posted on Jun, 26 2023 @ 08:13 AM
I’m speaking mainly for the US.
I recently was on a lovely getaway.
Two elements of this getaway was a restaurant that really only caters to adults, and then a resort that is strictly adults only.
Both were amazing, relaxing and completely child free. Did I mention relaxing. No screaming tantrums, no kids having sensory issues, no crying, no
kids wandering where they shouldn’t be.
It really got me thinking. I love kids and babies but I really enjoyed kid free zones, why is that, and what changed over the years?
There was a time where we enjoyed having kids involved in everything. My husband and I fondly remember going to the horse track
With our parents. We remember going to play bingo, and so many more things that would just be unheard of these days.
KIDS have not changed, it’s the parents!!!!
Parents are so inept these days and have zero control over their kids. (I’m generalizing) Maybe some of it is because the government and doo-gooders
reporting every discipline as child abuse (while actual child abuse never gets reported). There have been many times I’ve been in a store and have
wanted to give a kid a good pop on the rear! I’ve heard an elementary school kid call his mom a “stupid b*tch” for not buying him a candy bar,
and was met with zero reaction. OK, Maybe kids are different, how many kids have ADD, ADHD, emotional, personal, problems. Maybe parents haven’t had
the tools to be good parents. Maybe the parents have some of the same issues as their kids (ADD ADHD, etc)
Back in the day, when a child was at a restaurant and they starting screaming, one of the parents would get up and take them out of the restaurant.
How often does that happen now? The parents simply ignore while all others have to suffer. I was at a kid centric resort not so long ago. The things
being allowed to happen in a hotel was ridiculous. Screaming at the top of lungs, full sprinting down the hall, stomping, crying, temper tantrums,
leaving litter. I could go on all day. Yes kids will be kids, but I’m saying their parents never reeled them in. They would just let this nonsense
happen in a setting that really isn’t appropriate. My kids are all older/adults but I do have family members with young kids and all the above
applies to them too.
Back to my OP, all this bad behavior from kids and their parents too have made a lot of us dislike kids in a lot of setting
(airplanes/hotels/restaurants/stores) because it ruins the NORMAL enjoyment for us. What a shame that is!