posted on Jul, 1 2008 @ 06:10 PM
reply to post by watch_the_rocks
I'm sure you're just kidding, but I'll say this anyway. When I was married a few years back my wife said that I was a complete flirt, but I didn't
know what she meant by this. Sure I like to joke around with the opposite sex. Sure I like to make forward comments that I have no real intention of
going further with, but I'm no flirt.
See that is the problem with flirting. there is no real deffinition of flirting unless you read and study bodylanguage. Real flirting is non-verbal
body gestures to let the other person know that you are sexually interested in them. I'm not talking about slidding your tounge at the corner of your
lips or anything like that. Real flirting involves subtle like a man buffing his chest out slitly. So slitly that a female notices it but other males
don't. Women stroke there hair as a flirtatious move of attraction that most men don't even notice.
I could go on for ever about this subject because I've educated myself greatly on Social Psychology.
So the bottom line is eveyone has there own idea of what basic flirting is. What one person thinks is flirting another might think is sexual
harasment.
I consider myself forward, but not flirtatious.