What would you do if you found your spouse in bed with another person?

1. Pull out a gun and kill your spouse and the other partner.

2. Take off your clothes and have a threesome.

3. Leave the room and never think of it again.

4. Divorce.

5. Don't be mad since you also do the same thing as well behind your spouse's back.

#3 with a modification. Leave and never think of it again..along with never see or talk to her again. Pack my stuff and go.

Now if its my house...throw all her out the windown and door onto the lawn, grab him by the neck and show him men really can fly, and tell her to GTF out, grab your and don't EVER come back...matter of fact forget I exsist...because I won't even remember your name by tomorrow!

Life is way to short to hurt and mope over someone like that. I'll be damned if I let a cheater ruin my life and let me live with stress.

I'd leave the room to calm myself, get a camera, go back in, take a few pictures, throw both of them out without saying a word, only resorting to physical means if I have to. File for divorce, use the pictures in court, get custody of the kinds, if there are any, put her stuff up on e-bay and then proceed to live a normal life.

Honestly it depends on the specific details of what happened and my relationship to my spouse.

But with the choices given, probably 3 at first. Then I would have a long talk with my spouse and say "This must mean we are in an open relationship and so I can see other people too." and you know how well that usually works out.

I would probably black out and beat some
Did this happen to you?
It really depends on how much you love the person, if you'll want them to leave, or not!

I'd get violent but not to the point of killing someone. I'd beat the crap out him first and only beat the "other woman" if she gets involved to defend him.. then she's fair game.

after I kicked butt and them both out, I'd cry my eyes out... but then it will end with #4 DIVORCE.

[edit on 2-27-2008 by worldwatcher]

Well I know what I would like to do in this situation. try and really freak em out... Laugh and be like, "aww now isn't this wonderful? I love you, you know that? I really Freakin' love you!!!!!" start screaming and getting all hysterical with laughter and stuff, make em think i'm nuts!

But on the real, I would probably leave the room..If it was my house, I would make it clear, Very, Very clear, both of them need to leave, if not, i would gladly leave but they would know I was leaving, they would know ahahaha.

Nothing would be said about it until the next day. I would be very mature about it, have a mature conversation and make it clear that we are never going to talk again, or at least not for a very very long time

I have to be different, I'd go with number 2. Why not have some too.

I hope she's a hottie!!!

A_L

Hmmm,
What would I do?
Hmmm, I hope it would be winter so I could have the satisfaction of seeing them in the snow after I had transported them both out side.

Then I'd pop a bottle of wine and look at them together with all the neighbors. Yep.
Sorry, no mercy, just out, no violence, just out.
And then I'd start crying.
WIS

If they were both hot Women then No.2. Then live with both of them.

Another man? What WestPoint23 said.

I would go with number 2, but only if it's another woman

Otherwise I'm on to the next. Get mad?.......Hardly, I don't chase them, I replace them. LOL.

Jealousy is such a primitive emotion when you think about it. I would take that as a sign that we are free to date other people.

Wow your looking kinda cute! Look up a lil bit for me!

[edit on 28-2-2008 by Givenmay]

I would be breaking some leggs..... just so the guy couldnt go anywhere, then get my cam, an make a lil movie, after i have my secs of film i would then proceeed to track main mans g/f lover mom lol if none exsists, I shall photoshop ( if i even have to ) his picture rather unpleasantly an plaster it as ( have you seen this man ) flyers all over baltimore city, and well maryland and DC as well..

not to mention my wife would have her bags unneatly packed an already waiting for her in a cab to go ( whereever the wind blows ) then i will keep tabs on this main man, and make sure the rest of his relations never pan out... for messing with my women would destroy my world and well I always treat others how I am treated....

Oh, id make sure I was smiling the whole time...... MUAHAHAHAHAHAAHA

this wouldnt be jealousy this would be rage...... 5 years of marriage shouldnt lead to this without some conversations about the marriage not working in the 1st place, if no such conversation came to past an this happened, yes the above would become 2nd nature......

then jail i supposed, but honestly jail is now a recruiter for various gangs and organizations... Who knows what life path I would choose after that. either or it'll be a bumpy ride.

Bottom line, that sex better of been good enuff to stop living over...

[edit on 28-2-2008 by Trance Optic]

I'd pick option 4.

I've been married to my lovely wife for just under a year.

If I came home and found her in the sack with someone else I'd probably be at a lawyer before the end of the night.

Infidelity has always been something I've considered the lowest thing you can do to another person.

Unless you're in a relationship where it is agreed upon (i.e. free marriage, spouse swappers, whatever), there is simply no excuse for this.

If you're unhappy, then split up (legally or otherwise) and then go have your sex. At least have the respect or gusto to do the right thing and end the relationship first (regardless of whether your think your significant other would do the same).

I'm the last person to encourage someone to stay in a relationship they are unhappy in. If it's bad, or not working, get out. But I'm the first person to say you gotta call it off before you get to start sleeping with someone else.

Hopefully that explains why I'd do number 4. I'm not a violent person so number one isn't really an option, though I can understand how someone might be upset enough to do that. Number two...well, as fun as that might sound, the reality is that it's probably not an option either. Couldn't do number three, I'd have that resentment with me the rest of my life...and if thats the case, there isn't a reason to be in the relationship anymore. And I think my opinions explain why number 5 isn't an option either.

Here is something that will put a whole new spin on the topic:

You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.(Matthew 5:27-28)

What choices do we have now?

#4

pure and simple.

Take a photo
send it to his work

Kick his butt
kick her butt
Burn his clothes
scrape his car - then sell it on ebay for 2p


walk of with a smile on meh face

Divorce

LOL asala read my post we think alike. lol


thats great.... even you got the smiling thing too! HHAHAHAHA Vengence shall be pushed aside for insanity lol....



lol no death seeing how thats too easy for a situation like this, we need a more long term solution for a person like that an the misses ....... heh lets just say you write a book an make it fiction lol.....

[edit on 28-2-2008 by Trance Optic]

[edit on 28-2-2008 by Trance Optic]

Hehe this song comes to mind,

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sing along

[edit on 28-2-2008 by asala]

[edit on 28-2-2008 by asala]

Momentarily shocked. Sit in livingroom as I yell to her to get dressed and get out. Yell to him he's got 5 minutes to pack clothes. They both leave. Call Salvation Army to arrange for bed pick up. Call locksmith to arrange for new locks. On way to lawyer to carry out option 4, buy new bed and new lovely bedding.

Return home, feel sorry for both. Laugh imagining sending them a "Happy Start to Your New Life" card. Beter yet, Year of Rat card. Have a glass of Turn on music and Immediately start new life.