reply to post by greeneyedleo
I would really recommend the weapon that you absolutely LOVE.
I've never seen a man go shopping for a car without doing a bit of homework, and even then, trying out many different models. At least prudent
men.
I've never seen a woman walk into a shoe store and leave three minutes later.
The point is, don't get in a hurry, and try a lot of guns. If you get the chance, at gunshows or gunshops, especially when a woman comes in,
they'll be very accommodating and you can try the "feel" of either automatics or revolvers. Try them all.
Don't toss out considering "used guns." The reason I say so, is that Colt revolvers use a V spring, and have the smoothest action of any
revolvers. A Smith & Wesson can be customized to have a similarly smooth action, but it takes a bit of work. So if you see a used Colt, and it
"feels" different when you use the trigger pull, you'll know why.
I have numerous weapons, both revolvers and automatics.
For a woman, who is going to purchase her first firearm, I'd strongly recommend she give a revolver significant weight. After all, it's point and
shoot. A thousand guns can be made from the identical same raw materials, on the same machining, and assembled to the exact same specifications, but
they are NOT THE SAME.
One will be special. Special to you. Don't get in a hurry and find that ONE.
I personally carry a Kimber Ultra CDP II with a three inch barrel. It's compact, powerful, easy to grip, and reliable as your mother. I had it
outfitted with Crimson Trace laser grips, which means that in the dark, I instantly know exactly where the bullet will hit.
.380 is a bit weak, but certainly compact. 9mm is a bit better, and is mostly found in automatics. .38 is usually found in revolvers, and on par
with the 9mm in stopping power. .357 (hotrod .38) in a smaller handgun is a fist buster, and you have to have mighty good grips. Then there's the
.40's and 10mm, but ammo is not as plentiful. And then there's the .45, specifically designed to be a man stopper.
Everyone has their favorites, so my recommendation is to talk to everyone you know, and try out as many as you can. There will be one gun that not
only "feels" right, but you just can't seem to miss with it.
It can be a fun hunt - looking for a gun. Go with a quality, name-brand piece, and you'll enjoy a lifetime of security.