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The common and horrifying consequences of sex change surgeries
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a reply to: coop039
Hey, I just wanted to let you know you are not alone. My uncle's story is a mirror of yours. My cousin is in the same boat and largely due to the influence of the girlfriend. I just hope that your son and my cousin remember in their hearts that they are never too far lost. That they are always loved and cherished. And that family will always be their home, no matter what, no matter what.
Here is a song that I sent to my uncle. I hope it gives you comfort.
Incase I messed up the attachment again the song is from Lauren Daigle called "Rescue"
Hey, I just wanted to let you know you are not alone. My uncle's story is a mirror of yours. My cousin is in the same boat and largely due to the influence of the girlfriend. I just hope that your son and my cousin remember in their hearts that they are never too far lost. That they are always loved and cherished. And that family will always be their home, no matter what, no matter what.
Here is a song that I sent to my uncle. I hope it gives you comfort.
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t on 4-9-2021 by aFrayedknot2 because: I have a hard time with attatchments
t on 4-9-2021 by aFrayedknot2 because: I have a hard time with attatchments
Incase I messed up the attachment again the song is from Lauren Daigle called "Rescue"
edit on 4-9-2021 by aFrayedknot2 because: trying
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a reply to: trollz
There is no such thing as 'sex change surgery'. There's sex exchange, and there's 'sex change', when it occurs naturally - i.e. by reincarnation to a new body after your old one has died and you've spent the appropriate amount of time in the astral side.
A physical body, etheric body, brain type, body size, feet size, muscle density, shape and amount, skeletal structure, chakra twirling direction, the energy field (yin/yang), thinking style, psychology... ALL these would have to be changed in order for a gender to TRULY change. You can't change all of these by a surgery, so all you are REALLY doing is mutilating a body, making it more dysfunctional and troublesome to use.
It won't change gender any more than a moped changes to a car by installing a sign that says 'car' to its gas tank / battery.
Why is everyone in such a hurry anyway? If you are uncomfortable with any aspect of the physical body you have incarnated into, just be brave and bear with it, you'll eventually get the chance to incarnate into a differently-gendered body. It's an opportunity you are trying to destroy by mutilating a body and pretending it somehow changes your gender. You won't be any more comfortable with the body in a mutilated form, no matter how much you pretend and eat hormones. It's still the same body, it'll feel the same, just more mutilated and dysfunctional.
I actually have the same question about murder - why be in such a hurry to 'terminate' someone's life, when you can just wait for their body to die naturally (everyone's body does)? All you're doing is disrupting their incarnation and causing a lot of trouble that way, plus enormous bad karma for yourself that you have to redeem sooner or later.
Where's the patience..?
By waiting, you can get it all - another gender (legitimate, too!), 'have someone die', and so on. Just wait, and good things will come to you.
Don't pretend you can drown in a pool filled with plastic water molecule models.
There is no such thing as 'sex change surgery'. There's sex exchange, and there's 'sex change', when it occurs naturally - i.e. by reincarnation to a new body after your old one has died and you've spent the appropriate amount of time in the astral side.
A physical body, etheric body, brain type, body size, feet size, muscle density, shape and amount, skeletal structure, chakra twirling direction, the energy field (yin/yang), thinking style, psychology... ALL these would have to be changed in order for a gender to TRULY change. You can't change all of these by a surgery, so all you are REALLY doing is mutilating a body, making it more dysfunctional and troublesome to use.
It won't change gender any more than a moped changes to a car by installing a sign that says 'car' to its gas tank / battery.
Why is everyone in such a hurry anyway? If you are uncomfortable with any aspect of the physical body you have incarnated into, just be brave and bear with it, you'll eventually get the chance to incarnate into a differently-gendered body. It's an opportunity you are trying to destroy by mutilating a body and pretending it somehow changes your gender. You won't be any more comfortable with the body in a mutilated form, no matter how much you pretend and eat hormones. It's still the same body, it'll feel the same, just more mutilated and dysfunctional.
I actually have the same question about murder - why be in such a hurry to 'terminate' someone's life, when you can just wait for their body to die naturally (everyone's body does)? All you're doing is disrupting their incarnation and causing a lot of trouble that way, plus enormous bad karma for yourself that you have to redeem sooner or later.
Where's the patience..?
By waiting, you can get it all - another gender (legitimate, too!), 'have someone die', and so on. Just wait, and good things will come to you.
