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Originally posted by AcesInTheHole
If you are on good terms, it should be no problem. I've dealt with some borderline crazy friends and family of ladies, and they will always appreciate a good person in my experience. Asking your friend is first and formost, out of respect. That will get you in good even better then before. If he thinks you would treat her right, it will be no problem. If not, or if he is uncomfortable with it, find another lady because it's not worth losing a friend.
Originally posted by Seaman_Richie
Please tell me it would be okay to pursue her : ) Honestly, what do you think? She’s absolutely stunning , she’s 3 years younger than I am and she’s about to enter college I’m 19…
Originally posted by riley
Originally posted by Seaman_Richie
Please tell me it would be okay to pursue her : ) Honestly, what do you think? She’s absolutely stunning , she’s 3 years younger than I am and she’s about to enter college I’m 19…
.. so she's a sweet sixteen then?
I strongly recommend you tell your friend exactly how you feel about his baby sister.. and be sure to tell us what happens.
Originally posted by ThePiemaker
Going to her brother first is a good idea, see if he's receptive to the idea of you dating her.
If he's fine with it, the other main problem that could arise is if you two start going out and find out somewhere down the road you aren't meant for each other. breaking up could ruin your friendship with the brother, depending upon how the break up goes down. Ideally, there should be more than just her looks that you like about her for this situation to go well. you can't expect a brother to be cool with you treating his sister like a piece of meat.
Originally posted by Crakeur
I'd say it depends on the relationship with your friend. if she says yes and you start dating her and one of you breaks the other's heart, will you be able to stay friends? will you want to? normally I'd say ask your friend if it would be ok to ask his sister out on a date but you mentioned they're hispanic. that changes everything.
I'm kidding. the fact that they are hispanic is meaningless. we're all people. what you do, how you react and behave should be the same for one race. the human race. nationalities, colors, religions etc are not factors that should cause us to treat people differently.
do unto others etc.
Originally posted by nahsik
got a pic? jokes..
Remember your best friend is the person that knows you best of all.
Get his acceptance and then this pretty ladies. Once this is dont get the parents acceptance. Everything should be fine and dandy for a serious relationship
Originally posted by syress
Dont do it man, if you are friends with her brother and good friends the there should be a code of honor between her and you, a brother can be protective and i am sure you and him get up to some trouble every now and then.
also if things dont go right with her your friendship with the brother may die.