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There's nothing special about renting your first apartment and eating ramen 3 times a day all week because you're broke.
originally posted by: mzinga
... the only type of resources I can find are in the entry resources
As well as any resources that I find in the other two categories, I can't get myself to pay what they are asking.
People in our line of work are without resources, not bidding work, and there are more projects than people..
People today want it all, they want it now, and they don't want to work for it
There is nothing stronger than the family unit. There is absolutely nothing wrong with grown children living with their parents. Why is it OK for elderly parents to come living with their adult children when they need help, but not OK for adult children to do the same?
Yes there are lazy people, there have always been lazy people, but not everyone is lazy.
originally posted by: JAGStorm
There is absolutely nothing wrong with grown children living with their parents. Why is it OK for elderly parents to come living with their adult children when they need help, but not OK for adult children to do the same?
originally posted by: TheRedneck
a reply to: JAGStorm
The purpose of a fast food job or a grocery store shelf-stocker is an entry level job.
originally posted by: TheRedneck
a reply to: JIMC5499
A housewife is worth her weight in gold. One cannot buy the services that the typical housewife does every single day. I think maybe that concept is starting to change, and I welcome it. I have no issue whatsoever with women in the workforce, and I believe they should be paid commensurate with their make counterparts, but no family should require two incomes to make ends meet. Working outside the home should be a personal decision, not a forced economic mandate.
TheRedneck
originally posted by: JAGStorm
You said it, he said it, she said it but when the rubber hits the road why do I always hear
"That is a starter job and shouldn't make xyz, That job is for teens, That job shouldn't be paid xyz"
We can't have it both ways. We can't pay people a non livable wage and then also champion the family structure with a parent at home. We often talk about fast food is a teens job and shouldn't be a living wage. What about a janitor, what about a person that works at the grocery store? All these were living wage jobs in the past. My uncle was a janitor in the (60-90s), he bought a gigantic house on several acres, had a pool and nice furniture, and raised three kids with wife at home on a janitors salary. Try that now!!
originally posted by: TheRedneck
a reply to: Snarl
Most people don't even think about retirement. That's pretty sad, but they (think they) need everything they make to survive in their current lifestyle. In addition, who graduates school these days understanding the concept of investment? Almost no one... we have "experts" with college degrees for that.
You now know one other family where the wife stays home. My wife has never worked. When we talked about getting married and she said something about being a housewife, I told her, "That's your decision. I am fine with you staying home while I work, or I am fine with you working and us sharing the housework. Just understand that a single income family will not have all the nice things a two income family can have." She agreed and 34 years later she is happy with her choice. We've gone through some seriously hard times, but we managed and we're now happy in our latter years.
And I have had the benefit of coming home to a hot home-cooked meal in a nice clean home most nights after a hard day at work for 34 years. That's worth a lot more than numbers in a bank computer to me.
TheRedneck
originally posted by: DBCowboy
I remember a time back when I posted how my wife, a nurse, decided to be a stay-at-home mom to our sons instead.
I was blasted at being called "old fashioned" and misogynistic.
But they were probably just babes without men posting so I ignored it.