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originally posted by: musicismagic
This attitude I feel started about 17 years ago when the mobile phone first began to appear in high schooler's hands.
It's been downhill since. And I'm speaking for someone here overseas too. It's a lost generation of thoughless and anger of "instant" get lost attitudes I've noticed.
originally posted by: shaemac
I have a 19 year old. Close enough. She is a conservative and raised different than most of Gen Z. Does not act like that.
Maybe it is where you live. Maybe it is the environment they have been raised in.
I am in TEXAS. 20 something year olds dont act like that here where I live. Yes ma'ams and Yes sirs still happen. For the most part, they are all respectful - no matter race, class, location, etc.
Leaving communist Colorado was quite different. Lots of weirdo little #s.
I also have seen grown adults - older than me (Im a GenXer) treat the young kids like crap too, just because they have preconceived ideas.
There are far too many variables to give a reasonable response. Maybe she was having a bad day. We all have them.
originally posted by: halfoldman
To put it mildly, we're living in times where parents are terrified of their own kids!
originally posted by: infolurker
a reply to: AOx6179
You have to ask?
No Discipline in schools, no discipline in the home, their media and television programing tells them to act like they are guests on the Jerry Springer show because that is now normal.
originally posted by: infolurker
a reply to: AOx6179
You haven't seen anything yet. We can only hope that the theory of a pre-tribulation rapture is correct.
originally posted by: M5xaz
a reply to: AOx6179
Because they are insecure.
Because of dumbing down of schools, they truly don't know anything and write and count MAYBE at a 3rd grade level coming out of high school.
They know it and resent it, in constant fear of their "image" being perceived as idiots
The "college" kids with basket weaving degrees are the worst.
Those working in retail can never count change in their heads and need to use a calculator....smdh...
originally posted by: AOx6179
originally posted by: M5xaz
a reply to: AOx6179
Because they are insecure.
Because of dumbing down of schools, they truly don't know anything and write and count MAYBE at a 3rd grade level coming out of high school.
They know it and resent it, in constant fear of their "image" being perceived as idiots
The "college" kids with basket weaving degrees are the worst.
Those working in retail can never count change in their heads and need to use a calculator....smdh...
One of the most repetitive things I get from them is, "I don't have any life skills." "I wish I had learned more life skills." Different variations of the same complaint. I see that they do feel "helpless" and afraid they can't take care of themselves. Afraid to step out into the world and take it on on their own.
Added: your post has me thinking now. The young lady who I was talking about in the OP (original post, right?) I wonder if she couldn't count the change or was intimidated by having to do it....
A part I left out in the OP. I had the 200 pennies laid out and in stacks of ten. She looked (very upset) at it, and said, "I'll just pay for it." And she did. I thanked her twice for her generosity, but even that still seemed to further upset her.
I think you just gave me an epiphany. A new angle I'm going to approach with them. Thanks a bunch. I hadn't considered the education part. Was too busy looking at the social media angle.