Sexiest thing a person can do.

Okay, first off, I'd like to hear both female and male opinions as to what the sexiest thing the respective opposite sex can do.

Secondly, is it true that the sexiest thing a male can do is wash the dishes?! Or is it just a way to get men to clean?

Originally by xeroxed88:
Or is it just a way to get men to clean?

Or possibly ... is it just a way to get men to clean?



[edit to add]
sorry, couldn't help myself :shk:




[edit on 1/26/2006 by 12m8keall2c]

OI! I'll have you know I'm a very clean young man, thank you.

Jeez... looks like not many people are opinionated in the field of being turned on.

give me a big bag of cash and then drop me off at the pub with my pals...and have me escorted home by the chicks below -that would be sexy.

Where is Dr. Love when you need him????

It's a hard question to answer.

Personally, what I find sexy about my g/f is the way she likes to hang on me when we're out in public. I don't know if other people would consider that sexy, but I do.

What is sexy? Is it a look? Is it doing a certain chore as stated above? Is it a certain movement? Sexy is all in the eye of the beholder.

Peace

edit: Dg, saw your post after I posted. Never fear, Dr Love is here.

[edit on 27-1-2006 by Dr Love]

Originally posted by xeroxed88
Jeez... looks like not many people are opinionated in the field of being turned on.

Depends who's trying to flick the switch.

Sexy is intelligence...but I am a big geek at heart so don't go by me.

Originally posted by Dr Love
Sexy is all in the eye of the beholder.

I think that is the main thing. What is sexy is only a person's opinion.

From what TV and other media tells me, big breasted blond haired women are sexy. But I don't find that attractive.

Some people find Paris Hilton sexy but I find her disgusting.

I think the best thing a person can do to be sexy is just to be honest and be their self. Trying to do something sexy because someone told you to will likely come off as phony and have the opposite effect.

What do I find sexy in a girl? I think its really sexy when a girl wears pink on black VANS, and those glasses with the black rims that are kinda rectanglish. Personality stuff that I find sexy is computer and video game smarts. If I find a girl that can hold down a conversation about the advantages of Linux over Windows, and which gaming console owns all (SNES), then she'd be perfect! Sexy!

All girls please send your applications to me via U2U.

Some great answers.

I 100% agree, it's all in the eye of the beholder.
Umbrax, you're damn right about the media and Paris Hilton. I wouldn't mind throwing her off a cliff actually. She's the epitome of everything I hate in a girl. Spoilt, selfish, immature, annoying b... rat.

I don't know for certain what I find sexy, it's more like a couple of things. The way "she" looks at me, etc. Sometimes I find "cute" things quite sexy. * I also love a girl in jeans that are tight around the thighs and arse. Often enough, seeing a girl with a nice arse walking in front of me is a bonus.... not that I look or anything...

Please Note: I am not sexist at all.

Sexy Time!!

EDIT = *

[edit on 27-1-2006 by xeroxed88]

Originally posted by Umbrax

Originally posted by Dr Love
Sexy is all in the eye of the beholder.

I think that is the main thing. What is sexy is only a person's opinion. (snip)

I think the best thing a person can do to be sexy is just to be honest and be their self. Trying to do something sexy because someone told you to will likely come off as phony and have the opposite effect.

Yeah, I couldn't agree more with Dr Love and Umbrax here. What is sexy to one person may not be to another

... and faking anything is a turn off for both sexes.

but not just being an ambiguous question, I am assuming xeroxed88 is looking for specifics, so I'll add mine since they are along these lines while trying to keep it clean enough for the boards.

If we are speaking strictly about sexual turn ons, my true turn on is honest straightforward attraction to me/lust for me. If you are not just hot for anything and everyone, but are hot for me...you've got my attention....and if you are hot in general, my attention is growing...and if you are literally turned on by me...if you are not just attracted but actually turned on by me...well, thats a turn on in itself, is it not?

No games...well, no head games...some games can be fun But basically, no other agendas or ulterior motives I'm saying. Comfort in their own sexuality and a willingness to communicate their desires

I'm not saying one-night stand with someone you don't know with no further obligations, just because opportunity knocks, so don't read that into it.