Don't pretend you can drown in a pool filled with plastic water molecule models.
a reply to: coop039
A 30 something female relative of mine identifies as a ‘non-binary transexual’. She wants to be called ‘they’. Some days she dresses masculine and some days feminine. Her prior SO was a female non-binary trans also. Her current SO is male identifying as non-binary. All have said they want to ‘transition’. To what? I ask. Im told I dont get it.
Me, I think its a fad brought on by the earlier fad of ‘Straight Gay Alliance’ in High School that was all the rage when they were in school.
My condolences. Its hard to have kids in this ‘progressive’ world.
A 30 something female relative of mine identifies as a ‘non-binary transexual’. She wants to be called ‘they’. Some days she dresses masculine and some days feminine. Her prior SO was a female non-binary trans also. Her current SO is male identifying as non-binary. All have said they want to ‘transition’. To what? I ask. Im told I dont get it.
Me, I think its a fad brought on by the earlier fad of ‘Straight Gay Alliance’ in High School that was all the rage when they were in school.
My condolences. Its hard to have kids in this ‘progressive’ world.
a reply to: BrujaRebooted
It's a bunch of confused fools trying to fit in with a clique. All those emos and 'outsiders' and people who needed to be speshul. You look at young people now...in my day, these kids would have been painting their nails black and talking about how sad they are, now they wear dresses and talk about how sad they are. Same #...
Unfortunately, this fad comes with the consequences of genital mutilation and hormone therapy for those wholly invested in it.
It's a bunch of confused fools trying to fit in with a clique. All those emos and 'outsiders' and people who needed to be speshul. You look at young people now...in my day, these kids would have been painting their nails black and talking about how sad they are, now they wear dresses and talk about how sad they are. Same #...
Unfortunately, this fad comes with the consequences of genital mutilation and hormone therapy for those wholly invested in it.
originally posted by: Shoujikina
a reply to: trollz
There is no such thing as 'sex change surgery'. There's sex exchange, and there's 'sex change', when it occurs naturally - i.e. by reincarnation to a new body after your old one has died and you've spent the appropriate amount of time in the astral side.
A physical body, etheric body, brain type, body size, feet size, muscle density, shape and amount, skeletal structure, chakra twirling direction, the energy field (yin/yang), thinking style, psychology... ALL these would have to be changed in order for a gender to TRULY change. You can't change all of these by a surgery, so all you are REALLY doing is mutilating a body, making it more dysfunctional and troublesome to use.
It won't change gender any more than a moped changes to a car by installing a sign that says 'car' to its gas tank / battery.
Why is everyone in such a hurry anyway? If you are uncomfortable with any aspect of the physical body you have incarnated into, just be brave and bear with it, you'll eventually get the chance to incarnate into a differently-gendered body. It's an opportunity you are trying to destroy by mutilating a body and pretending it somehow changes your gender. You won't be any more comfortable with the body in a mutilated form, no matter how much you pretend and eat hormones. It's still the same body, it'll feel the same, just more mutilated and dysfunctional.
I actually have the same question about murder - why be in such a hurry to 'terminate' someone's life, when you can just wait for their body to die naturally (everyone's body does)? All you're doing is disrupting their incarnation and causing a lot of trouble that way, plus enormous bad karma for yourself that you have to redeem sooner or later.
Where's the patience..?
By waiting, you can get it all - another gender (legitimate, too!), 'have someone die', and so on. Just wait, and good things will come to you.
Don't pretend you can drown in a pool filled with plastic water molecule models.
GENDER is not your Bodily sex. Gender is MENTAL. When you go do a application or any paperwork they state SEX as M or F. SO many people confuse those terms its scary.
originally posted by: ANNED
Sex reassignment treatments and surgeries are done everyday on infants born intersex.
This is done without permission of the person and the parents seldom understand the long term problems.
www.hrw.org...
these are far more common than sex change surgeries on adults.
Sex is differentiated by the structures for gamete production. In humans, there are only two gametes. Human males produce small, mobile gametes. Human females produce large, immobile gametes. In 99.9% of humans the males have XY chromosomes and the females have XX chromosomes. All Differential Sex Disorders (Intersex) are sex-specific, meaning only males can have some of those disorders and only females can have others of those disorders. There has never, not even once, in nature been a case of a human hermaphrodite. And the Intersex community has been furious for over a decade about how the Trans Industry has tried to drag their rather serious health issues into Gender Ideology.
