Today the parents of Madeleine McCann met the Pope in Rome, where he spent a short time with the British couple and blessed a photo of thier missing
daughter.
Maddy's parents meet the Pope
As a parent of two young daughters myself, i have taken great interest in this story. Today though i have heard two sides to the public opinion
relating to the McCann's search for thier daughter. Some i can understand, some i thought might be a bit insensitive, but when i thought about it,
were just as understandable.
I'm posting this to ask opinions of the members here.
One view seems to be this. The parents are doing everything they can to highlight thier daughters dissapearance wherever they can in order to maximise
the chances of her being found safe. Rightly so, i would do no less.
The Portugese police don't seem to be getting very far with the investigation, so the parents are taking matters into thier own hands, and are
getting massive financial and emotional support along the way to do this.
This is great news for little Madeleine and her relatives.
Another view i have heard several times today on the tv is this...
Whilst it has been great that the awareness of missing children has been made much more prominent due to this case, how must the familes of other
missing children, past and present be feeling right now?
Were they given hundreds of thousands of pounds to help look for thier children? Were they granted celebrity style status whilst being flown in
private jets around the world to meet people like the Pope?
Would a single parent from a run down part of one of our cities who may have left her kids to go down the pub for a drink, be allowed this much
support or would they be looking at a lot less support along with the constant threat of a criminal charge and social services banging on your
door?
Again, i'm just asking for comments based on what i have heard on the news today.
Some people point to this being a case of, "How much money you have", or "Who you know". The McCann's are obviously not a couple of are short of
cash being in the professions they are in. They obviously have either friends in high places, or they are able to generate a lot better media
attention that most parents of missing children.
A few people have even commented on the fact that they are a religous family, and whether they are getting more leeway on this as a result of them
bringing faith into everything they say and do in this investigation.
Personaly i think the religon comments are uncalled for. I am not religous in the slightest, but i can see why someone may use faith for support if
they lose thier little one.
Then again, i can't remember all the other parents of missing children being given audiences with the queen or holy figures here.
I feel there is so much emotion, and indeed frustration attached to this case that it is stirring a mixed reaction from the public. I like to think
that it is still mainly positive, and maybe there seems more attention to Madeleines case because there simply is, more attention being brought to
it.
I hear people almost afraid to say it, but are asking whether or not the McCann's will face charges after this is all over. Would the police be
advised not to due to the publics attatchment to the McCann's now, or would letting them off be a kick in the teeth to other parents who have been
charged with neglect after they left thier kids alone in the past when something has gone wrong?
So what do people think here? I'd imagine that like me, most would do exactly the same as the McCann's are doing given the chance if thier baby was
missing. Then again, as i have seen today, there are many mixed reactions to all this.
I would dearly love to see this all come to a happy ending, but it is a few weeks now and nothing. I hope that the visit with the Pope today may help
someone in the world who knows where Maddy is, to speak out against her captors.
I would also dearly love to see the parents of the next child that goes missing, to be afforded absoloutely no less support and financial help that
the parents of Maddy are getting. If not, thats when there will be a lot of questions.
All children are priceless and need as much support as we can give, regardless of class, colour or background.
Whatever happens, i know it has made me appreciate my kids more than i thought i ever could.
CX.