They Finally Killed My Wife

a reply to: bobs_uruncle

Prayers and healing thoughts going out to you in this painful time, and thank you for sharing your experience with us.

The healthcare system in the U.S. and Canada is utterly broken.

a reply to: bobs_uruncle

So sorry Dave.


Just..yea. sorry man

RIP to your lovely wife and take care of yourself because you will need your health for the big fight.

I've just come out of a hospital stint and I can tell you that not only did I contract some type of virus there, but it was pure torture with the treatments they gave me, and all staff were so busy and run off their feet that I absolutely believe that mistakes are bound to happen.

I am very sorry for your loss.

a reply to: bobs_uruncle

So sorry Dave, very sad and heartbreaking.

The Canadian health system took both my dad and my brother-in-law before their time.

My aunt was a nurse and was terrified of the health system. To the point that even though she knew she had a heart condition she refused to go to the doctor.

Something needs to be done, hopefully your intended input contributes to the change, albeit too late for many.

May your wonderful wife rest in peace.
Thinking of you in my prayers.

a reply to: bobs_uruncle

Wow

So sorry for your loss ... sounds like you guys Lived Life...That's all we can do

I hope you find strength in the love and support surrounding you

Best wishes

Sorry to hear about the death of your wife. Medical mistakes and medical ignorance are common and it has been that way for a long time. I am not enthused by what is happening in the medical industry these days. It seems to have gotten way more expensive and I think it was better thirty years ago than it is now. I do not know why this is but many older people will say the same thing because we have seen the difference over the years.

Cherish the memories you had with her and focus on them more than being mad about what happened. There are still good doctors out there but they are getting rarer.

So sorry for your loss... I can't begin to imagine what you are going through.

Condolences to you and may your wife rest in peace.

It sounds like from what you've said, that you two had quite a journey.

Try to accentuate the good times and the good things that you two have experienced together.

a reply to: bobs_uruncle

Dave, I am so sorry! Her soul will live on forever!💕

a reply to: TEOTWAWKIAIFF

Wow, just wow! I asked for dialysis for her and they did nothing. Like I said, I think there are protocols in place to kill those over 65 up here in Canuckistan. I am going to find out and I will find out who is responsible....

She wanted me to move her to Florida, we were coming in the spring to buy a place. Too late....

Cheers - Dave

originally posted by: Gouldielockstitch
Condolences to you and may your wife rest in peace.

It sounds like from what you've said, that you two had quite a journey.

Try to accentuate the good times and the good things that you two have experienced together.

She was with me when we went to Africa. She was my R&D department technical writer and secretary for all the military and CI work. I was the second "surgeon" when we delivered our son in Park Lane Clinic, Johannesburg, I did the second cut, opened her up and clamped and cut our son's cord. She was with me when we were all almost killed by the negligence or malice of our ambassador in South Africa. She was with me when I was the whistle blower in a $150 million and tax and public funds fraud. She was obviously with me when she pushed me to do the Johnny and June thing lol, but I pushed her to do Stevie Nicks.

I did everything for her, she was my mission in life and my goal was to keep her alive so she could see grandchildren. That was stolen from her and my goals were circumvented by a corrupt and evil health (non)care system in Canada. I promised her while she was alive I would do nothing that might take me from her or stop giving her the care she needed. I fulfilled that promise and now I am released to extract whatever justice I see fit, in whatever manner I choose. I am talking to lawyers on Monday, but I have not decided yet how I will proceed.

I am being good for now, but I worked for monsters and I feel the clawing at the door I sealed mine behind 34 years ago.

Cheers - Dave

a reply to: bobs_uruncle

They’ve already take enough from you Dave.

Go after them but don’t let what they did change who you have become and take away all the good that your wife contributed to who you are today.

Be who she would want you to be

originally posted by: rickymouse
Sorry to hear about the death of your wife. Medical mistakes and medical ignorance are common and it has been that way for a long time. I am not enthused by what is happening in the medical industry these days. It seems to have gotten way more expensive and I think it was better thirty years ago than it is now. I do not know why this is but many older people will say the same thing because we have seen the difference over the years.

Cherish the memories you had with her and focus on them more than being mad about what happened. There are still good doctors out there but they are getting rarer.

From what I see, this was neither a mistake or ignorance. This was a deliberate act of malice, it was planned negligence to make it look like mistakes. They had the pill to get her BP up all along, cardiologist stated they had the pill Jan 3rd. Pharmacy being closed in a hospital, no, that's a lie to make sure she went way over the 10% retained liquid tipping point. If they had of given her the BP pill Dec 29, she would be alive right now. No, this was murder. I will try lawyers first, they better hope the lawyers work and I agree.

Cheers - Dave

a reply to: bobs_uruncle

I am so sorry for your loss. We also had a family member denied care until too late. Just very tragic and evil.

Are you aware of the case of the wrongful death of Grace Sachra?

Breaking the Oath: Unauthorized

I read the detailed account of his daughter's death and it is more than evident that she was targeted because she had Downs Syndrome. It was a very chilling narrative. I need to find you the book to read.

Trial Date set- Bell Weather Case- Medical Killing

These lawyers may be of help or able to refer you to some lawyers in Canada.

My deepest sympathy to you Dave. May your beautiful wife rest in peace. I’ve been a RN in the US for nearly 36 years and must say that hospital care has gone down hill over the past 3 years and many good clinicians are leaving the bedside. I’ve heard Canadian socialized medicine is even worse. At least we don’t wait days to see a specialist here in the US when we’re in critical condition. Please feel free to DM me if you need to talk. a reply to: bobs_uruncle

You are absolutely right that morphine kills. It depresses the urge to breathe and can cause cardiac arrest. It’s actually a way to euthanize people. a reply to: AlexandrosOMegas

Prayers for peace and healing for you, so very sorry for your loss.

a reply to: bobs_uruncle

Thank you for sharing about your beautiful wife and your life together. It was a relationship to be envied and I'm so glad you had so much joy with her.

I'm deeply sad for your loss and your pain. These are little words of comfort, but just know that your friends and family here on ATS weep and sorrow with you.

Sorry for your loss.

Please remember under no circumstances should you make ANY life altering decisions right now.

What may seem like totally reasonable will seem absolutely crazy in a year or two.

From my experience with my mother, healthcare providers do not handle illnesses in the elderly well.
They just don't. As a family member, your need for information and closure is totally ignored.

During Covid, they only allowed visitors if we signed a DNR - it was like blackmail.

And remember what you would have wanted and what she would have wanted might be two totally separate things.

Just believe, this is just a brief separation.