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Originally posted by MAINTAL
It is simply a tradition of heterosexual people that have said THIS IS OURS this thing called Marriage between a man and a woman and it is important to us to keep it special to us.
[edit on 12-11-2008 by MAINTAL]
Originally posted by undoone time in the video was right at the end, but that has since been cut from the end. either they cut it because it was too inflamatory or my net connection fudged it up because i rewatched it and i didn't see it either. but the first time, i saw several incidences of it.
Originally posted by xander68
Originally posted by MAINTAL
It is simply a tradition of heterosexual people that have said THIS IS OURS this thing called Marriage between a man and a woman and it is important to us to keep it special to us.
[edit on 12-11-2008 by MAINTAL]
So in order for something to be special, it has to exclude certain people?
Thats interesting.
Marriage Is More Than a Civil Union
by Dale Carpenter
First published February 3, 2005, in the Bay Area Reporter.
Is there anything important at stake in the debate over whether to recognize gay relationships as marriages or as civil unions? I asked that question to a group of gay friends not long ago. Out of 10 people, no one could come up with a very good answer. A few said that as long as the law gave gay couples equivalent legal rights the difference between marriages and civil unions was “semantic.” The implication was that the difference is trivial. Since increasing numbers of Americans seem to view civil unions as an acceptable compromise between nothing and full-fledged gay marriage, what's the big deal?
Recognizing gay marriage, as Massachusetts now does, means conferring on gay couples all of the rights, benefits, and responsibilities conferred on opposite-sex married couples under state law. Beyond these legal matters, however, recognizing gay marriage offers the promise of something at least as important. That is the social approval and support that come with marriage. Marriage has a long history; it is woven into our cultural fabric. It comes with common expectations and a common language that couples and their families and friends readily recognize.
As practiced in Vermont, civil unions confer on gay couples all of the rights, benefits, and responsibilities conferred on opposite-sex married couples under state law. What civil unions cannot offer is the social approval and support that come with marriage. Civil unions have no history; they are not woven into the fabric of our culture. There are no common expectations or language that come with them. To family and friends, a civil union cannot be asserted; it must be explained. Even after the explanation, a civil union is unlikely to be regarded as the equivalent of a marriage.
This difference between gay marriage and civil unions cannot be dismissed as a merely semantic one. Words are the way we frame and experience our lives. They reflect and reinforce what we think of others and what others think of us.
Originally posted by undoit looks like it was edited. i'll watch it again, but don't start accusing me of stuff!
why would i lie about that? if you think i came in here and got my nerves tied up in knots, just so i could lie, you got another thing coming!
Originally posted by undo
it was a fake scenario to make gay people look bad, it's working. but since someone mentioned it was faked, i feel a bit better although seeing some of the responses here is certainly not very comforting.
As practiced in Vermont, civil unions confer on gay couples all of the rights, benefits, and responsibilities conferred on opposite-sex married couples under state law.
Originally posted by MAINTAL
It simply won't change a damn thing. Married or not they are STILL GAY. It is their problem they have with that NOT MINE
Originally posted by undoor it could be even worse! it could be someone trying to instigate violence between gays and christians. THINK PAST YOUR PREJUDICE PLEASE?!!
Actually they don't, this is a common misconception.