fix a broken heart

hey... i was just wondering how can some1 fix a broken heart??? or how can some1 help it heal faster or what will help the person not feel as bad???

EDIT: srry if this has been brought up b4


[edit on 31-7-2005 by russiankid]

Hey kid,

Thought I would give a shot at this. At first I thought; is this your broken heart or someone elses? Then I thought that if it were my own, what did I do in the past to get over the loss of love. I guess the thing that eventually picked me up, other than time, is the eventual realization that life still goes on and that there will most likely be other opportunities.

I had break ups and a divorce, and it does hurt for a time. The one thing that is universal is that the individual has to love themselves and be able to fall back on that when things go south. There was a song by Whitney Houston, called "The Greatest Love of All". It seems like it could be about being self centered just going around loving yourself, but what it is saying is that in order to truly love someone, you have to love yourself first, or you risk being taken advantage of or even not truly loving someone to the full extent. If you love yourself as you should, you will be able to love another just as much and if it is lost, you should be able to love yourself afterwards.

When we lose a relationship, we tend to wonder "Why?". If there is any hope of rekindling what was lost, then by all means they should do so if it is important to them, but somewhere they may need to just cut themselves loose and value who they are and go on. I guess in this case, the old adage' of there are many fish in the sea is true.

Most of all, if this applies to someone else, be a friend, reassuring, and available through their ordeal.

DR FETT SAYS........

THIS IS AN EASY ONE!!!.....simply sleep with prostitutes........(if your a man that is)...hang around lap dancing bars slipping euro notes (or roubles) into the g-strings of attractive naked dancing girls ......then at the end of the show, try and get as many of them as possible back to your house for some good old group loving!........

THAT SHOULD DO THE TRICK........watch that broken heart simply just fade away!!...YIPEE!!!!!


er....?...actually i think the more widley accepted answer is time......but hey.....im into alternative healing....

regards.

(a broken heart healing person yesterday)


(mod edit- Removed pic to ummm for BTS)

[edit on 1-8-2005 by asala]

Originally posted by ben91069
is this your broken heart or someone elses?

my friends... his gf dumped him... they were going out for 2 years and i think that hes going to do something really stupid

kid, all you can do is help your friend by being there for him.
talk to him and just say that
*he will get over her in time*
it may sound cheesy but it is true!

the heart heals with time.
when i was-am sad my friends took me out and i got rat arsed. but i am a stable person. lol kinda.

take him to a movie or go out anywhere and get him surround by *sexy girls* and his mind will soon be off her,

but if you think he is unstable make it very clear to him that you are there for him, any time any place. any time he is feeling ....low like just tell him to ring you. be careful with him..... talk and be there for him, thats all you can do.

also if he gets worse i advice you to try and get him to somebody that can help him. or maybe hard but tell his parents.

oni x x

Make him laugh. Take him to see a comedy, watch a lame (but funny) sitcom, take him to see stand up, anything to make him laugh. There are very few things that can make a person feel better than laughter can. I know that personally, I can be in the worst mood ever, but if I watch something amusing, I feel much lighter and just...happy. It might not help him get over it altogether, but it will make him feel better at least for a little while, which is a good start.

It's not real, it's hormones.

High school romances, seem so important..
They are pretty meaningless. Just practice for real life.

Doesn't feel that way though does it?

Originally posted by Oni x x
kid, all you can do is help your friend by being there for him.
talk to him and just say that
*he will get over her in time*
it may sound cheesy but it is true!

the heart heals with time.
when i was-am sad my friends took me out and i got rat arsed. but i am a stable person. lol kinda.

take him to a movie or go out anywhere and get him surround by *sexy girls* and his mind will soon be off her,

but if you think he is unstable make it very clear to him that you are there for him, any time any place. any time he is feeling ....low like just tell him to ring you. be careful with him..... talk and be there for him, thats all you can do.

also if he gets worse i advice you to try and get him to somebody that can help him. or maybe hard but tell his parents.

oni x x

thx ill be sure to tell him that im there for him...