Can someone advise me?

Originally posted by INeedHelp

Who did?

Everyone that has posted in your thread with you asking for help.You simply dont like what your hearing.

Irrelevant. I was not stalking her. I was stubborn, but you can't say I was stalking, because it would mean you're calling me a criminal.

You need to stop accusing people of calling you things they didn`t,whats being said is that your coming across that way as a stalker and I said if you continued she would have called the authorities.

Hahahahaha! Notify because of what? Because I sent her a few e-mails? Because I kept trying to talk to her at the university she and I attend? Because I asked her if I can escort her home?

Yes exactly that plus because you cant take no for an answer.She doesn`t like let alone love you! ,end of story.

No. I meant causing her to stop disliking me/being reluctant to be my girlfriend.

The membership here can see why she doesn`t like you also and besides that you have nearly angered a lady here as well (who I`ve never seen angry myself),simply for giving you the advice you asked for and because you cant take a hint.

I don't. I just said that no girl wants me. However, I was trying to win her over because I think she's the best girl on the planet, not because I want her to save me.

Then work on the reasons that no girl wants you,instead of being stubborn to one girl.Thats why your creeping this girl out.

Just because I or anyone thinks someone else is the best on the planet is not a reason to believe you should be a couple.Thats how stalkers think with movie stars etc.

And your going to university, but cant figure this out?

Have you at least come to the conclusion that you and her will never be a couple?

Originally posted by gps777
You simply dont like

No, I just have not been advised. One person even admitted no one can advise me because according to that person I must learn myself.

You need to stop accusing people

You need to stop denying that you made false accusations. I was called a stalker by several people including you. That means you have called me a criminal, because stalking is a crime.

she would have called the authorities.

I haven't committed a crime so I can't be arrested.

Yes exactly that plus because you cant take no for an answer.She doesn`t like let alone love you! ,end of story.

You are a citizen of what state? North Korea?

Just because I or anyone thinks someone else is the best on the planet is not a reason to believe you should be a couple.

I didn't say it is the sole reason.

Originally posted by INeedHelp

One person even admitted no one can advise me because according to that person I must learn myself.

thats called advice this is getting funny cheers.

Its not bad advice,you certainly do need to learn yourself,though you should take the advice also given that for your own good leave the girl alone.

I haven't committed a crime so I can't be arrested.

A restraining order wouldn`t be out of order if you pursue her again.I hope she has the good sense to do just that if you continue.


I`m done here.Bye bye.

Originally posted by gps777
A restraining order

A restraining order to do what? Stop talking to her at the university (which I'm allowed to do?) Stop sending her e-mails (which I've anyway done even though I'm allowed to do so and even though she can delete them)? I have never interacted with her anyhow else. So what would the court forbid me to do? Britain isn't North Korea.

[edit on 14-4-2007 by INeedHelp]

Look.

The bottom line to this is that, when a woman feels an attraction to you, you have a quick window of opportunity to leap into action and do something about it, before she loses respect for you and starts thinking about other men.

To try to follow a woman around and "persuade" her to love you or want you, after she has utterly lost respect for you, is not only futile - but could get you in trouble with the police or worse.

The ONLY thing that can possibly turn such situations around, is for her to see you, for example, walking around the university campus with a beautiful woman on each arm. "WHOA, maybe there's something more to that guy than I thought! Those two beautiful women must see something in him....."

But "INeedHelp", my friend..... you are still a LONG way away from that, so please.... just give up on this girl, and work on getting your life together.

And quit being rude to people that try to help you.