what did u do for Valentine's day?

we took the kids to Chucky Cheese's, spent most of the day there, then to my grandmother's for the night. Then me and hubby just chilled at home...i don't need to say anything else.

This girl who i really REALLY liked told me she loved me at 11pm waking up my parents and pissing them off....of course i #ed that up by not knowing what ta say...then the next day i managed to tell her that I felt the same way....then just a few hours ago I asked her to be my gurl....lifes sweet.

Woke up, went to work, came home, had a shower, ate dinner, now on ats, like almost every other day (with the exception of sunday, when i'm usually catching up on sleep.

Had the boss ask why i wasn't doing anything and his girlfriend asked what (my) girlfriend situation was like... I mean, it's harder to NOT have a relationship in this society, and to have to always resort to lying and making up some reason, and pretend that i'm looking (when in reality, i really cbf looking) only to stutter, and have people pity me. I just wish everyone wasn't delusional about relationships and tricked into thinking that a "real" (if that word does have such a definition) relationship is healthy for EVERYONE, and that those that don't have it are "poor cases".
They end up saying "it's okay, you do what you want, whatever makes you happy".
*This is the part where a mental dialogue box pops up and says "remind me in:". I usually select 1 month, but they sometimes ask me randomly time and time again.

I have to make up some reason that i wasn't in a relationship in front of all my relatives when i was visiting my grandfather's grave (out of all places). I had to justify myself.

Personally, i have the final satisfaction when i go to bed at night, and not have to worry about much, while my brother argues with his girlfriend about space, or my parents begin arguing about random #.

Then i watched tv for 5 seconds, and realised why i don't have a girlfriend. Apparently it costs you $900, with a small rock as proof.
Maybe the "girlfriend" i've been thinking of all my life differs from the girlfriend that everyone tells me about that costs a yearly subscription fee.

Half way through here.

So far, my SO got up and went to work without saying goodbye to me because our son was asleep in our bed. I'm spending the day with our son, because he is on half term from pre-school.
He'll get home and have dinner. I'm on a special medically recommended diet so we won't be sharing a meal. We'll put our little boy to bed, and then play Metal Gear Solid HD. I'll probably get tired by 10pm and go to bed in the hopes he won't try getting romantic and go to sleep.

I took the day off work, and cooked a most delicious shepherds pie for my girlfriend, i also had gone to the florists on saturday last and ordered a dozen red roses ( which cost £ 45 ) !!!!!!!! and had them delivered to her work place today as a surprise, and according to her all the girls in the office where she works were so jealous he he he as i had done the same thing last year on valentines day. So one up for me then eh.

Icanseeatoms.

Sent her an e-card with a Metallica image on.

Surprised I wasn't killed, she hates Valentine's Day as much as I do but figured first one "together" as such, might as well do something.