This base sexuality is sexy with someone with whom you are already intellectually stimulated by/emotionally intimate with as well.

You can be with someone in a long term relationship and enjoy (for lack of other words that may seem pornagraphic) knowing that you are both enjoying each other physically/sexually and that they want you, need you, are turned on by you, and that you satisfy them-throughly good-and that they can't get enough of you and what you can do for them.

So really, this plays out better in a relationship, where you know you play an important role in the mutual satisfaction and they show they can't get enough of you, this shows that base sexuality I spoke of...that simply they are hot for you and can perpetuate an ideally satisfactory sex life.

Honesty in this area is good. If someone is truly in touch with their own sexual needs and knows their own likes and dislikes and is open and honest in pursuing meeting those needs in mutually gratifying ways-then voila! bring it on!

I also find very deep conversations quite sexy in some respect. My ex-girlfriend may aswell have been a brick wall when I spoke to her indepth. I love a girl who I can talk to for hours about "deep" things. (That was not a sexual innuendo, by the way )

I find it a real turn-on when a girl strokes the back of my neck and just below my ear.

I also fine getting a very personal privert dance of a girl to make me ultra hot.

Ohh almost forgot, girls wearing baggy,mens T-shirts, with not much else on.
Like this one:

Originally posted by xeroxed88
I also find very deep conversations quite sexy in some respect.

well, yeah, stimulate me intellectually and you turn me on, brick walls are NOT a turn on, nor is being shallow in any way.

also being satisfied can't be beat...so what is sexy? Someone who knows what I like and how to get to me, how to turn me on and get me...satisfied

That knoweldge, that ability = big turn on.

[edit on 27-1-2006 by think2much]

Also, lets not underestimate the turn on value of viewing the solo tango

THAT is hot

Sexiest thing a man can do? There are so many!

Work on my car... while wearing faded, ripped jeans and a shirt that slips up and bares his torso now and then.

Tear up at a touching movie.

Be honest.

Make me laugh.

But I'll go with the jeans one.

Good question. As a man who thinks that women are the most beautiful things in the world, it doesn't take much for me. I do pay attention, though.

For me, I like ladies that wear very little make-up. On the other hand, depending on their outfit, the french whore look turns me on as well. I like straight hair that is well conditioned, but not oily. I also like wavy hair with the right facial structure. I even went google-eyed for a bald lady I met at a club one time.

I will admit that I have a weakness for that freaky, eccentric look popular in urban areas. Blue hair is my favorite, but I also like green and fire engine red. She has to be able to make it work. I'm not too attracted to posers.

Tall women are pretty, but my fav are the short cute petite ladies that have a bubbly personality. I don't have much of a breast infatuation, but I am a man after all. I do appreciate a nice rack, but it's not that important.

I CAN'T STAND DUMB CHICKS! I'm nice, but I will remove myself from the presence of some stupid bimbo that talks about herself, her car, or her money. Paris Hilton is retarded to me. If I was forced to be in the same room with her for an extended period of time, I'd probably lose it. She's a skank anyway.

Legs have to be toned and tanned. They have to look good with white socks. I don't like fur, but there was this chick from Australia I hooked up with once that didn't repulse me. I guess I fell in love with her mind.

I could go on and on, but since I'm at work, I'll have to pick up where I left off at a later time. See yall later.

I'm sure this attire would turn many women on

On a serious note, i don't go for a certain hair colour. Anything will do, i'm not bothered about breast size. Although as another poster said, a good "rack" does no harm .

They have got to have a good personality, someone i can laugh with and always talk about something. I'm not into tall women since i don't fancy carrying a copy of the Yellow Pages around with me , Short, petite is more my 'variety'! I do like girls who are 'alternatively' dressed, not necessary.

[edit on 27/1/06 by Flyboy211]

I'm a country girl at heart, so I agree with Benevolent Heretic---

I LIKE BOYS IN JEANS...

and cute and smart and funny and blah blah blah

JEANS... SEXY GUYS IN JEANS...

End of story.