Androgeneous, Bisexual, Homosexual, or Heterosexual?

originally posted by: BeyondKnowledge3
a reply to: DronesandUFOs

Funny how you were the first to being kids into the discussion.

But I do agree, kids should be kids as long as possible.

having one(a kid) puts them at the front of my mind if i like it or not.(why i'm up at 4am, we had a nightmare and now i'm on 'guard duty').

i think once you are legally an adult have at any operation or whatever you want, leave kids who are still in school alone.


i used to skateboard alot and smoke a certain green plant, in High School i was SURE i was going to continue that life style my whole life.

i don't think ANY highschooler should be making life changing decisions let alone any kids younger.


but for adults keep it to the bedroom, no one wants to hear about my sex life(for what ever it is) and i don't want to hear about anyone else's at work or in a bar.

seems like reverse(forced) voyeurism

a reply to: Annee

(apologize for the delay, I don't get online much at home)

I'm not being negative. I'm being realistic.
Bullies come from all walks of life.
I've read more and more stories of how awful teens and preteens can be. And it isn't just "straight" kids doing it.

originally posted by: chiefsmom
a reply to: Annee

(apologize for the delay, I don't get online much at home)

I'm not being negative. I'm being realistic.
Bullies come from all walks of life.
I've read more and more stories of how awful teens and preteens can be. And it isn't just "straight" kids doing it.

When has there not been confused teenagers.

Many religious parents have regret in choosing God over their gay child.

I currently have a 16 year old high functioning Autistic. Some say Autistics should have their own sexual/gender category.

I will continue to see those who fought to be who they are. The success stories. Not the dead ends.

a reply to: 777Vader

I guess "deviate" is the word I was looking for.

originally posted by: 777Vader
We should just scratch Heterosexual from the dictionary. Normal isn't a thing.

You don't have to spit your dummy out. Heterosexuals have not ceased to exist simply because we are adding other words to describe the great variety of non-heterosexuals out there rather than just pretend they don't exist or even have a right to exist in some instances.

You are right though, normal isn't a thing, it is a way to describe things. Normal just means that those things occur more frequently than other things. Averages. Probabilities.

You know another word for normal? Common. Who wants to be that, eh? Lol.

Anyway. Heterosexual is still a perfectly functional word to use to describe ourselves if that word is a good fit. For some people it just isn't and I don't see why it should be a problem for those people to be able to choose another word for themselves or to create a new one if necessary. It really is no skin off my nose. It doesn't negate the words I choose to describe myself because they do still describe me.

a reply to: Annee

why didnt you have an abortion when you got you amniocentesis?

if you didnt have one, well that is just not proper medical care.

why condemn a child to a life of disability, what happens when your gone and the father is gone?

how many times has your child been left out, forgotten, made fun of etc. at school? And because you want to have a baby your are willing to damn a child to a life started already 'less than' the other children?

i'm sure your child is special to you as all children are, but would you support your child having children of their own risking passing down damaged DNA to a new generation?


i hope you have a adult conversation with them when you kid is old enough about family planning aka birth control

sometimes the best choice is the hardest

to me if you know your child is going to be malformed or have a serious mental disability it seems very selfish on the parents side to bring that child to term.

even God sacrificed his son for the better ment of humanity

there is something called eugenics, and before people call me names the idea and implementation of eugenics started right here in the good ol' USA and was in law book till the 1970's

why is it wrong to want to have a normal child.

a reply to: DronesandUFOs

I'm not really sure what you're going on about.

I had a spontaneous abortion, 2 kids, then an elective abortion.

I support science. I absolutely support testing a fetus for abnormalities.

Sexual fluidity is not an abnormality.

I certainly don't want a Doctor Josef Rudolf Mengele testing for heterosexuality.

I would support ethical eugenics -- I support science.

I support DNA testing for genetic defects -- I support science.

I don't support irresponsible procreation.

I don't believe in any god.

a reply to: Annee

i was asking why you would bring a child into this world knowing that they will suffer, i'm sure there are good moments but my sisters boss has an adult autistic daughter and the mother and father have been put in the hospital many times with broken bones, bite marks, getting beat by an adult who cant comprehend the world around them.

Police and what not are on a first name basis due to EMS being there so much.


As far as god, doesnt matter to me if you believe or not, if i did i might say that parents who bring disabled children into this world knowingly so should burn in hell

you say you believe in responsible procreation and that you believe in science but you choices say otherwise



your child will never experience life as non neuro divergent person will, how do you think collage will go? How about high school? Kids are savages and will say things with no filter.

and you didnt answer ONE of my questions.

