Advice to a guy for meeting a girl....

I am currently in two classes in college where I have this beautiful girl attending on occasion, because I think she skips a lot. Anyone have any advice as to how to get to know her. Sitting next to her class would help? I am in the dark since the semester is already half way over and cannot think of how to get talking to her. This is a little embarrassing really but just thought I should ask no matter what the results....

Thanks.



[edit on 24-10-2008 by Unlimitedpossibilities]

You should choose your favorite conspiracy theory and go talk to her about it. I suggest starting with WWIII and then work your way towards the coming of the Antichrist. But if want to play it safe, rambling about Hitlers lunar station will be a homerun. It is always a solid topic to get you started with girls. Believe me, I know!


Yours sincerely:

Dick

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Anyways the advice that I was giving in playing the game with girls, was for them to chase you. Then you can be certain that they are interested in you and work things from there.

See if you can find out what interests her. (from some of her friends, they'll also let you know if you're in with a chance) Failing that, try to make her laugh. Don;t make too much of a tit out of yourself. but people always love someone who can make them laugh.

Body language. Sometimes, you can make someone very comfortalbe in your presense by just watching their body language, and slightly mimicking it. Feet positioning, posture ect.

relax, don't try too hard to impress. It'll only backfire. just try talking to her. Sometimes people will respect you more if you just bowl up to them and be blatent about it.

Good luck dudee, meeting people is never easy

and also don't place yourself in the position where your only after one girl. It won't always necessarily always work the way you want it work out. She might just want to be friends. Make sure your also be-friended other girls also.

And no matter what anybody tells you. A hole in the bottom of the popcorn is NEVER the way to go.!!

Originally posted by Acidtastic
And no matter what anybody tells you. A hole in the bottom of the popcorn is NEVER the way to go.!!

Exactly!

Go with the "hole in the bottom of an empty box made up to look like a present with a nice big red ribbon on it!" trick!

But seriously, as others have said, be yourself, don't go full on straight away, have a chat with her at the next few lessons.

This lets you scope her out and her scope you out.

If you're lucky she'll be forward about it all and ask you out!



[edit on 17-2-2009 by Chadwickus]

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my immediate response would be to tell you "DON'T" Women are nothing but trouble. They have no use for you and she probably will destroy you at her first opportunity.

Fact of the matter is it's much safer to swim with a group of great white sharks while smothered in blood and chum than it is to deal with the "fairer sex"

But if you insist on going down this foolhearty road, just try and say "hello my name is _______, what's your name?"

How about just asking her to get a coffee or something after class?
Worst she could do is say no....and then at least the wondering would be over.

You should choose your favorite conspiracy theory and go talk to her about it. I suggest starting with WWIII and then work your way towards the coming of the Antichrist. But if want to play it safe, rambling about Hitlers lunar station will be a homerun. It is always a solid topic to get you started with girls. Believe me, I know!

Sure, or maybe ask her if she'd like to join in a D&D game, or if she prefers the Transformers cartoon or the Michael Bay movie....? [sarcasm off]

How about eye contact and a smile. A question is usually a great way to get someone to respond. Doesn't need to be orchestrated guys, we see right through that.
Honesty is the best policy.

Just ask an honest question. Something you would really like to know about her...

Keep the compliments to a minimum. Unless it is really heartfelt.

And don't listen to Wuk... he's got some bitterness to deal with.

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And don't listen to Wuk... he's got some bitterness to deal with.

Just tryin to help a brother out.

For one, women don't seem to respond well to pick up lines and you probably don't want the women that do respond to them anyway.

Be yourself, if she likes you then it's going to be 10 times easier down the road. Women tend not to like guys that show their true colors six months into the relationship.

If you like her, ask her to some upcoming function or to the movies or out to dinner or perhaps even her phone number.

The worst she can say is no, take out her pepper spray, mace you, and then while your down shove a 6" stiletto into your eye socket. So you don't have anything to worry about.

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The worst she can say is no, take out her pepper spray, mace you, and then while your down shove a 6" stiletto into your eye socket. So you don't have anything to worry about.

lmao. and the least that can happen is that the girl is flattered to have any attention at all.

actually seagrass, you're bang on. Eye contact will tell you everything you need to know. If you sit in a place where it's not going to be too blatent that you're checking her out, and give the occasional sly glance with a wantant look in your eyes. Check her response, it'll tell you everything you need to know.

can you give us an update? did you ever meet her?

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Originally posted by Acidtastic
actually seagrass, you're bang on. Eye contact will tell you everything you need to know. If you sit in a place where it's not going to be too blatent that you're checking her out, and give the occasional sly glance with a wantant look in your eyes. Check her response, it'll tell you everything you need to know.

No one has ever told me I am "bang on" before. I have to say I quite like it...
Middle England... gotta go there someday.

Originally posted by nixie_nox
can you give us an update? did you ever meet her?

second line
third line

That was back in October and I am sure the term ended before Christmas... we are talking to ourselves here... lmao.

The best way I have found to get chicks to notice me is to get close enough to them so they can't ignore you then fall down on the ground and pretend to have a grand mal seizure. Foam at the mouth and bang your head on the pavement; blood at this time is a definite plus. Then when you have her attention, jump up real quick and say "see what you do to me"

Immediately she can see that you are a wild and crazy guy, not afraid of making a spectacle out of himself. Wimmin really like this.

or perhaps you could ask her out for a drink and a bite to eat.

LMAO whaaa. I would fall for it, and then kick your butt. You actors!!

this thread is like 4 months old.

Originally posted by seagrass

Originally posted by Acidtastic
actually seagrass, you're bang on. Eye contact will tell you everything you need to know. If you sit in a place where it's not going to be too blatent that you're checking her out, and give the occasional sly glance with a wantant look in your eyes. Check her response, it'll tell you everything you need to know.

No one has ever told me I am "bang on" before. I have to say I quite like it...
Middle England... gotta go there someday.

Bang on means you hit the nail on the head,bang on.

And I'm sure you'd love middle England. It's just like it is in LOTR, but without the giant talking trees. (unfortunatly, that'd be quality)