TWO girlfriends at the same time *drools*

ive been thinking about how some select few people on this planet can be lucky enough to have two girlfriends at the same time without the girls knowing about eatchother and still have a good relationship with them...

is that humanly possible? can anyone other than a rock star do it? honestly has anyone on here done it or is doing it???

share your wisdom with me.

[edit on 6-9-2006 by worksoftplayhard]

Dude, it sounds good on paper, but it never works out. They will eventually find out, and you'll probably lose both of them. Now if you could get them into having all of 3 of you going at it at the same time........
That would make you a very lucky man.

Dude! It can be done but It's next to impossible if they live in the same town. Otherwise I'd say you have......



If you can't make up your mind, then just tell them you're not sure yet. Wait for the girl that you have to have before you commit to a single girl. Go out on a date and keep it casual and fun.

[edit on 6-9-2006 by dbates]

You got to be one smooth cat to pull off having two girlfriends. But then again, why would you? Isn't one girlfriend a headache enough?

My roommate has two - at LEAST two - and they both know about each other, although they won't both see him at the same time

But the "#1 girlfriend" complains about it and threatens to leave constantly so it's not exactly an ideal situation...

As for myself, I've had a number of close calls but never accomplished such a thing, as there's inevitably some insane drama and logistics that go along with it.... like it's one thing to realize "hey, these two girls are BOTH flirting with me! COOL!!!", but it's quite another thing to be able to get them both all the way back to a private place and..... ;-)

One thing I would recommend though - NEVER lie or keep secrets from women as that will only come back to bite you in the a$$ later. Instead of trying to juggle two girlfriends and keep them a secret from each other, you want to look for a pair of girls (or group of people/circle of friends/whatever) who are ALREADY into experimenting like that, and GAIN ACCEPTANCE into that group!

like see me im currently talking to two girls at the moment. who dont know about eatchother. i already had a date with one of them and it went good. im waiting for the other girl to get a day off work so i can take her on a date too.

i decided to give this a try because my luck with women sucks anyways so i might as well have 2 at the same time.

Originally posted by worksoftplayhard
like see me im currently talking to two girls at the moment. who dont know about eatchother. i already had a date with one of them and it went good. im waiting for the other girl to get a day off work so i can take her on a date too.

i decided to give this a try because my luck with women sucks anyways so i might as well have 2 at the same time.

hey workhardplayharder

do it, if you can! but only if they like each other!

Back in the day - we all did this thing called dating before we became exclusive. Nowdays it seems kids jump into 'going out' (which don't mean going out litteraly, it means they are BF/GF).

While dating, it is not only acceptable, but a known fact that there are other people you are dating. So, yeah - seeing more than one person is pretty much a common thing for those of us who grew up 'back then'.

Of course, as one relationship grows more intimate and closer, the others tend to drift off as we spend more and more of out time with the one we are most in tune with... then of course, we end up 'in a relationship' exclusive - and no 'others' are allowed.

Personally, I think it's ok to shop around as long as you're not making commitments to anyone.

Yet it sounds like if you are trying to hide them from eachother your intentions are to play them. Weren't you the one calling Lindsay Lohan out for doing this?

Originally posted by AngelaLadyS
Back in the day - we all did this thing called dating before we became exclusive. Nowdays it seems kids jump into 'going out' (which don't mean going out litteraly, it means they are BF/GF).

While dating, it is not only acceptable, but a known fact that there are other people you are dating. So, yeah - seeing more than one person is pretty much a common thing for those of us who grew up 'back then'.

Of course, as one relationship grows more intimate and closer, the others tend to drift off as we spend more and more of out time with the one we are most in tune with... then of course, we end up 'in a relationship' exclusive - and no 'others' are allowed.

There is nothing wrong with a fundamental belief in devoted, exclusive, "family-values" oriented relationships

But what do you do when you discover that your partner that you love dearly has had sex with someone else? Or even been impregnated by someone else?

We tend to shrug off those things as "Jerry Springer" or soap opera territory, but I read a statistic somewhere that said as many as 10% of men with children are raising a child actually sired by another man!

The reality of multiple sex partners can be gut-wrenchingly sickening and devastating when you're first exposed to it, and there are a number of predictable responses - jealousy, humiliation, disgust, rage, hatred...

However the wise and mature person eventually comes to realize that it is unhealthy to hold onto rage and hatred and contempt, and doing so only leads people down a path of further destruction and misery.

I mean, people fighting and KILLING each other, over SEX?? Helen of Troy starting a huge WAR for having two men?!? Come on!!!

I have had to deal with the multiple-sex-partner reality and all the ramifications of it almost continuously for the past few years, and it has been difficult to say the least, but eventually you learn that it's something you just have to learn to accept and deal with - because it happens all around us all the time whether we are aware of it or not!

I think the best way to cope with it is that, if you're willing to allow a cherished sex partner a little bit of freedom to enjoy a wild and gratifying sexual experience, even if it means breaking or stretching the "rules" a little bit... and if that partner gives you the same freedom.... it can become something thrilling and adventurous that a couple can share together - instead of people "cheating" or otherwise sneaking around on each other, which people tend to take as a HUGE breach of love and trust and devotion...

yeah its very possible.

i think at times ive had 5 gfs at once.

it all depends on what your definition of gf means. no i wasnt actually dating any of them , but we had relations . im not here bragging , because its nothing to brag about. dont call me a slut and hate me women, it was just a phase in my life. i made them all very happy so i wasnt totally using them.

ive since come to the conclusion its better to have one decent woman.

Go for it! It'll be fun...

... fun that is watching you get your arse handed to you by a "pissed-off" gurl.
"Hell hast no fury"

i almost forgot , but it seems relevant.

at one time i had two gfs who were actually each others gfs. so it is possible to have two gfs who both know about each other. it was a wonderful 3 weeks, but it came to the point where they both sat me down and made me choose between the two . the bed became alot colder at nite without them both. that was a sad moment in my life.

i am the one who turned them both completely straight.

[edit on 9-9-2006 by elitegamer23]

[edit on 9-9-2006 by elitegamer23]

Originally posted by Ikema
Go for it! It'll be fun...

... fun that is watching you get your arse handed to you by a "pissed-off" gurl.
"Hell hast no fury"

Hehee!!!

This subject is a bit close to home for you, kitty?

I know its not worth the drama I would know.

It does work but in the interest of keeping both without hurting anyones feelings it is best to just find two girls who wouldn't mind sharing. There are alot of people who do this everyday and it does work. Most men are scared of losing their girl/s so they lie which causes alot of problems in the end. Trust me! I find that being truthfull up front saves me time and headaches. What the worst they can say, no?

Only two???

I used to be a bad bad boy..

Moves to country 3500 miles away to work

I'd much rather prefer to just have the one girlfriend.

I dunno man, ever see that Seinfeld episode where George has 2 girls, and is trying to get rid of both of them, and tries to set up a meeting where they will find out hes seeing both of them at the same time? Only it ends up that both feel they can work it out with him at the same time. I've never laughed so hard in my life, I mean, I know itll never happen like that in real life, but wouldnt that be insane? I almost died watching that one.

I too would much rather have one girl as well. One is almost too much already.

IF you can get two girls who are happy with you seeing the other one then go for it!
but i dont see it happening too soon lol

personally, i just like having one Girlfriend