Mouthy Chicks

This chick I'm with - she's pushing 40 - and all of a sudden after a great night of food and fun, she turns on a dime and start's whining about how she hasn't talked to her "Girls" in 15 years. I'm like baby, nobody stays in contact with the people they went to high school with, and she's like "no, it's all your fault." I've only even known the girl for a few years... WTF?

And then she's going on about how there is nobody she would rather be with in any way than her girls. So I say in any way, what do you mean by that? And the she says "Oh, yes I'm a lesbian, a lesbian." And I'm like, baby I didn't say that, but is that what you mean?

Blah blah blah - drunk fookin beech. Why can't they just say no when you ask them straight up? Instead they will say the exact opposite... Oh yes, I'm a lesbian...

Am I nut's or is this chick like total psycho?

You might be nuts, but she is definitely psycho. All girls are, ... its a genetic predisposition inherint in any species of female : The Psycho Factor

Girls are allowed to fly off the handle and their guys are always the ones trying to calm them down and rationalize things.

I just think we get so P whipped, that we allow our girls to do and pretty much say anything they want, so if they catch a negative whim they let it fly because they know were only gonna try to make it right. where as we always avoid confrontation, .... because no matter who starts it, we always end up apologizing.

dont take her S**t

Female perspective here...
YES she is psycho.
NO we aren't all that way.
But for her to start throwing random stuff out there all of a sudden that makes no sense at all especially if you have known her for a few years is a red flag.
Was she really drunk????
And yes people do keep in contact with those from high school.
Sounds like she just wants to reconnect and quite possibly is feeling bi-curious as there is a giant band wagon for that nowadays.
(Thanks guys..it IS all your fault for pushing 3 way on us).
Originally posted by IntastellaBurst

You might be nuts, but she is definitely psycho. All girls are, ... its a genetic predisposition inherint in any species of female : The Psycho Factor

Girls are allowed to fly off the handle and their guys are always the ones trying to calm them down and rationalize things.

I just think we get so P whipped, that we allow our girls to do and pretty much say anything they want, so if they catch a negative whim they let it fly because they know were only gonna try to make it right. where as we always avoid confrontation, .... because no matter who starts it, we always end up apologizing.

dont take her S**t

Spoken like a true cave man.
If that is your perception of all females, that is all you will see, and attract.

Originally posted by factbeforefiction
This chick I'm with - she's pushing 40 - and all of a sudden after a great night of food and fun, she turns on a dime and start's whining about how she hasn't talked to her "Girls" in 15 years. I'm like baby, nobody stays in contact with the people they went to high school with, and she's like "no, it's all your fault." I've only even known the girl for a few years... WTF?

And then she's going on about how there is nobody she would rather be with in any way than her girls. So I say in any way, what do you mean by that? And the she says "Oh, yes I'm a lesbian, a lesbian." And I'm like, baby I didn't say that, but is that what you mean?

Blah blah blah - drunk fookin beech. Why can't they just say no when you ask them straight up? Instead they will say the exact opposite... Oh yes, I'm a lesbian...

Am I nut's or is this chick like total psycho?

So she's not a lesbian?
She was getting smart with you?
I think...
The way I take it, girls have to play games. Its in their nature.
Kind of like a test. They want to see how much you can take before you:
A. Quit or give it up. No need for arguements.
B. Keep begging for more, you like confrontation.
C. Sit back a listen, then when you stay quiet, she says "Why you being so quiet? It's like I'm not even here! Are you paying attention to me? Who is that you're looking at! Why are you looking at her! No one looks at me! What are we drinking next? Where's my cell phone? How come you don't talk to me! What's wrong? What's wrong?"
D. Your head explodes.

Then they can qualify you in a scale, known only to women, how good you rate opposed to other men.

-Just a theory.

Maybe because you keep calling her a chick.

reply to post by factbeforefiction

Blah blah blah - drunk fookin beech. Why can't they just say no when you ask them straight up? Instead they will say the exact opposite... Oh yes, I'm a lesbian...

Am I nut's or is this chick like total psycho?

