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Originally posted by b777pilot
OK I need some advice.
This is a problem for me in my relationship with my sig other.
I guess we are not the "normal" (whatever that is) couple.
There is a 29 year age difference,that has never been an issue with us.
I have never had a happier,more fulfilling,supportive,comfortable,loving relationship. We compliment each other perfectly.
We are happy and plan to be together for a long time to come;were talking of kids..so on.
BUT there is a kink. He is a life long sailor on lake Michigan. Racing and regattas.
He has many female "friends" he has sailed with for years. So with that and being a member of the yacht club, these women are in our life often.
I have no problem with that,I welcome it.
But they sure as hell do not welcome me. Where I have gone out of my way to be nice to them. They treat me like s***, there is no way around it. They talk about me (like we are still in high school) its horrid. All this behind "tims" back. With all the time we spend together its wearing me down. I have NEVER reacted to them. They call me names...come to false assumptions because of my age.Goldigger....it gets worse.
I'm not the typical 22 year old. I hold 2 degrees in European Sociological History and Advanced Psychics. I have studied at Yale & in England.
I'm currently working on my masters. As well as hoping for a PhD study grant from Northwestern University.
I have been on my own and taken care of myself since 17.
This wears on me because so much of our time is in, their company. Especially during the sailing season!
His kids love me, his ex-wife gets along with me!
What I want to know is. Should I just grin and bare it,not tell "tim"?
or say something to him and how do I do that?
Any advice would be much appreciated!
Originally posted by b777pilot
A light "accidental" shove when the sailboat is tacking...should solve the problem
Originally posted by LostSailor
Originally posted by b777pilot
A light "accidental" shove when the sailboat is tacking...should solve the problem
Ahhh.... The ol' mysteriously disappearing sailor trick. Never heard of this one before. *wink*
Another one is to accidently drop a wrench or other heavy object while climbing a ladder. But that's more of a marine engineer tactic. *wink* *wink*
Originally posted by Zaphod58
Let's make it more realistic here. Wait till you Jibe, and don't say you're about to and let the boom whack em in the head and take em over. That just say "Oops. My bad."