The Nay-Sayers

a reply to: alexandrae

Hey Missy A ! Hope you are having a great day, eh ! LoL !!

Have found a solution for similar problems myself :

If a convo seems to turn towards a criticism of me, or is a flat-out accusation : will take it, and make it 25 times worse.
Not in a self-victimizing way, but in a just giving zero F's way.

Will take-over the convo, and rip every part of my public personality, while laughing and chuckling about it.
Kind-of leaves them no where to go after that.

Because the underlying message : is that you don't give a F what they think of you.
But at the same time : it's like saying they were right, and going-easy on you.

In the dust of that confusion : time to turn and walk-away.

Alaexandrae : if some are able to able to find happiness in their golden-years ; you are too.
Just please realize that it will never come from anything outside of you.
Always inside.