posted on Dec, 17 2009 @ 01:34 AM
I would just like to offer a big Thank You, to all on here who serve, or have served in our Armed Forces, and especially thank you, PeoplesSoldier,
for starting this thread--I am a mom who's son was killed in combat in Afghanistan, on July 17th, 2006, and he is now among the other fallen heroes
who are laid to rest in Arlington Nat'l Cemetery--our family has a long history of military service for our country, with his great grandmother
having served in the WAAC, during WWII[she drove a jeep, mostly], and with his dad and uncle having served in Vietnam, and his grandpa having fought
on Iwo Jima, and lived to tell about it, even though he never liked talking about the war at all--he was awarded the Silver Star for what he did on
that island, but he never once told us exactly what happened there--we had to view Victory At Sea tv shows, and old war movies, in order to actually
find out at least some of what he must have endured there--
--my son was a very loyal NCO who genuinely cared for his men alot, and he acted as 'pointman' that awful day, because he feared they were all
walking into an ambush, and he didn't want all of the men to fall victim to it--so, he, and his small squad went into the area first--it was a good
thing for all of them, too, since, if they'd all gone in as their CO had wanted them to, they all would have been trapped--but, once the fighting was
all finished, the only casualty among them was my son, whose death came almost immediately as the ambush took place--but, the Army told us that, if it
were not for his actions, to try and spare his men, there would have been far more of them killed--instead, when he was killed, the official statement
said that it served to inspire the others to accomplish what seemed to be the impossible--so, my son was given credit for that, as well--
--I know war is horrible, but our sons and daughters join our military for various reasons, yet, underneath it all, when our military calls on them to
defend our country, by fighting back against those who hate it, so wish to destroy it, and all of us, they, alone, are those with the God-given
goodness, and strength of heart and character, to step forward and do just that--and, I assure you that our sons and daughters are never to blame for
the wars, themselves--our government is, directly--
--so, if a war is thought to be 'unnecessary'--take that up with the president/commander-in-chief--hold him responsible--not our young soldiers, who
obey lawful orders given to them--and, they are not 'ordered' to kill others on some whim of some NCO, or Officer--they fight back--they don't
start the fight--that's why my son's death certificate reads, "Cause of death: HOMICIDE"--the military considers all of our soldiers, who are
killed in combat, as having been murdered by the enemy--since, our forces are DEFENSIVE, always--never offensive--some other people start these
conflicts/wars--our military does not--our sons and daughters, for the most part, fight in defense of something--they never go to ruthlessly kill just
to conquer--they are good kids--we raised them to be just that!
Thank you, again, Peoplessoldier, and all who were so supportive of what you've said in this thread--God's blessings.