Is the place of your dreaming real or simply a construct of one’s subconscious? This is a question which I have explored in some depth with regard
to my own successful lucid dreaming experiences. I have frequently alternated between believing my dreamscape to be some legitimate form of alternate
reality and believing them to be complex, yet wholly fabricated, constructs of my own devising. I think that if we are to explore this issue in any
depth, we need to dismiss many of our own pre-held assumptions regarding the nature of dreams and the act of dreaming itself. Is dreaming simply a
form of astral projection? I have no idea, but perhaps it doesn’t matter when it comes to answering this specific question.
I think that bringing a level of objectivity to this study would benefit our explorations in this matter. Because if dreams aren’t simply
reflections of our sub-conscious fears and desires, if there is some form of genuine alternate reality experience taking place during our sleeping
hours, then we should reasonably expect to see evidence of characters, locations and events of which we cannot possibly have any knowledge,
subconscious or otherwise. Perhaps this requires further clarification. Like you, Clarky, I have taken some interest in examining the inhabitants of
my dreams. Of course, this is always done during lucid dreams, which I have very regularly. One night, I was engaged in a conversation with a woman in
my dream. We were discussing the reality of my dream and I felt bold enough to point out to her that she was, in fact, simply a musing of my own
subconscious. This is something which I have done since then, but never to such significant effects. The woman politely resisted the notion that she
was simply a figment of my subconscious. She told me her name (which I have now forgotten – an early lesson to always keep a detailed dream diary)
and asked me if I had ever seen a woman who looked like her in reality. I told her that I don’t think I had. She then showed me a house with people
coming and going from it. She asked me if I had ever seen any of the people, or the house itself, anywhere other than in my dream. I answered that
both the people and the house were unfamiliar. She then declared her belief that, if this were truly a dream, surely the places and people within it
should reflect those familiar to me in my waking state. I further reasoned that perhaps she, the people and the house were familiar to my
subconscious, if not my conscious mind. Perhaps I had glimpsed them somewhere – on TV, or whilst driving – and simply taken no note of them,
tucking them away in my subconscious to be resurrected in this dreamscape. She admitted that this was possible, but argued that it was nonetheless
strange for a dream character to defend its own existence.
This in turn started me thinking about unknown knowledge. If we see people or places or learn knowledge in a dream which we have no way of knowing
during our waking hours, this would lend some degree of credence to arguments that dreams represent something other than symbols and metaphor. Of
course, the danger here is in separating those things which we genuinely do not and cannot know from those things which are simply tucked away in the
depths of our subconscious. We may not think we have seen a particular person before, but perhaps our mind captured their image from a fleeting
glimpse in the supermarket and imposed them upon our dreams. It would be different, however, if one were able to demonstrate genuine acquisition of
knowledge from a dream which is demonstrably beyond our waking experiences. This may be something you might want to watch for, Clarky, in your future
lucid dreams.
I am also interested in observing the existence of apparent ‘rules’ within lucid dreaming situations and, more specifically, in determining
whether or not these rules have a basis in reality, or are the constructs of my own limitations and imaginings. If any of you have ever observed
noticeable limitations or rules whilst lucid dreaming, I should be glad to hear of them. Perhaps if many people all reported similar limitations or
constraints whilst lucid dreaming it would lend support to some form of external influence or reality.
Finally, without wishing to blow my own trumpet, if anyone is having a tough time instigating or maintaining lucid dreams, might I humbly suggest my
somewhat detailed post on techniques which have worked for myself and for friends of mine who are anything but fanciful. Check it out
here. Hopefully, by working together, we can shed some light on this issue in a manner
which precludes an over abundance of subjectivity.