posted on Nov, 18 2008 @ 12:44 AM
Hello AtSers- I have a new problem. I purchased the house I now live in from my father, my family lived here about seventeen years ago and my Dad
kept it as a rental property. The neighbors have been here for around thirty years, and are very kind to my girlfriend and me. They have helped us
with the yard, and have offered to watch our dogs when we go on vacation. The only problem is that they want us to attend their church. I cannot
recall the name of the religion they practice, but the women are not allowed to cut their hair and are expected to always defer to the man. My father
warned me that they would attempt to 'witness' to us, but I know they are not Jehovas Witnesses. The other day the husband asked if my girlfriend
and I would attend a church service. I said that we were not really into the whole God thing (even though I am, just don't like organized religion).
He then said that he knew we wanted to change our lives for the better, not drink smoke or live in sin. At this point I was getting visibly angry,
and he stopped asking. I really want to remain friendly with this family, but doubt I can if they keep trying to get me into their church. I don't
want a new religion, especially not one that would treat the strongest, most amazing woman I have ever met as less than equal. I thought my views
were fairly transparent, but they started up on me again today. I tried the broken record routine, 'Thanks, but we are not interested' for about
five minutes straight, and when that failed just walked away. Any thoughts on what I should say? Remember I want to remain civil. and actually like
these folks. I don't want to tell them point blank that I think they are backwards, but wish to maintain a friendly relationship. Please no
religious people are stupid tirades, just good advice. I greatly respect the majority of ATS, and think that you all could really help me out!
Thanks in advance.