Any Pansy Can Have Sex -- It Takes Strength to Love

Originally posted by ben91069

The truth is, most relationships are based - like the OP says - on a lie. If you loved your lover the way you loved your children, it would last.

Oh, sorry, should have said "Romantic love is a lie."

You have no idea what I went through with my abusive husband, and to intimate that if I had loved him the way I love my children it would have lasted is insulting.

This man gave me PTSD. So if you please, spare me the blame the victim nonsense, along with the Bible quotes. Thanks.

Originally posted by MajorMalfunction

Oh, sorry, should have said "Romantic love is a lie."

You have no idea what I went through with my abusive husband, and to intimate that if I had loved him the way I love my children it would have lasted is insulting.

I did not mean to insult you, and I am in no way judging your circumstances.

This man gave me PTSD. So if you please, spare me the blame the victim nonsense, along with the Bible quotes. Thanks.

How could I blame you? I am not one to judge you anyway, and even if I were no one on this board has heard firsthand, but one side of the argument.