Older women and teen guys

Why is there a new story about this every week in the press? Has this always been going on and it is now being reported or is it a new phenom? the weird part is that so many of the women are "hot". the idea of seducing a virgin is sexy but within the law....

Well without you citing specific cases and if these relationships are emotional and evolving...I'd say it's just about hot sex.

When it's an older woman and young boy it's not about the fantasy of seducing a virgin for her likely, as it would be in the reverse case scenereo of an older guy and young girl, etc. I'd say it's about women fleeing the available men of a generation of confused and emasculated men, often bitter towards women...who can blame them there?

So they turn to where the hot sex is-where she can teach a young one how to meet her needs... and go crazy on him meeting hers without worrying about what he thinks....young guys are just a clean way to get hot sex and a trainable partner very into her. God, she'd be like a godsend to him.

Yeah-definately needs to be kept legal, but it's understandable. Same reason men prefer younger, or blondes, etc. they aren't looking for the emotional connection...it's just sex.

so your answer in a nutshell, in MHO is it's just about sex, and maybe women just aren't as descrete about it anymore-maybe it's more acceptable...I'd say it's understandable...to an extent.

Where were these women when I was in Jr. High?! Doesn't this usually happen in small towns? If that's the case, these skanks have probably been through every single man their own age, and were probably so bad in the sack they were shunned. Just a theory.

yeah could be the women were so bad the competition of sheep won out and the women had to turn to less discerning lovers

I find nothing wrong with it.

[edit on 9-3-2006 by sanctum]

There is some kind of very ignorant misperception among many men young and olde that women are not capable of hunting and gathering.
Astonishing!!!

Orangetom

Im kinda in that situation right now. Im 19 and I have been dating a 35 year old woman for about 5-6months now, and she's also bi-polar. Any thoughts on this one?

It's not always the thirty something woman that goes after the young boy. It is unbelievable the number of teen age boys who are hitting on older women.

(((( It is just about hot sex, everyone....pure and simple )))))

ps: I am 49 year old woman.

what confuses me most is when an older man tries to seduce a younger woman, the cops are like vultures, but when an older woman tries to seduce a younger man the cops are at tim hortons! what some of these older woman have same intentions as the older men in the same game?! gasp!

Well I guess I agree it's about sex.

Consider this, naturally males are at there sexual peak between 13 and 19.

Females are at there natural sexual peak between 35 and 45.


My biology teacher taught that to my class.
So with older women and younger men it's more natural, however with older men and younger women, it's more of a psychological thing.


Personally I don't have a problem with either.

If it is just about the sex......why would these women want to make it with a teenage boy? Teenage boys with little experience and two minutes? LOL

Originally posted by ChristyZ
If it is just about the sex......why would these women want to make it with a teenage boy? Teenage boys with little experience and two minutes? LOL

I dunno... maybe 'cause a teenage boy can go again every two minutes... All night long.

This is kind of an interesting subject. Oh yeah... It's coming back to me now... My high school friends mom... What a looker.

So long as everyone is a consenting adult...who cares?

I personally would rather have a 23 year old in the sack, but how many 23 year olds have the money that most 35 year olds do? Gotta remember the Sugar-Momma card. Its sick, but more and more true.

Originally posted by DaFunk13
Gotta remember the Sugar-Momma card. Its sick, but more and more true.

Funny you bring this up.

It's like every college males dream. The wealthy divorcee helping you through school.

Dance for me boy!!! DANCE!!!

OK... But... I need some money for books tomorrow.

SHUT UP and DANCE!!!



[edit on 20-3-2006 by LostSailor]

Huh, i duh know how long it has been going on but im sure its increased because of easyer exsece. The internet is a way to conect with alsorts of ppl. unforcanitly there are ppl. who tend to take that a little to far.
www.perverted-justice.com...
thats a web site thats set up to try and stop predators.

well hope that does something in contributing lol

New Rule: Teens having sex with their hot blonde teachers aren't scarred for life. They're lucky bastards.

I've wondered the exact same thing, Dissension. :shk:


[edit on 8-5-2006 by sanctum]

what confuses me most is when an older man tries to seduce a younger woman, the cops are like vultures, but when an older woman tries to seduce a younger man the cops are at tim hortons! what some of these older woman have same intentions as the older men in the same game?!

You know why, this is going to be pretty blunt, so all little kids look away, and parents, don't get pissy at me. The plain and simple fact is that a little girl getting plowed will make it bigger, this has probably already happened to an older woman. A young boy plowing a older woman won't make him smaller. Plus, a plain and simple fact is that older girls are more, developed.

here are some thoguhts.younger guys like having sex with older women cuz: 1 they dont make a big deal out of it after they do it like an 17-18 year old teenage girl would; 2 theyre more experienced. if u decide to date them its great cuz they arent so moody like teenage girl is.

Originally posted by iori_komei
Consider this, naturally males are at there sexual peak between 13 and 19. Females are at there natural sexual peak between 35 and 45.

Perfect combination.

Originally posted by ChristyZ
If it is just about the sex......why would these women want to make it with a teenage boy? Teenage boys with little experience and two minutes? LOL

It’s exciting to teach a young lover everything you’ve experienced sexually over your lifetime. Women love the attention, and the young men love the sex. It’s also nice for the young man not to have to be the initiator. Someone is taking him. Plus, the desire is clear--there isn't as much emotional baggage as there is between two young people. You both know what you want, and you go for it. It's the perfect sexual high for both.

Back to the OP’s questions, I think it has probably always happened, but today’s society allows children to become much more aware of sex than ever before, and it isn’t as taboo as it used to be for young people to be exposed to all kinds of sexual topics. These days, it doesn’t seem shocking to hear young people talking about sex around adults. In the “old days”, a young person would never dare talk about sex around adults, and adults wouldn’t dare allow it. Also, communication is second nature especially to young people. If you tell one person something, lots of people will know about it in a very short time. It seems like “keeping a secret” isn’t important anymore. It’s much more important to garner attention and notoriety.

As far as the teachers who do this, it’s disturbing and shameful that they care more about their own physical needs rather than their role and responsibility as a teacher.

[edit on 6/30/2008 by queenT]