Antar= Yes/No?

Don't be sad, I sometimes feel the same as you do, where people don't reply to your post. If your posting, especially hoaxes, to seek attention then that's the wrong way to go. Do it to hopefully inspire and educate people, then you should start feeling better about your self. Or if you don't want to do that then don't post and try to educate your self from reading and researching what other people have to say.

Antar I also enjoy your contributions to this forum as much as all have stated here.
I understand where you are coming from, I think most of us have been where you are but please don't let this run you off

I admit I read more than I post now and am not as active as I used to be, nor am I great at interacting with members one on one but I do see what you do and appreciate your presence here so don't leave, you would be missed.

Soldier on lady!


[edit on 23-7-2008 by ImJaded]

Antar, you are a great soul, and i love you and your posts! You are so open to things and so spiritual, that i always love your points of view.

You know, i've had close contact with many who then for no reason stopped communicating- could have been something i said on a post totally unrelated to them.....could be they have new friends, but dont let that stop you from sharing and being here, please!!!!!

You have many friends here, as you can see by the size of your thread, so please, dont leave or feel this way. ok?

YOU COUNT and you make a difference in MY life.

Lots of love- dg

Antar,

I personally love reading your posts. You have an excellent way of putting things and I appreciate you here...

I wonder if just "wondering" if you should be on ATS is not the surest sign that you do in fact fit in?

So...

YES

Semper

What, I take a little to long to solve your computer issues and you want to take your marbles and go home???




On a serious note, not all will agree with you oe even like you.

This is life.

Enjoy your friends, ignore the idiots.

Antar, I don't think you should go either. I don't think I've ever talked to you, but I've read quite a few of your posts and you always seem to have something intelligent to say and you always seem nice . You're also one of the people I look up to on here

You're one of the people who make ATS/BTS what it is (the good part that is) and if you leave it will be one less person to keep ATS/BTS strong.

I know how you feel about threads and posts too. But I just think, if it's important and you feel people need to know about it, then you should post it. If it's important it could help people and they might need to hear something that you would say. You're unique and bring something different to the table, where would we be if everyone thought and said the same things?

In reading this thread again, i couldnt help wondering why theres such a rash of people who feel they dont belong here.

Are we supposed to be here by popular demand? I wouldnt be here then.

Maybe i just have the gift of not really caring, being an Aquarian and all, but i never really give that much thought. Are we here to be loved?
Are we here for approval of ourselves and our personalities?

Antar, you must realize that friends and approvals are all great, but we have to learn to separate our real lives from ATS.
You have friends and family who love you, as do i. I know we can really get into this place, and as for me, i've had my feelings hurt too. But we have to be realistic, you know?

I'm sorry but i think we and many lately are keeping this place too close to our hearts, way too close, to the point where some of us actually sit here and think, "Gee, so and so was mean, gee, i havent heard from so and so, and the ever proverbial question:

BET THEY'RE SAYING # ABOUT ME ON U2U'S!!!!! and they are, but we cant let that bother us....

These are just some thoughts i have today on threads related to people
who arent sure if they belong or not.

As many years as i've been here, i havent thought of anyone not belonging here.
ok?

Each of us have our own personalities, each of us are special.

Let them talk.

This, Antar, is in no way meant to put you down in your feelings, but just a general comment across the board, because some people HAVE left over the years because they felt inadequate.

That should not be the case.

Lotsalove,
dg

So not a big reject!

I have laughed and cried, and felt my heart open completely with this thread.

I need to go lay down, 'migraine'. Yet now I will lay with bliss in my heart for ATs/BTS and my friends here.

So many incredible replies I'm blown away.

Please excuse me, I do promise to come back and reply, let me first take a little break, and re-energize.

Wow, such great advisors. Such beautiful caring members, maybe virtual, but non the less loved and appreciated.

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antar sorry I haven't been on the ATS much. I'm getting ready for a court case. We were frauded by a business and could lose everything. Hopefully, the Attorney General will help us. I can't believe how corrupt this town is. Hopefully, there's more good than evil. I know the animals are good at least and they give me hope.
You know I've alway's enjoyed your post and hope you stay. Whenever, I get a spare moment I will write you okay?
Make that headache go away, I know you can do it.

Antar, I enjoy your posts. You would be missed if you left.

Just one thing...what is the loop you were writing about?

I've not ever been in the ATS/BTS loop. How do you get there?

If I never posted again I would not be missed for even one second.

I have noticed there does seem to be a group of members that seem to be very close.

Antar, you are one of those special members that have many friends. You are truly blessed.

Your friends would be very sad if you left them.

Yes............stay.