Anyone never been in a relationship?

Join the club. We might as well stick together, since we're definitely the on the lower rungs. :shk:

Don't sweat it, plenty of time to have your heart stompe.. er, I mean, to enjoy the fruits that only union with another can bring.

Don't feel bad, never been in a relationship myself. Your better off lonely, go talk to a pillow instead

Well I didn't go on a date till I was 19, and didn't get a kiss till I was 20.

So don't feel too bad. It's better when you're older anyway. Less obstacles and more maturity.

Don't worry! I'm sure you have pletty of time to have other people screw up your life.

A little story for all of you:

I dated someone for 3 years in college. It was ok, but something was totally missing. We ended up splitting 1 year after graduation, and I was single for a solid 2 years. It sucked.

I was ready to move out of the northeast. Take off. split. Be done with the women up here. I was convinced that they were the problem, not me.

I was waiting tables, finishing up my second to last semester for my second degree. I went on vacation, spent all of my money, and came back totally broke.

I needed some cash, so I picked up a shift, and once I was done, I heard a party of 17 was coming on, so I asked to have them moved into my section. Little did I know that I was about to meet my soul mate. she got my number, called me up, we went on a date, and its been history ever since.

I guess the point of the story is, don't stress on meeting someone, because God will bring who he wants to you, it is just part of his Divine Plan. The more you push it, the more you worry about it, the more women (or men) will stay away from you. The minute I got over my college relationship and started thinking about my career, I met my soul mate

I guess the only one who truly understands my predicament is myself and people like myself. LOL

Got another one right here. I'm gonna be 20 in December... never had anything... not even a kiss. At times, I feel pathetic (like while typing this right now ), but after hearing various stories from my buds about some of the BS they've had to deal with... at times, I'm grateful, but majority of the time, it sucks majorly.

It's actually comforting to know there are others out there in a similar situation to me. Good luck to all.

[STAY COOL)
-prophetmike

EDIT: Removed swear... (yes, it shows as "#" but I'd like to get my point across w/o swearing...)

[edit on 6/8/06 by prophetmike]

Well,I'm gonna wait for the right one, haha xD.
It will definitely be worth it~

I actually think you can't go looking for it. It just has to happen, when your out trying to make it happen, only will result in failure.

Originally posted by Implosion
Don't sweat it, plenty of time to have your heart stompe.. er, I mean, to enjoy the fruits that only union with another can bring.

So true, lol!

Being single can be more fun than being in a relationship. Instead of tying yourself down to one person, you can explore. Relationships can be incredibly stressful anyways. Enjoy being single, relationships come soon enough.

Originally posted by abbyful
So true, lol!

Being single can be more fun than being in a relationship. Instead of tying yourself down to one person, you can explore. Relationships can be incredibly stressful anyways. Enjoy being single, relationships come soon enough.

See, this is the misconception. We cannot even be described as "single." We're just not in the game. Its like a baseball player whos ready to play, but he's in a football game. He can't play, he's not gonna play. :shk:

Originally posted by sweatmonicaIdo
Anyone never been in a relationship?

Can you DEFINE relationship?
Or anyone else, for that matter!

Never been in a relationship either. Dont got the time for all the ladies knocking down my door.

I SAID GET AWAY FROM THE DOOR ONI! BACK UP, OR I AM GOING TO HAVE TO CALL THE COPS.....AGAIN!!!

Anyways, yeah man, dont sweat it.

Originally posted by helen670

Originally posted by sweatmonicaIdo
Anyone never been in a relationship?

Can you DEFINE relationship?
Or anyone else, for that matter!

Just for you Helen: Relationship.

Originally posted by sweatmonicaIdo
See, this is the misconception. We cannot even be described as "single." We're just not in the game. Its like a baseball player whos ready to play, but he's in a football game. He can't play, he's not gonna play. :shk:

Amen to that, brotha... I don't have ANY game... I flirt.. but thats as far as I get.. I just freeze up and become a total puss... lol

God help me

[STAY COOL)
-prophetmike

Originally posted by Implosion

Originally posted by helen670

Originally posted by sweatmonicaIdo
Anyone never been in a relationship?

Can you DEFINE relationship?
Or anyone else, for that matter!

Just for you Helen: Relationship.

Thanks Implosion!
Definately has cleared up alot of my concerns with 'Relationship'

Definitions of relationship on the Web:
as in `the relationship between inflation and unemployment'

I now understand it alot better!
Also am glad, that i can still smile at you quick response as to what Realationship is!
I guess i should not be joking.

Thanks Implosion, i deserved that one!


I was not in a good ?, how do you say it?
Mood.
helen.......
Things happen, I guess!

Never been in a relationship or a date.But have had one off encounters.Strange isnt it.

Originally posted by tarzan
Never been in a relationship or a date.But have had one off encounters.Strange isnt it.

Yeah. Same *hit with me

I've NEVER been in any relationship, and NEVER will, 100%! I don't do that stuff. For people like me, relationships and jail are things we avoid like the plague.


I like one night stands.


And NEVER EVER have I regretted not being in a relationship. ITS GREAT!


Plus, if you never get in a relationship or have kids (like me) you'll live longer (life is longer when you stress less )