If there are any girls here tell me if this is good idea

okay i have been dating my girlfriend for 9 months and we have no fights or anything but I really wanna show how much I love her and I have no money i must wait until i get a job in about 6 months but I am trying to think of things i can do for her anything at all could help.

i am not female, but i know about them. If you do simple things like pick fresh wild flowers, and take her on walks in the park, she will think you are amazing. No joke.

Cook for her.................girls like to have food cooked for them.



Not a women either by the way !!

[edit on 27-3-2005 by Mindwalker]

Don't cook for her if you can't cook. Girls don't like having to eat bad food. Sorry, but anyone can learn to cook.

hehe. not a woman either...but i've found anything that makes them feel different or special they love. things that dont cast money can sometimes be better than expensive things. even a walk around downtown at night can get the love flowing.

[edit on 27-3-2005 by Mr_Math1]

a woman here

Girls apreciate little things, like someone already mentioned here.

A walk in the park, a nice evening at home watching movies, talking, just you two, stuff like that.
Show her that you care for her, that you can listen. Show her that she is your priority, that is enough. No expensive gifts are needed, just little things that dont cost much.
You can burn a CD with her favourite songs for example, or write a short poem, a love note and slip it into her pocket, or in her locker (if you are still in highschool that is ).

Those things are very romantic and girls like it a lot.

aww nice ideas all,

But move over girl hear!!


Right sweetness is worth more than money so hears a few ideas

Write her a poem! Us ladys/girls love to have little keep sakes, good or bad its something that she will love, you wrote it!

Message In A Bottle..

Get a bottle with a cork, write a little love letter and burn the edges of the paper, and put it in the bottle, then choose a fun way to gove it to her,
Take her to a river/lake and pretend you just found it, let her open it

Heart Rocks

looks for little rocks that are a little heart shaped, paint them and write little notes on them "I Love You" and various other little messages

You could spot them around the place/park ect and have a little treasure hunt

..hhmmm....there is alot you can do without money... take her for walks... make a bracelet for her...a candle, write her a poem, nothing fancy... just what you feel...... ask her if you can brush her hair...give her some showlder massages ...draw greeting cards for her... you can try to get sea shells if you leave by the sea...or pick a flower on the way to a date ...tell her it reminds you of her ....there is alot you can do from the heart and that takes litle to no money at all......Good luck !!!

[edit on 27-3-2005 by BaastetNoir]

me, I would do something like clean and cook for her on a weekend you have off, or go to a dollar show, where they have a comedy or chick flick. And try to find a job in the meantime, so she can see your trying to do your best. And don't lie, b/c if you lie, will trust me, if a girl is lied to, she learns real fast.

Now you know why I'm a BSB fan, I actually like commas and they hate them.

And if that fails, just do this.....------------>>>>>, then , then finally, you do ! Good Luck!

[edit on 3/27/05 by BSB2005]

Not a women right here!!!

Im probably the most non-romantic guy here:bnghd:
So take my advice with a cup of salt...ok

But after living in Europe the past 4 months I have learned a few tricks
that the women here love.

1. As everyone else already said...the small things, walks, letters, all that mushy stuff.

2. send her flowers at work or something....women like it when you show affection and show your love in public.

3. a simple thank you card.."thank you for being (insert text here)"

4. Last but not least, find out from her friends what she likes and make it happen...women know women, she probably tells her female friends things she might not tell you...find out and make it reality.

and she'll


[edit on 28/3/05 by Risky_Bizness]

[edit on 28/3/05 by Risky_Bizness]

Well, I don't know about all women, but heres my view:

1. Surprise her. It doesn't have to be a dimond bracelet. Just out of the blue get her flowers or a really romantic card, somthing of the like. It really shows that you love her and think about her constantly.

2. One day my boyfriend sat down next to me after a passionate evening and just stared at me for what seemed like hours. After a few minutes, I asked him what he was doing. He said he just couldn't get over how lucky he was to be with me, that there was no way I could ever be more perfect in his eyes. It really shoew her that you will never take her for granted

hey all you thanks for all the ideas but i did most of them but I am really thankful and Lenina that one your boyfriend did i did that before and cook for her umm well i can cook really good but its just i never get a chance to.But anyway umm since her mom wont let her go anywhere far or barley anywhere for that matter but the day before Saint Valentines day I took her out and we went for a walk through the town looking at stars I wrote her a song/poem and it was pretty good and then we went back to her house and i just cuddled with her so ya thanks for all the help and now i just gotta get through her birthday but i have a great idea for that.

can you

Draw / Paint - try a picture for her

write poetry - write a poem for her

Sing - sing a song to her

and probably the best one...

talk.... just sit and talk with her and tell her how you feel, be honest and open....

A mix tape/cd with songs that mean something to both of you...
one of the oldest in the book man!