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I never understood why people claim that society is morally sinking.
People have always had affairs there have always been gay people around and so on.
The only difference now is that society is becoming more open tolerant which is how it should be.
No one is forced to cheat on there spouse or to stay with a partner who cheats on them or mistreats them.
Originally posted by TheDuckster
Depending on the 'depth marker' or water/moral' displacement marker you are judging with. One man's/womans morals are obviously different to others.
Yes...people have 'always had affairs'...since time immoral. What I'm bringing to light is the 'blatent attempt' regarding some companies that are 'legally corporate and stricken' to providing a wedge into what the rest of us moral folk deem as honored promises of a sacred sanctum - marriage
That's what I'm looking at right now. Is this the 'norm'?
When do our Promises to one-another become NULL & VOID when we sign Matrimonial papers?
It is doubtful at best, that the terminology of 'marriage' plays NO part in what we as society deem as 'moral structures'.
How can we set any standards in society, without fear of reprisal?
How do we all sleep so soundly at night, justifying these things?
Interesting discussion BTW.
Yep everyone has a differnt idea of morality.
Well the company's are a bit like private security contractors they are just taking advantage of a market that exits.
Well martial vowels are only worth as much stock as you put in them . You cant control how much value someone else puts on the institution of marriage.
Well I have my morals and I will always defend what I think is right. But at the same time I know that I cannot convert people who have a differnt belief system to me.
Its simple we have an open and tolerant society that hides nothing in the closet all of which leads to a freer society.
I can sleep at night because I am comfortable with my beliefs and I don't worry about what other people are doing.
Where to start ?
As for the worth of someone promise that all depends on the horses mouth. If you discover that someone promise isnt reliable then you know that you cant rely on that person. Now to what a persons word is worth well obviously a person who keeps there promises word is worth a whole lot more then some one who is all hot air.
Your bringing to light how society is failing your moral standards that is an important distinction to make. Clearly there are some people that don't follow your moral code.
I want to make it clear that I think adultery is wrong.
The Freedom by which a man or a woman can commit adultery also gives them the right to divorce an abusive partner or someone who has cheated on them. Let me put it this a women can get out of abusive marriage and get a part of any property and assets taken. By the same token a women could run off with another man and do the same thing.
I am guy but I would never deny Women equal rights just because some of them will make questionable moral decisions. Not quiet out of sight out of mind if the gay members of my family were being harassed or threntened I would stick up for them and take what ever measures I deem necessary.
However as an Atheist I'm not going to walk into a church and point out what is wrong those beliefs who rely on faith.
You don't seem to grasp the fact that everyone idea of how to show respect is differnt for example some people that bible bashing is a way of showing respect.
I don't like adultery because I wouldn't want someone to do that to me
But that doesn't change the fact that people chose to be unfaithful.
But cant you see that doesn't mean that I have the ability even if I wanted to try and stop the population from committing adultery.
IMO I would say that the people that use private firms to cover the tracks when committing adultery aren't the ones that cheat on there partners because of failings in there marriage. Rather they would have affairs because it is the norm to them.
I used the example of my gay family member to illustrate my point. I hope you understood where I was coming from. When your dealing with morality you will always get the full load .
Originally posted by TheDuckster
Yes I do. And I'm telling you right here and now, that I have a helluvolot of respect for people's opinions...yours included.
I think you are in a majority of us that don't subscribe to this dispicable action. I have yet to hear on those who feel differently.
The 'norm'...this is what I was asking about.
I do understand. I won't delve into this, as I've stated before that this pertains to another thread.