So my brother had some basal cell carcinoma taken out of his cheek yesterday

My dogs were bugging out all day. I had a horrible dream about his being hurt last nite. I asked him to contact me.
He had a hunk of skin cancer taken out of his cheek last nite.
He is the golden one. PHD, never smoked, drank etc.
It should be me.
And why the f would I be able to know, without knowing?

The question was, how should I somehow know this. Me in Ohio, he in North Carolina. Limited contact. Just how the f should I have known he was in trouble? Or hurt? How?

You know, I really shouldn't expect much on this board. I really shouldn't.
When reality prompts funkadilly I suppose you all cave like a house of cards.

you know why,were all connected,our minds are one big interconnected electric circuit!.its our other senses that drown it all out,read up on john c lilly!.

good luck to your bro,it'l be fine,most of us get something of this ilk at somepoint in their lives!!

my mother and her sis are the same,the sis is xtian,veggie never smokes,drinks or anything yet shes sick as a dog for years,weighs like 6 stone and can hardly walk.whilst my mothers still getting high and drinkin like a fish and i cant remember the last time she got sick!

must be the genes ;-)

Most appreciated 'we live'. Why you show such kindness and insight is not understood, but most appreciated.
Thank you!

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Hmm, so you say your brother had a cancerous lump taken from his cheek last night, and you had a bad dream last night about him too so decided to call him?

Wow, you certainly sound sincere. Is your reaction more one of awe and freaked out or awe and freaked out and depressed?

This is a rare experience. It could make much sense that you might have been able to tell how he is. My mother used to be very sensitive to this, and could feel if something wrong was in the air. There is a lot of information on this subject.

Do you feel you are responsible for his cancer?

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My Mom used to know who was calling when the phone rang. Freaked us all out. It is what it is. Nothing more, nothing less. I had no contact with brother for two weeks, yet phone, email were always there.
I'm not bs'ing you NY, it happened. I have a lot of other things to do than make up stuff. It happened.
I'm terribly sorry. I can most understand anyone's incredulousness. Most understandable. I truly wish at this point I did not even bring it up. It's a personal matter. I thought this forum would be more understanding, freaky dream, real life. My bad.

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No problem. I was just saying you seem overwhelmed and it sounds like it.

Is this really getting to you or something?

Aww geez, my only big brother getting a hunk taken out of his face for basal cell carcinoma, yeah it gets to me. Sorry, I should have contacted St. Stephens free prayer service. Sorry if I've bored you. My prophetic dream of a major malfunction thougt it would bring it to bore within this forum. I really need to clam up sometimes, especially on personal
matters. I merely thougt a prophetic dream/nitemare might have some
inclination to this forum. Yeah, I'm having a problem with this. This topic was way too personal to expand upon a forum. My apologies.
Thanks for all your kind thoughts.
John
'Do I feel I am responsible for his cancer? No. I think that is a heartless retort. Would I take it upon myself? You betcha ya.'


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