reply to post by italkyoulisten
You ask if I think I'm a cool guy or if we all do, and I can only answer to what I think. Some days I do think I'm cool and other days I think I am
possibly the biggest geek to ever stumble down the street. However, I know what I think is cool and it has rarely, if ever, had anything to do with
what media or corporations market as cool. Perhaps that makes me a geek, or perhaps that makes an individual who makes his own decisions, and judges
what is cool or is not based upon critical thought and sometimes even just the feelings I hold.
Here's what I think is cool:
I think individualism is cool.
I think ethical and honest behavior is really cool.
I think compassion is cool.
I think showing a willingness to be wrong and learn from ones mistakes is pretty damn cool. Conversely, I think a strong desire to be right and to
act in ways that accomplish this is very cool.
I think reasoned discourse is cool.
I think intelligence and the effort to expand ones own knowledge is cool.
I think cool is cool.
Here's what I think is uncool:
I think abdicating ones own personal power for the privilege of being a victim is uncool.
I think blame is irrelevant and uncool.
I think expecting corporate entities to act in socially responsible ways is naive and I think willful naivete is uncool.
I think culture is learned and as such if one wants to learn only the "culture of cool" in an attempt to place style over substance that this is
uncool.
I think trends are set by trendsetters not because they are necessarily cool but because they have acted in what they believed to be their best
interest and all who would follow this trend just to be cool are really just followers and by extension, uncool.
I think an obsession with what is cool is uncool.
Back to the original question: "So you think you're a cool guy?" I think if one doesn't think they are cool, they should ask themselves why,
they should reason for themselves what they think cool is and if they want to be cool, then they should be cool.