney Carrington said who dated a twin. When you sleep with on, you pretty much want to sleep with the other one. But dont' ever tell your wife that, boy that was a long Christmas.

Gosh let me see....in the one and only very brief relationship I had, nope I never did! plenty of chances but no that's not me! I was however cheated on myself.


I did sleep with a married woman when I was 17 if it sorta counts the other way? but I swear I never knew at the time and she was very errm forcefull! would have never of done it if I knew!!!

I only cheated when I was very young... Unfortunately that lost me true love because I had to end the relationship since the girl was allowing me to cheat and I couldn't bare to hurt her anymore...

However, this story takes the cake (and I don't take pride in it)...

It was the day of my best friends funeral, and I was dating a girl whom I've known a very long time (by the way this was 2 years ago) in fact I was her first kiss many, many years before. Anyways, she came to my friends funeral, I was a wreck, but she made this beautiful collage of things relating to my best friend who passed, it was awesome (still have it hanging up).

That night everyone met up for coffee and I happened to start talking to my best friend who had passed aways cousin... long legs, red hair, beautiful girl.

Next thing I know I'm in the back seat of my car

To this day I feel horrible about it, but I ended up dating the red head for over a year but we are no longer together unfortunately... I miss her though...

Oh and the other girl, whom I 'cheated on' well I tried very hard to fix things with her, since she pronounced she was still in love with me, but well I must have done something wrong again (she liked to make things up, she is also crazy, did I tell you that?) because she has blocked me from facebook and will not talk to me... oh well...

No cheating for me because cheating can come back and bit you in the a$$. :shk:

[edit on 28-3-2010 by Stop-loss!]

What are you talkin bout....

I wasn't cheating...I seduced those women fair and square.

Not one of them filed a complaint.


But now at my age it's more trouble than it's worth and the QOP carries a .38



what's QOP you ask....that's my GF and stands for "Queen of Pain".... curious relationship living with a dominatrix.







[edit on 28-3-2010 by whaaa]

22 years and not a one!

If I don't want to be with whoever I'm with I just leave. Staying longer than you should just leaves you both resenting each other. Leaving at the right time, without cheating and calmly means you've got a friend rather than another enemy.

I tie for last place as well.
0 times since 1984.

Before tieing the knot, dozens and dozens of times with dozens of girls.
Ahh the free-love & orgy days of the 70's.