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When I first came to ATS I shared some very similar experiences and well...I dare say the "gimmee proof crowd" has gotten somewhat more belligerent and demanding.
Missing time, ending up in places not remembering how you got there, miscarriages and a "fluke" pregnancy with twins one aborted spontaneously while the other survived (and turns 20 on the 6th BTW)...there are more.
Ultimately I welcomed the additional insight from the skeptics as they were echoing my own thoughts and questions. To this day however, the explanations still do not fit as "neatly" as I require them to.
Proof goes both ways, and for me the conventional and "rational" explanations were exhausted - I researched fanatically looking for the perfect and most scietific/rational explanation(s)...some had merit to such a degree that I should have been satisfied.
Still I am not satisfied.
Still I research.
Still I look for the perfect explanation.
As someone who has experienced these things, I found that researching mental illnesses, sleep paralysis, sleep disturbances, etc etc to be more convincing that they were NOT the perfect explanations.
So what is? Was I abducted? Who the heck knows with 100% certainty?
As far as the issues of mental health are concerned.
It HAS to be considered before it can dispelled. Has anyone in your family taken psychological testing to rule it out? If not why? I took a series of tests and I can happily report that aside from Panic and Anxiety and some interesting OCD and germ issues I am clear and free of any "mental health issue" that may dilute my awareness to the here and now. Even reporting a belief in UFO's or aliens in these reports does not conclude one to be "mentally ill".
Hell I had my eyes checked, ears checked, head examined and a full physical when I was researching heavily into what I may have experienced. it's the right thing to do IMO.
I cannot say I was not abducted or visited with 100% certainty nor can I say I was, but I have at least ruled out many (MANY) of the typical physiological and psychological explanations for my experiences. And yes it is an insult of sorts to be accused of being a nut job (PC term is Psychologically unstable yes?), nobody wants to think that others think "less" of them or their capacity to grip reality. rather than get angry at the skeptics for their natural question of mental health...thank them for the input and maybe do some checking into it.
The worst that could come of researching it is you add more skill and knowledge to your belief "IN" yourself and your experiences. I am a skeptic BTW and a good one I figure.
Rule nothing out is my motto. Learn, experience and educate. In the end I lean more toward my having had experiences. For my own peace of mind I have looked at all aspects and continue to do so.
The skeptic in me demands it.
We have no idea the full capabilities of the human brain and even the full experiences of "being human" elude modern sciences. We can't rule out what we don't know THAT is a fact and truthfully there is NO PROOF that alien lifeforms 1) do not exist 2) are not visiting us.
In fact I would venture to say that there is more proof that they do and are.
Really...you are the only one who needs to feel confident and satisfied in what you believe to be true, but please don't be afraid to explore the multitudes of scientific and psychological facts and theories that "may" lead to explanations.
The worst kind of believer is one who is afraid to explore their beliefs for fear that there may be conventional/scientific/physiological or psychological explanations for what they believe to be real or true.
Likewise the same can be said of the skeptics.
Personally I think everyone should have their heads examined routinely. It's very educational.
Originally posted by HankMcCoy
This thread is my opinion based solely from observations of this website.
It seems there are 3 distinctive camps here at A&U...
The Believers.. who believe..
The Skeptics.. who aren't buying it..
and those On the Fence.. who just aren't sure..
When the truth of the matter is we only have 2 camps..
The Believers.. who believe..
The Skeptics.. who just aren't sure..
Before you begin the "OMG WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT" threads, let me finish.
Originally posted by HankMcCoyA believer, in short, is someone who believes. If you have a belief, you are a BELIEVER. A belief is solid. There isn't any room for error. This is what you know to be true, and as such, you will defend it to the bitter end.
i know i believe in about any damn thing that stimulates my mind. then all i have to do is bounce it off of my wife and she tells me how stupid it is.
Originally posted by TH3ON3
Originally posted by HankMcCoyA believer, in short, is someone who believes. If you have a belief, you are a BELIEVER. A belief is solid. There isn't any room for error. This is what you know to be true, and as such, you will defend it to the bitter end.
You presume way too much. Many believers are also scientists, and if and when evidence comes forth that could mean something different than what I believe, I would give it great thought and if proven valid change my belief based on the proven evidence.
Originally posted by Majorion
Actually Hank, I consider myself in a third category.
I'm a believer, but at the same time I'm also a skeptic.
For example, I believe that et's exist and have visited Earth, probably still do. And as much as I want to believe that such a reality will be disclosed publicly by our governments... that's where I draw the line.
When it comes to disclosure.. I have read many threads on ATS with an attempt to prove that disclosure is at hand, that disclosure is gradually occuring.. that disclosure is near. However, even though I believe in the secret being hidden, I absolutely refuse to believe that this secret will ever be revealed in any of our lifetimes by our governments no matter how much evidence is presented in a particular thread.
Do you still think that I'm part of one of your two categories?
Originally posted by HankMcCoy
All that proves is that you and other scientists are BELIEVERS in the scientific method. Are you someone that is going to give up the Scientific Method because you see something fantastic happen in front of your eyes, or are you going to analyze it and try to figure out just what exactly happened?
Originally posted by justgeneric
LOL Mozzy - maybe you should rent out your wife to the politicians!
I think everyone of us at some point or on some level is a skeptic.
I think we ALL need to be able and willing to investigate either side of a fence before setting up camp. I just wish I could find a camp to set up in...this fence is hard on the butt. But I can see for mile and miles and miles.....
Originally posted by Gaderel
stop trying to catagorize yourselves
[edit on 3/11/2008 by Gaderel]