Way dos this happen�

Way dos this happen�

My life is grate as a Christians, is happy have a loving Girl I love allot, together almost 1yr and 9 months. Nice job.

But the problem is my girl�s life is not that grate at this time, her parents are getting a devours or acutely her fader want to get a devours there busy in the process of devouring. This is the problem a have wife this, her fader is heavily involved in the church and always want to help people in need. My question is he and my girl�s mother stood in church when thy got married and made a promise of till def do is part and the rest
In front of GOD,

I gust se it now that my girl�s fader is laying and betraying GOD from the promise he made that day� and I cant belief that he fink that GOD finks is rite, because its not and he still have the guts to go to church ok he were kicked out the one he was in at the moment and that�s not all is having a affair wife one of the ladies in the church he was in.

This makes me mad man way dos God let this happen.. to people that he loves�

I still and will always love GOD but sum times I don�t understand the stuff he do in our lives�

GOD SAYS:

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Also, isnt one of the requirements of being a christian to just sit back and let god do whatever he wants, you're only allowed to figure it all out after you die.

[Edited on 14-11-2003 by Kano]

It sounds like your girl's father is going to church because that's what he believes he's supposed to do. I don't know the relationship details of his marriage and love is a tricky thing, but there is no excuse for cheating on one's partner. Divorce is a painful and confusing experience, but sometimes problems can't be resolved and it's better to be separate and happy then together and miserable. The problem nowdays is that people don't sincerely try to solve their problems. They encounter difficulty, don't face it, meet someone else who they think they can talk to instead, start having an affair, and then end up getting a divorce and breaking someone's heart. God says that believers should not get divorced, but that is reliant upon the marriage being between people who are true believers and followers of His teachings. If someone is married to a non-believer, even if they claim to be a believer, they are not sinning if their spouse decides to leave.

Hi jezebel

Thanks for the words, thy were 22yr married and one day he woke up and told her he don�t love her enamor�WTF

Originally posted by vaswegpg
Hi jezebel

Thanks for the words, thy were 22yr married and one day he woke up and told her he don�t love her enamor�WTF

It sounds like he probably had some issues going on for a long time and kept them to himself, rather than talking to his wife and trying to work them out. He let them grow inside his mind until, one day he met someone else who was sympathetic to his unhappiness.

A lot of times people get into a rut and forget that the person they are married to loves them and would want to help them if they knew how.

The new ear that he has found to listen to his thoughts, then seems to understand him, whereas he thinks his wife does not. Gradually, his feelings of connection, with this new woman, grow into feelings of love and begin to replace his love for his wife. All the while his wife may sense that something is wrong, but she doesn't know what it is. In order to avoid conflict, they both pretend nothing is wrong until one day, he finally decides to leave the wife he no longer loves, to be with the one to whom his feelings have transferred.

Often all of this happens gradually, until they become physically involved, by which time it may be too late to change.

Love is very tricky and if one starts to take their relationship for granted, it can easily be destroyed. This is just a theory about the situation. Since there are always hidden factors, that only the people involved know about, it's difficult for those outside the relationship to understand why it falls apart, sometimes.

I hope that he makes sure to show his kids that no matter what, he will always love them. The worst result that can come of divorce is the insecurity and confusion experienced by the children in the relationship.