Is the world going girly?

hehehe thanks man wow i guess i was wright^^that makes me all warm and fuzzy inside

Originally posted by Unisol
she is nice inside but likes treats me like crap and commands me,in the begining i though she is just "......." but when i confront her rude shield brokes,shes doing it on purpose dont know why...
and me being stupid let her treat me that way

yes i have there once before and i can tell you it will not work
walk away now and do not look back.
you will always let her treat you like this and she WILL get a kick out of it.
her heart is not in the right place and you will not change that.
sorry dude, i really am but i am telling you from experience.
go and find a nice girlfriend who will not try and hurt you.
good luck
spliffy

Originally posted by Unisol
well then again i like some metal
the song "so cold" by breakin benjamin, i like it very much
u know it?

Please don't use chatspeak. It makes you look more like an idiot than you already look like.

Originally posted by Unisol
i admit i didnt think about the metal,there isnt girly metal bt i here a lot of girls listen to green day and three day grace or what whas the name sorry^^
do lots of males listen to them also?
and for the hip hop even though i know english i its just sounds so nice on english,i just like the way it sounds and the bass.
what u think about 50 cent - fire?mm^^?

... Lmao. How old are you, honey? And what language do you normally speak in?

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I only liked Green Day when they came out with "Dookie." All their other stuff was crap IMO.

im fron a country that dosnt speak english,so EXCUSE me for my language,and if i use words like "u""thx""ur" thats couse i just learned to use them.im 18 years old,happy now?yes there was stupid stuff in my thread but if u people were that grown up then me why do u use such miserys as "makes u look more like an idiot then u already are"
i came here to enjoy the forums,i wont be banned couse i sweared,but i really wanted to...
do you people actualy enjoy sarcasticly insulting other people and making ur self look more then them?


spliffy thx man i know that i found a nicer girl once,gone find another one again^^


[edit on 13/9/07 by Unisol]

[edit on 13/9/07 by Unisol]

Although I don't agree with everything you said, Unisol, I do think you've touched on something. It does seem like "manliness" is being more discouraged, and "girly" men are sort of "in." I am by no means the dominant alpha male type, but I can definitely see it going on around me. In some ways, it can be a good thing, and in other ways it can be destructive. I see it at work all the time. I work in an environment that's primarily female. By primarily, I mean there's only two men at my work, myself being one of them. The girls there really do have a habit of trying to turn men "girly." Things that I do often get demeaned or degraded. Not to an extreme extent, but I do see it happening. And no, maybe this isn't a popular viewpoint for me to have, but it's the truth of the situation.

Look at television these days. How often do you see the man in the show being the intelligent, reasonable, strong figure whose always right and the woman being the opposite? It's extremely rare, but just the other day I was watching the show Scrubs, and one of the last narrations in the episode was something along the lines of "Deep down, men know that strong, confident women will always be in control of them. And when we come across them, they will always make us feel like..." At this point, it cut to a scene that was meant to depict the male lead characters as children. Was this a little offending? Yes. Was I surprised? Not in the least. It's very common these days. Look at shows like Everybody Loves Raymond. And in a society that spends multiple hours a day watching television, what are the implications of this? I see it in relationships as well. I know people who are complete emotional basket cases. They're thin, long-haired, man-bag carrying guys that are constantly swarmed by attractive women. Why? They don't mind being "taken care of" by their girlfriends. Their girlfriends play the dominant role, and they just kind of kick back. I'm sorry, but that just doesn't sit well with me. Is it possible that my opinions are motivated by jealousy? Perhaps...

I'm not suggesting that everybody should simply stay "in their place," but playing on our strengths is the way our society has survived for so long. When our strengths are being discouraged and society is trying to take them away, what happens?

waaw thank you herman that was a nice thing u sayd,i also learned that changing people is a bad thing,and changing ur self for someone is also bad(usualy i guess but still)
i dont know maybe we sometimes like it when girls walk over s i dont know maybe its sexy XD

before i was pretty upset couse of girls dating jerks then after they broke up they date the next jerk and never try to give the nice guy that loves them a chance.but then i realised im doing the same thing,i like some evil girl that treats me like crap and dosnt like the nice girl,guess we people are stupid like that^^

Originally posted by Unisol
guess we people are stupid like that^^

Hence my first post in this thread was proven!

It's has come full circle. People are dumb

"Please don't use chatspeak. It makes you look more like an idiot than you already look like."
kacen u really find pleasure in insulting people infront of everyone and making urself look cool or sometin?
yea sure im an idiot,better then to be a JERK like you!
paresthesia how old am i?18?you also seem to like being sacrastic to people and think your something more?

I know the Bay is going girls with the bay day sales meant for womens right to be sexy. how sexy they can be you know those "bay day" commercials omg please stop already

what about mans right to be sexy!

well unfortunatly darwinism hasnt caught up to some people but we can always hope for another global war