Originally posted by alysha.angel
reply to post by woodwytch
tell my younger brother that hes been on my case to trim up for years ..... and iv been trying to kick him out of my life for years ....
as for the look on my face im usually in a bad mood .....
thank you for the compliment
Bless you alysha I wasn't just making the right sounds in order to make you feel better ... I meant it
And what right does your brother have to make comments like that to you ?
Is he the picture of perfection with a sparkling personality ... if not then he needs his ar$e kicked for making comments like that ... but it sounds
like he needs to remove his head from there first ... maybe spend some time getting his attitude sorted out before he dares to critisize you.
alysha if people like that, who are supposed to be close to you have worn you down with their comments then it's time you stopped listening ... trust
me I know ... and you can turn things around once you realize you are not what they say.
My ex-husband spent years telling me I was ugly / overweight / worthless etc and after a while I believed him ... my self-esteem and confidence were
non-existent ... it was only when I left him that I realized I was none of the things he convinced me I was ... you've seen my pics ... ok I'm not
god's gift ... but I'm not pig-ugly ... I'm not sylph-like ... but I'm not a slob ... I'm not a natural academic ... but I'm not an idiot.
What I am is a person who tries to help people whenever I can ... I like to share the things I know and learn from others the things that I don't ...
could I be better ... quite possibly but I like me ... and at the end of the day that's all that matters.
I suggest you just be who you are and take no notice of what eejits like your brother have to say ... I came to realize that people who feel it's
necessary to put others down just for the heck of it ... are very weak and very small people on a psychological level ... you lovely lady are much
more than that.
Just been playing around with your pictures and thought I'd add them here so you can see what a difference a smile makes;
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Woody
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