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Originally posted by ceci2006
Sometimes, I think the the road to Hell is paved with the best intentions.
You entirely misinterpreted my thoughts about the entire situation.
I never thought you were racist.
How about someone else giving you a satisfactory answer more to your liking? Does someone else have a different view of riley's situation?
jsobecky
A guy like that, you should have dragged him over and kicked his racist butt with your one good foot. I know I would have.
Originally posted by ceci2006
Does someone else have a different view of riley's situation?
. But, simply blaming an entire race on a single confrontation is also bad. You've got to readjust your mind-set to think clearly about the situation. What led up to this? Why do you suppose you were called that derogatory name? What precipitated the fight? You have to put it all into context.
Re-examine your feelings and ask yourself if you have been treated by others of this non-white race the same way or positively. And you have to realize that not all members of this non-white race act that way. You have to use this situation as a way to reexamine your own thoughts regarding racism. And then, you have to look at the bigger picture. And you must try, like some Black people, to get the "chip off your shoulder" and make peace with what happened to you by replacing this horrible act with positive experiences.
I for one am not downplaying your situation. It is very serious for someone to throw rocks at you and hurt you. I just want to say that in the same way that other people have experienced racism, you have to find some sort of redress for it. And I don't think that Whites deserve some payback. That is a wrong assumption that you have about 'non-white' people. We don't go around hurling rocks at people hoping to hit a White person.
This is not only a crime of racism. It is a crime of violence and it should not happen to anyone.
I wish you luck and I hope that you can come to terms with it instead letting your anger get the best of you.
Originally quoted by Benevolent Heretic
This is another thing I don't understand and as of yet, don't accept. I don't use the word. EVER. Not under my breath, not even in private, when talking to my husband. I won't repeat it if someone else says it. In historical context, I say "the N-word" and I still hate it. And not out of respect for black people. I avoid it out of respect for myself.
I understand why black people say they use it, but it makes no sense to me. If the word is offensive then why use it? And if they're 'taking the power away' then why can't anyone use it?
Originally quoted by Benevolent Heretic
To me, it's a power trip that black people (who use the word) are on. To say "I can use this word because of the color of my skin, but you can't because of the color of your skin", is RACIST and feeds RACISM and I don't buy it, I don't like it.
And black people (who use it) don't just use it 'amongst themselves'. They use it, period.
Orginally posted by Benevolent Heretic
But I'll bet you a million dollars if the person who threw the rock knew riley was still carrying it around and giving the incident power, they'd be very happy and proud of doing it. riley, the anger you carry around about it isn't hurting anyone but yourself.
Originally posted by ceci2006
I merely said to put the situation into perspective.
I did not call you racist. And I hoped that you would not blame another race for your confrontation. (However, I was writing at a time when I was pressed for deadlines, so I didn't have the chance to make it clear). I did not say you were blaming an entire race. I'm sorry if I implied that, because that is not what I meant.
You do have a "chip on your shoulder". You used this situation as a way to justify whites experiencing racism.
I believe you. Everyone experiences racism. Here again, I ask that you try to have positive experiences with the 'non-white' race to erase the bad experience you had. But you never said whether you did or didn't.
But yes, you should deserve to have it acknowledged that White people experience racism too.
posted by ImaginaryReality1984: “Speaking for the UK . . First no one can deny our NHS [National Health Service] would have died years ago [but] for the massive influx of immigrant workers. Immigration can help a country, my only condition on immigration is that every immigrant is vetted.
They should be made to get a job or an education, and speak the native language of the country. If they do these things then I say let them in regardless of culture, race or whatever else. [Edited by Don W]
posted by jsobecky: “donwhite Your dictionary is dated 4/22/2006. Just type in "define vetted" to google. Definitions of VETTED on the Web:
is to make a careful and critical examination of someone or something, eg a person prior to employment. to make a careful and critical examination of (a scheme, work, candidate etc).
Originally quoted by denythestatusquo
One of the major problems currently in first world countries is immigration. Massive immigration from the third world into the first world.
This immigration has benefited: first world business types and the immigrants often at the expense of the average citizen of the first world country involved.
Most people have a tendency to get upset when the country they were born into and the only culture they know is being rapidly transformed before their eyes without their input or permission.
Also there is the issue of governments going all out sometimes to help the immigrant at the expense of the local so that the local can be established successfully. This can cause the local to feel a great deal of anxiety as they doubt their own ability to survive in the long-run while the newcomer often appears to be doing well.
What I find hilarious in all of this discussion is that people do not talk about the economic issues and just focus on soft issues which tend to denigrate or put down those that have complaints with what is going on today.
originally posted by ceci2006That is a great question because the N-word is a haunting figure of speech, not just for White folk, but for everyone it seems. I hate the "N-word" personally. I cringe when other Black people use it--especially when my relatives use it. Using the N-word amongst Black folk doesn't make the word any better.