That's nice. After a couple years, you'd think you'd have the answer to that question. :shk:

Anyway, look, you didn't give enough information to ascertain anything about her, about you and about the relationship. So, just go with your gut.

Originally posted by havok

D. Your head explodes.

Now that is the one that I have seen a few times in my life, and from an innocent observer, it is hilarious. [atsimg]http://files.abovetopsecret.com/images/member/691d27ac04a1.gif[/atsimg]

Being driven to this however changes something inside of you that can never be undone. Don't let them ever get you to this point as then you will look more like a zombie, and every other man will just look at you with pity.

But i agree with Nixie OP, stop calling them chicks and you might go farther.

If all else fails...run...[atsimg]http://files.abovetopsecret.com/images/member/593b4018c6b9.gif[/atsimg]

its hard not to call these types chicks,couse just look at theyr behavior,i can never get a straigth answer from them
do you like me?
: i cant say/ill ruin the fun/i dont want to ruin our friendship
is there a problem
: no (sad face)/non of your buisness
they will always say something different and expect from you to know the answer,but there is no wright answer theyr just.awful

reply to post by Stillalive


We all know your a womanizer and a sexist. You use every excuse in the book to demean women and blame all your troubles on them.

If you keep having the same issues over and over, you need to start asking yourself why.

gee where that came from. im not a sexist,i support women's right to work in the army and all
and asking my self why never works XD
but if a 40 year old women acts that way....its like 14 year old behavior

I've said it many times before and I'll repeat it here for the sake of the OP:

Women are the root of all evil and the cause of many a man's early death. They just ain't worth it brother!

I seriously hope all you males (and females who like other females) realise that all women aren't like this.

As a few other people have mentioned, if you have a negative attitude about women, then you're likely to attract the most sh!ttiest of women out there.

A lot of women are in fact, logical thinkers, and aren't 'crazy' or 'the root of evil'.

You just need to get out of the house more. Get a hobby.

[edit on 12/4/10 by Ashtree]

and all of a sudden after a great night of food and fun, she turns on a dime and start's whining about how she hasn't talked to her "Girls" in 15 years. I'm like baby, nobody stays in contact with the people they went to high school with, and she's like "no, it's all your fault."

My guess:

1) Sometime either that day, or in the previous few days, she got some kind of facebook msg, tweet, or text, etc. from some girlfriend she hasn't heard from in a LONG time.

then 2) A conversation ensued, probably hooking up with at least one other long, lost friend.

then 3) She got drunk while you were out, and then all of this blurted out....

finally 4) Either you're in a different city because of you, or even not because of you, and she misses them...

Just a guess of course...since we haven't heard from you, we'd need more to go on...

Why can't they just say no when you ask them straight up? Instead they will say the exact opposite.

Because then you'd be dating a dude.... You expect a straight answer from a gal about your relationship? That's almost cute... Ahh...youth... You see, you are expected to be able to figure out these little wordplay games, to prove that you "get" her... Sucks, but hey, I didn't invent it...so don't blame me for telling you the truth....



[edit on 12-4-2010 by Gazrok]

reply to post by Gazrok


Nice of you to respond to a banned member GAZ

Originally posted by zazzafrazz
reply to post by Gazrok

 

Nice of you to respond to a banned member GAZ

blah blah blah blah....

I find it really funny that this thread is still going on..


blah blah blah blah.....

Nice of you to respond to a banned member GAZ

I still see them....

not all girls are psycho's there are nice gals out there, depends how u meet and where you pick them!!

there are tons of nice girls out there that haven't been snapped up yet

My friend, it's time for you to join No Ma'am

We of No Ma'am are behind you brother!

Originally posted by Gazrok

Nice of you to respond to a banned member GAZ

I still see them....

Somebody is missing a sock..*walks away whistling.

stop the sexist war people X_x we are EQUAL! just couse the brother hooked up with some crazy chick dosnt mean that hes sexist. there are lot of crazy bad man also. and lots of stupid girls who like stupid bad men.
you just have to keep searching until you find a "nice compatible part" to complete your happynes^^ il just make a thread
better yet,an epxeriment