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Yes, your mental illness. That’s what it is. Lie if it helps you cope, but to encourage others to do so about the health of their child is reprehensible.
originally posted by: ancientlight
No, it's 100% real this. I've seen them too, multiple times. Don't know what it could be though.
originally posted by: ITSALIVE
Bad advice to indulge mental illness, especially in a child. Also bad to tell someone else like the OP what they believe.
originally posted by: Maxmars
a reply to: ancientlight
I truly hope you are not trolling, because I have a serious answer.
This kind of thing happened in my life as well. My daughters each reported something along these lines to me, and I would have just "blown them off" as a kid thing except I too had experiences like this both as a child and while I was raising my kids.
I can't say "they are this" or "It is that" like I know.
I can say that you should be there for him. Let him know you are also concerned and will be on the lookout with him. Don't lie and pretend its nothing. Don't offer him fake reassurances that it will just "go away."
Let him know that he is not alone in this. You are with him. You will be there whenever something like this happens.
Let him know he is not crazy. He is not full of it. And it is not "his fault." You believe he saw this.
It really helps.
Mental illness is a serious matter, and your son may be suffering from something. ATS is not the place to find help on this. Too many here indulging their own fantasy and motives.