Trouble after Victory.

Hey guys,

Well, i'm sorry if this is outta place and all, but *shrugs*, I don't know. Maybe need to just get this prob out here and off my mind. Feels like I have to talk to someone.

Today, my girl and I kissed for the first time (both of our very first times), afterwards, we watched a sad movie and departed our seperate ways. We were kinda quiet, but she said she'd be online tonight.

I finished talking to her a lil while ago, some was really bugging her and she didn't want to talk about it. She went over the house of a (male) friend. "What happened, just relaxed?" I asked feeling jelouse. "yes" she said. I typed out "ah, thats coo", but she said "yea, I guess".

By this point I could tell something was bugging her. Usually we'd be chattin away about whatever nonsense. I voiced my concern that he might have done something, but she didn't want to talk about it. Now I was really concerned that this guy mighta done something to her. Then, she asked something that puzzled this concern. She asked if I thought she was a mean person, then if I thought she was weak. She's not really either of them, but I told her that she seems to be a lil insecure.

She said thanks and all, and might not go to classes tomarrow or even go out saturday (both of us were going out with some good friends and this guy I think, to the beach). I told her if she needed anything in the middle of the night (talk, vent, whatever within reason), I wouldn't mind getting woken up. She said thanks, but she just needed some time to herself.

Now i'm up, can't sleep and worrying more than maybe I ought to. I mean, like Johnny Cash said, because she's mine "i'll walk the line". I love her and all, so this really gall's my back end.

Don't know what you guys could or should say. I'm already thinkin the worst case here (tho she does tend to be sentimental at times). Just give me your opinion.

Thanks a ton,
Px.

ummm?...ok dude...i think youve goto chill out here a little, your a bit to early in this relationship to start playing the protective boyfriend....technically because your not.

maybe shes been kissing this other guy aswell...maybe not...but what you have to do is just remain calm....dont bother tearing yourself up about whats going on....because your probably way off.

its a toughy but just see her when you see her.....and act like your cool..(even though your probably bursting to say stuff)...you should be able to work out pretty soon if something weirds going on...if shes interested in you it will become apparent soon....i mean at least you guys have broken the ice with your first kiss an all that.

anyways.....your young and theres plenty more fish in the sea...so go and get yourself a racing fish.

Good luck dude...and chill.

I talked with her brother for a lil this evening. Something is very wrong here. She's been in her room since she got home, hasn't come out and was crying with the music all loud. Both her bro and I are worried, it sounds as if her bro is more bothered than I am.

She's not talkative at all and doesn't want to do anything. I've known her for about 6 months and i've never run across this before. She says she "feels really bad, not sick, just not in the mood for anything."

Sounds like she needs space. Give ehr space. Offer her help if she doesn't take it don't for ce it upon her. Hopefully it will get better .Wish you luck.