posted on Mar, 12 2008 @ 06:01 PM
I have been a nurse for the last 10 years. In that time I've worked in the areas of Med/Surg, Oncology, Pediatrics, Long term care, and Medicare.
Each year I've watched as the laws have changed making it harder and harder to do the job. I've watched as State and Federal laws are contradicted
by corporate policies, rendering that law ineffective, and I've watched as good nurses have lost their license because some rule had changed and they
didn't know about it.
Recently a local news station had an expose' about abuse and neglect in nursing homes. In that time frame they talked about alcohol and drug
addiction being rampit among nurses, and nurses who steal from patients. What should have made me feel sad for the victims, only made me feel like
raging at the news station. In 10 yrs of nursing I have only seen 1 case of intended abuse/neglect. I've seen 1 case of theft of narcotics, and 2
cases of staff showing up under the influence.
I currently work in long term care, and most of our residents have some form of dementia. What we, the staff, face every day is caring for ppl who
are one step away from some form of phsycosis. The system as it's set up now, makes it impossible to take care of residents who are acting
troublesome. I'll give you an example.
Recently we had a resident who was acting violently towards other residents. throwing things at them in the dinning room when he didn't like what
they had to say or what they were doing. The law says we can not isolate residents as a means of disepline, it's considered abuse. We can not
medicate as a means of restraint, we can not use restraints of any kind. So, as a way to deal with this situation we talked with the family and the
resident in question and had them sign an agreement that the behavior would stop. That lasted a day because even though the family did try to get
through to the man, he suffers from demetia and doesn't remember anything from one day to the next. After this happened several times and the doctor
played around with his meds attempting to find a combination that would solve the problem. The management finally told the family that they would
need to look for another place for him to live. Well that bombed out, because with his violent background no other facility wanted to take him on.
The last time I saw him he threw a table knife at another resident at his table, and when the staff went to remove him from the dinning room they
found another knife in his pocket. At that point our DON ordered that he be sent to the ER for an emergancy Phsyc evaluation, then told us that no
matter what we were not to take him back. A short time later we received a call from the ER saying, "Hey you can't just dump him here like this!"
Our DON showed some backbone and refused to take him back, telling the ER nurse that we had done everything we could for him and therefore could no
longer meet his needs.
Of course the family was furious and have been making all kinds of threats. There's been talk of a law suit, and I have no doubt that in the end
this decision will cost our facility thousands. But what do you do in this situation?
I can give you hundreds of senarios just like this where one individual consumes the time a nurse has on the floor and others get neglected in the
process. However, it's not the family or that resident that will pay the cost, it's the nurse, because while the nurse is spending her time trying
to calm this kind of person down, others needs are not gettin met, the families of those ppl get upset too, and blame the nurse.
I have 35 residents on my shift. If I'm in the middle of inserting a catheter and someone falls I'm in trouble. If I finish what I'm doing the
person on the floor has to wait, and if they have an injury the family screams neglect. If I don't finish what I'm doing and instead go to the
fallen person then the family of the person I left screams neglect because their loved one is now suffering. It's an endless cycle of you're damned
if you do and damned if you don't. I've been bitten, scratched, and punched. I've been urinated on, and had feces thrown at me. I've been
called every name in the book and had my breasts, crotch, and butt grabbed more times then I care to mention. This happens when you try to clean
confused residents up and they don't understand what you're doing. You don't have to do anything to insite their rage, if they don't get it,
you're in trouble.
I'd just like to know when someone is going to stand up for us! The nurses who are out here doing the best we can under impossible odds!