Well, weather your house is haunted or not (sounds like it is)........you can CLEAR the air using a smudge (dryed sage)....you need to burn this
smudge insence stick in EVERY room of your house, and open windows on the top levels for the smoke to vent.(it doesnt smell so good)... Smudgeing is a
Native American practice wich chases off any NEGATIVE energys.....(tossing salt under the stair area wouldnt hurt either)............
While your burning the sage sticks throughout your home (closets, corners EVRYWHERE) TALK to the spirits, invite them to look around and find the
bright white light.......tell them the light is safe, and that friends and family are waiting for them on the other side of the light.......tell them
ALL IS WELL IN THE LIGHT.......the LIGHT is LOVE
You may want to chant "kadoish, kadoish, kadoish, Adonai sabeyoth" ......(that says 'Holy Holy Holy Lord God of hosts' in the ancient Hebrew
language, and no entity NOT of the 'light' can abide these words)...say that mantra 3 times in each room..and it chases off anything from the dark
side.........
Usually these lost souls just dont understand they have passed over and want reasurance that all is well.......but WHO really knows what they want,
they are dead.
You can help them to move on, and thats all they really need is some help......they wouldnt be bugging you if they didnt think you could help.......
Call a Priest, or a Bishop, and ask to have your home blessed with Holy Oil.........(but the smudge works just as well and you CAN do this yourself)
any home or Apt SHOULD be cleansed in this manner to be FRESHENED for you and yours....no need for OLD ENERGYS to hang around.........give this
technique a try if you just want them PLAIN OL' GONE.........
If its PROOF your looking for follow the directions of Loki, very sound advise there......but smudging does nothing harmfull except for a burned sage
smell....and its amazing how well one sleeps after a cleansing in this manner.........
Good luck with this...........
[Edited on 28-4-2004 by theRiverGoddess]