reply to post by TrueHusslin
Exactly correct. I am an American, and proud of it!
However, most people in our society today take their cue from TV or the movies. I have been saying this for the past 15 years. I am 40.
If you do come to realize this and you are American, and then try to truely realize your true personality you will be seen as "strange".
Why would you been seen as "strange"? Because if you do not use the same catch phrases, and modern mannerisms as dictated by TV, the media,
celebrities, and the movies you are strange.
Let me try to give a real world example. I notice most people when conversing in a social situation in the US, the will all give responses and act as
is expected, as is seen on TV.
They have no idea they are doing this, they would deny. But this is absolutely true, and it is a great shame.
In the US, if you do not want to seem strange in social situations you must know the correct way to act, the correct reactions, and the correct
responses. How do you learn this? Through popular culture TV, movies and the media.
It has gotten worse over time, if compared to the 1920's, through the 40's. Before TV came on the scene.
I was born and raised in NY. My father and grand parents were born and raised in NY.
I came to this conclusion right about when I was graduating hight school, and so when I attended college all of my friends were international
students. To my surprise most of my own Americans found me a little strange, only because I made it my objective NOT to act like TV or someone from
the movies.
As a result all of my good friends were international students, they immediately took to my new found real personality.
Now, I find myself bull#ting every American I meet with some phony TV persona, and they love it. If I did not do that they would say I am weird. I
don't like being perceived as "weird".
Still, to this day, foreigners seem to automatically take to me. What a strange thing.
[edit on 26-7-2008 by Electro38]