Please do not mock damaged or seeking people

I have noticed time and again that people love to mock and make fun of people who are probably seeking help and advice.

Ask yourself - what does that make you?

Also if anyone gets something wrong people love to put them down.

Why don't we do ourselves a favour and just try and help people.

If you can't help or be gentle, do not comment on what they say.

I agree with your comment, and intellectually it is the right thing to do, but more basic than this, why does it occur?

The dumber person could be the physically stronger, and wipe out the more intellectual, physically weaker person???

Maybe that is the point?

Reply to post by TaraLou

Most of those do that are damaged themselves. It that they need to put others down to feel better about themselves. And I call that damaged.


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I'd say that is good advice.I personally have never mocked anyone for asking a question.Now,admittedly, I have laughed at some of the mockers remarks because sometimes you have to read between the lines and realize that some remarks are made tongue in cheek.

reply to post by mirageofdeceit


It happens because people, like animals, ostracise their weaker members.

And people love it when they feel someone is beneath them.

Disgusting, isn't it.

Originally posted by Watcher-In-The-Shadows
Reply to post by TaraLou

 

Most of those do that are damaged themselves. It that they need to put others down to feel better about themselves. And I call that damaged.

 

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? Do you own a computer? Lol, I never see you without the posted via mobile thing anymore... btw Hows it going

Im guessing this is on here, I treat people like absolute **** here or in real life.... well because if you say something on here that is supposed to be taking seriously but everyone knows is sarcastic or plain stupid, prepare yourself... and if one more person tells me that Suddamn Hussein 'nuked' the WTC buildings.... I'm gonna shank a fool.

I do challenge some people, but then, there are some people who use these kinds of "alternative" forums to goof on people by inventing issues that seem to suggest that they've got "special" vexations - thereby suggesting that they, too, are special because of those vexations.

I post on a paranormal board where everyone on it is being sought out by angels and demons and ghosts and shadow people for (they declare) unknown reasons. These claims are generally followed by an entire history of how their mom and grandmom and whomever is or was gifted in a spiritual sense, and that they've suffered with being gifted themselves all their lives. It ends up with being more of a bragging fest than a "help me" call-out, and frankly, if there are that many angels and demons and ghosts and whathaveyou jumping out at so many people, then why is it that I can't even get a decent video clip on YouTube that's not obviously hoaxed, or a Ghost Channel reality series that gives more than footsteps and knocks on wood?

I, for one, honestly believe that if someone is claiming something that's insanely difficult to logically square with itself as a foundational premise, then why not challenge the person claiming it? I get attacked visciously if I post anything on the 9/11 threads that suggests anything other than 19 Arabs conquered the US, and if that's fair, then it's fair to challenge someone who claims that he travels via Astral projection to Cancun for Spring Break. Or that someone else is battling with guilt over being notified that they've just been chosen to lead the Voltarians in rebellion against the Frotillians, and doesn't know what to do with their cat for the next few months.

Claim to be the next incarnation of Ganesha, and you've got to expect to have someone take you on about it. If you actually are the next incarnation of Ganesha, then you'll already know to expect this, and it won't bother you.

[edit on 27-12-2009 by NorEaster]

If somebody says something really stupid or asks a moronic question I feel it is my duty as a human being to mock them for it.

Then they will remember it in the future, its the only way some people learn

I am seeking, damaged by my fall and conspicuously mock myself with my own ATS persona (we are all one so I mock y'all at the same time with each HTTP request). So what do you have to say about that?

Few seem to dare to mock me. This place is more fun when they do but it's too rare. Consider yourself fortunate that anyone is paying attention or isn't too scared of you.

reply to post by TaraLou


We should all just try to get people to think for themselves. Like the david wilcox threads, you can say that you do not listen to him, but its upto others if they like him.

I agree with op, we have too many here just waiting to put others down, and thats there problem. Everyone is damaged in some way, but the worst ones go seeking out how to destroy others. This is what happens when most of these people join the police or government and they want to destroy anyone they knew for no reason.

the cycle is endless.

your right,damaged is when i feel bad,so by making u feel bad too,i feel better. yea thats pretty sick,i felt it.
but yea i cant understand those people,whenever i see someone in need,i try to give him a good word,a helpfull advice and to make him better.
in my times of need,alot of people have just insulted me,to make me feel even worse.

reply to post by Stillalive


Like you see so many people trying to drive people to suicide today, for no reason other they want it to happen,a nd it makes them feel better and powerful or something.

The problem is that most people in this world are the abusers, and the victims are the ones who pay, as the governments and police target them.

The worst people in society are ones with friends in police or government and they literally get there friends in power to help destroy teh lifes of people they hate.

great words my friend! i cant really get it as well. there has been so many times when i have been so depressed. (being frikkin unstable)
and some girl i ask for a nice word,will just say rude things to me to make me feel super miserable at the edge of suicide.
make sure to to return them the favor,atleast give them the finger and isolate them from your life.not before showing off how good u are now compared to them,in the naaaastyes way possible.

Originally posted by Watcher-In-The-Shadows
Reply to post by TaraLou

 

Most of those do that are damaged themselves. It that they need to put others down to feel better about themselves. And I call that damaged.

Agreed. We will never be able to stop people from being this way unfortunately, not until a plethora of information is available to everyone as fact - and I don't see that happening any time soon.

As long as one can question another, and make a mockery of them, this will continue. Let it be, sometimes it just strengthens us all in the end. We need to be able to take the criticisms others throw at us while spreading the word about something. It does happen way too much, but like stated above those who feel the need to bring others down is the one with the true issues.

Yeah stop mocking people who are damaged by presenting them with delusional ideas of a heaven and reincarnation. Dont comfort the fearfull with the idea of a deity sitting on their shoulder blowing kisses at them. Dont comfort the mother and fathers of a raped and murdered child with the concept of their child choosing that life... so they could learn a lesson.

THAT IS MOCKING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

reply to post by Wertdagf


m8 i think personally planet earth is the literal hell from the bible. We are in the system and i think, thats why its so rough here on earth.

People are just 90% scum, and they do not even know who they are celebrating on things like christmas, lol. they just go along and the cycle feeds itself.

If someone is in need, I do my best to offer advice or help in some way. Unless that person is an admitted emo or indigo child. In which case I can provide NO sympathies. "I wanna die. My mom took my cell phone away". I really despise people like that.

Anyone with a REAL problem or question will always get my attention and a good word. That is, if I can provide a good word. If I cannot, I say nothing.

I try not to include any sort of emotional response to anything, though. I know the last thing I want when I feel down is for someone to tell me "oh, it will be ok". Makes me wanna scream at them and put them on an ignore list or sew their mouths shut. OF COURSE IT WILL BE OK! I am still alive am I not?!?!

reply to post by Stillalive


Humans can be so mean sometimes, but mostly because they were not raised in a loving environment or have been treated like crap all their life that they want to make other people feel like crap so that they can have something to relate to.

Originally posted by TaraLou
reply to post by mirageofdeceit

 

It happens because people, like animals, ostracise their weaker members.

And people love it when they feel someone is beneath them.

Disgusting, isn't it.

Humans are animals, apes, just like the Chimpanze or gorilla. Like it or not we're just clever apes.

reply to post by woodwardjnr


Yes, we are animals, but we do far more hideous things to each other than animals would ever do.

As for "clever apes" - I don't think a lot of us measure up to even the dumbest apes.