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a reply to: ADAMandEVIL
Also, cheating is in my opinion the death toll for relationships. Couples need trust and reciprocation of care, and cheating forever poisons that trust.
Option # 1
Never allow the Boyfriend to live it down, constantly remind him of what he did and ensure that he is feeling guilty on a daily basis , also in turn the boyfriend needs to bring up the infidelity on a daily basis and ask for her forgiveness . He must always concede in arguments and give her the high ground because he cheated on her . He must never let her forget or get over what he did , because of course if he did he may do it again .
Option # 2
The Boyfriend apologizes to the girlfriend and asks for her forgiveness demonstrating in some way that he has learned from his mistakes , if she accepts his apology. Then the counselor instructs the couple to move on from the incident and avoid bringing it up as that will only open old wounds and never allow the couple to fully move on . The couple must build a new foundation of trust and understanding and learn to love each other all over again .
So which couple will survive ? Couple 1 or Couple 2
originally posted by: Sookiechacha
a reply to: asabuvsobelow
Option # 1
Never allow the Boyfriend to live it down, constantly remind him of what he did and ensure that he is feeling guilty on a daily basis , also in turn the boyfriend needs to bring up the infidelity on a daily basis and ask for her forgiveness . He must always concede in arguments and give her the high ground because he cheated on her . He must never let her forget or get over what he did , because of course if he did he may do it again .
Option # 2
The Boyfriend apologizes to the girlfriend and asks for her forgiveness demonstrating in some way that he has learned from his mistakes , if she accepts his apology. Then the counselor instructs the couple to move on from the incident and avoid bringing it up as that will only open old wounds and never allow the couple to fully move on . The couple must build a new foundation of trust and understanding and learn to love each other all over again .
So which couple will survive ? Couple 1 or Couple 2
Neither. She can forgive, but she would be stupid to forget. He needs to re-earn her trust. She needs to understand the dynamics that made him cheat on her in the first place.
Not sure how any of this has anything to do with critical race theory, though.
originally posted by: f4rwest
a reply to: Sookiechacha
White people were the slaves once.
It's also clear that no one here understands critical theories lol.
a reply to: Sookiechacha
Yeah, okay. So, when was the Macedonians' slaves and their Roman masters' honeymoon?
a reply to: Sookiechacha
It's also clear that no one here understands critical theories lol. I know. Not even close.
originally posted by: Sookiechacha
a reply to: asabuvsobelow
Okay, Show me one civilization/society that enslaved another that had a slave/master honeymoon period, like your tragic couple had before "he" cheated on "her".
originally posted by: Zanti Misfit
a reply to: asabuvsobelow
" Critical Racist Theory "
Amended for Eronious Implications *
originally posted by: Zanti Misfit
a reply to: asabuvsobelow
" Critical Racist Theory "
Amended for Eronious Implications *
originally posted by: Sookiechacha
a reply to: asabuvsobelow
Okay, Show me one civilization/society that enslaved another that had a slave/master honeymoon period, like your tragic couple had before "he" cheated on "her".