Would you support your Autistic child have children? And if yes who is going to take care of another autistic person when one or more parents already are? The state? Grandma/you?

what plans have you made for you child after you and the father die? Burden someone else with your choice?

I assume you have a trust fund set up so tax payers don't have to pay an unfair share of money to support your child after you are gone.

originally posted by: DronesandUFOs
a reply to: Annee

i was asking why you would bring a child into this world knowing that they will suffer, i'm sure there are good moments but my sisters boss has an adult autistic daughter and the mother and father have been put in the hospital many times with broken bones, bite marks, getting beat by an adult who cant comprehend the world around them.

Police and what not are on a first name basis due to EMS being there so much.


As far as god, doesnt matter to me if you believe or not, if i did i might say that parents who bring disabled children into this world knowingly so should burn in hell

you say you believe in responsible procreation and that you believe in science but you choices say otherwise



your child will never experience life as non neuro divergent person will, how do you think collage will go? How about high school? Kids are savages and will say things with no filter.

and you didnt answer ONE of my questions.

Would you support your Autistic child have children? And if yes who is going to take care of another autistic person when one or more parents already are? The state? Grandma/you?

what plans have you made for you child after you and the father die? Burden someone else with your choice?

I assume you have a trust fund set up so tax payers don't have to pay an unfair share of money to support your child after you are gone.

Autism is a large umbrella. There are many degrees of Autism. No 2 are alike. It is a neurological disorder.

There are no actual tests to determine Autism. It is subjective.

Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Elon Musk -- are considered to be on the Spectrum. Would the world be better off without them>

Mine is high-functioning. Like everyone else -- he has to find what he's good at.

a reply to: Annee

Fist, Elon Musk is a scammer of the highest order, ever wonder why Elon and his first in command recently dumped their tesla stock?

all those superchargers Elon said were coming are not, he has not created anything. He is a facilitator at best in the business world and with the government

In fact with out the US governments habit of giving him priority launch system contracts and a grantee for at lease 200 launches or the government.

where is that tunnel, what about solar roofs, and now the only NuraLink person who was paralyzed from his neck down was the first person to get it and now he maybe looking at dying or brain damage as the electrodes and their wires for some reason are being retracted back to the main unit.

There are for sure tests a proper child Psych DR can do to determine if they have autism.


I hope the best for anyone with challenges in their life from mental health issues or whatever you want to call Autism

my whole issue is if you KNOW your child is going to have the odds stacked against them before they are even born?

i guess its a point of view thing.

(i do have children btw)

a reply to: DronesandUFOs

also Autism is outlined in the DSM-V on with guide lines for autism.

it is possible to have autism and other mental health issues on top of it.


and just to make sure you know i was playing devils advocate for 99% and i never was aiming at you i honestly was wondering what made you not try again.


Children are already these days having a very hard time, mine did not do well over the time when they weren't in school because of COVID

originally posted by: DronesandUFOs
a reply to: DronesandUFOs

also Autism is outlined in the DSM-V on with guide lines for autism.

it is possible to have autism and other mental health issues on top of it.


and just to make sure you know i was playing devils advocate for 99% and i never was aiming at you i honestly was wondering what made you not try again.


Children are already these days having a very hard time, mine did not do well over the time when they weren't in school because of COVID

Try again for what?

I had a spontaneous abortion, 2 kids, a selective abortion.

Some Autism tends to be hereditary. But there are no tests for it.

Are you saying people who have any kind of disability in their DNA inheritance -- should refrain from having kids?

BTW -- he is my grandson. I raised him.

Reason: his dad died of Cancer before he was a month old. His mom worked in Hollwood production (long crazy hours).

a reply to: Annee

i think people can do what they want at least in America, but do i think it is responsible family planning? no.

is it responsible to allow two disabled people to have a kid absolutely not even if one of the parents are normal as far as neurology goes.

i guess its whatever you call a red line and what i call a red line are different, and that's okay.

i'm sorry for your losses my grandmother and i were very close and a few years before she passed she told me about a spontaneous abortion, same with my mom.

my mom was on bed rest at 3 months into my pregnancy same when my sister was conceived


my grandma was an amazing person, she had gone to collage and got a degree when women didnt do that like today, she was a airline stewardess for TWA in the high times of flying when people would dress up to fly. She helped to senators get elected, i remember going knocking on doors getting signatures with her.

i miss my grandma very much so its nice the kids get to spend time with you.

Nothing like a grandmas hug to make it okay