Gender Heretics Is Offering $1 MILLION For A Third Human Gamete
Biological sex is not a spectrum: there are only two sexes in humans
a reply to: yuppa
Hmmmm... just missing the point here? Or gaslighting? Because this poster's use of those terms isn't the problem.
Those terms are being deliberately and willfully conflated by Transactivists to the point that there is NO DISTINCTION under color of law. And yes, it's damn scary. And that's the problem.
Further, people are having so-called "sex reassignment" surgeries, people are suffering as a result, and this is the actual topic of the thread.
Why aren't you addressing this?
Gender is a social construct at best and a religious belief being forced upon others at worst. It is not "mental" or everyone would have a "gender identity." We don't, because most of us don't have a gender identity. And most of us don't define other people by their sex; we recognize that only physical bodies are sexed. Our sex is tangible, objective and identification thereof is replicable (even when all that's left is a pile of bones). Gender is intangible, subjective and identification thereof is not replicable because it's what anyone and everyone wants to believe it is. It is the sex that the transsexual patients are trying to replicate.
GENDER is not your Bodily sex. Gender is MENTAL. When you go do a application or any paperwork they state SEX as M or F. SO many people confuse those terms its scary.
Hmmmm... just missing the point here? Or gaslighting? Because this poster's use of those terms isn't the problem.
Those terms are being deliberately and willfully conflated by Transactivists to the point that there is NO DISTINCTION under color of law. And yes, it's damn scary. And that's the problem.
Further, people are having so-called "sex reassignment" surgeries, people are suffering as a result, and this is the actual topic of the thread.
Why aren't you addressing this?
Gender is a social construct at best and a religious belief being forced upon others at worst. It is not "mental" or everyone would have a "gender identity." We don't, because most of us don't have a gender identity. And most of us don't define other people by their sex; we recognize that only physical bodies are sexed. Our sex is tangible, objective and identification thereof is replicable (even when all that's left is a pile of bones). Gender is intangible, subjective and identification thereof is not replicable because it's what anyone and everyone wants to believe it is. It is the sex that the transsexual patients are trying to replicate.
a reply to: carewemust
Yup! We are ALL perfectly imperfect in every way. We are all a glorious combination of many factors and attributes and qualities... good, bad, better, worse...
And that's not a bad thing.
But God made us the way we are.
Good, bad, better, worse...
Yup! We are ALL perfectly imperfect in every way. We are all a glorious combination of many factors and attributes and qualities... good, bad, better, worse...
And that's not a bad thing.
a reply to: yuppa
Gender is nothing more than cultural sex-stereotyping. "Boys like trucks and blue" "Girls like dolls and pink" "Women are submissive" "Men are brave" These are (largely, oppressive) social constructs, which vary with time and across cultures. During Reconstruction, men wore elaborate wigs, makeup and heels. They were still men and no one pretended otherwise, nor was a it a federal hate crime to not pretend they were anything other than men. Personalities aren't genders. Preferences for particular hobbies, clothing or haircuts aren't genders. Sexual orientation is not nor does it determine one's gender. Plastic surgery, styling choices, and taking unsafe levels of cross-sex hormones does not change a person's sex. Effeminate gay men are still men and butch lesbians are still women; it's pretty much the height of homophobia to claim feminine males and masculine women are really the opposite sex and "born in the wrong bodies". It's also a religious belief, which has no place in legislation, outside of a theocracy.
Gender is nothing more than cultural sex-stereotyping. "Boys like trucks and blue" "Girls like dolls and pink" "Women are submissive" "Men are brave" These are (largely, oppressive) social constructs, which vary with time and across cultures. During Reconstruction, men wore elaborate wigs, makeup and heels. They were still men and no one pretended otherwise, nor was a it a federal hate crime to not pretend they were anything other than men. Personalities aren't genders. Preferences for particular hobbies, clothing or haircuts aren't genders. Sexual orientation is not nor does it determine one's gender. Plastic surgery, styling choices, and taking unsafe levels of cross-sex hormones does not change a person's sex. Effeminate gay men are still men and butch lesbians are still women; it's pretty much the height of homophobia to claim feminine males and masculine women are really the opposite sex and "born in the wrong bodies". It's also a religious belief, which has no place in legislation, outside of a theocracy.
Harmless?
Rising Abuse, Sexual Violence Against Incarcerated Women by Male ‘Transgender’ Inmates
www.womenarehuman.com...
a reply to: yuppa
All of those men, who have raped and otherwise assaulted the women who have been forced to cell with them, have autogynephilia. There is no differential between autogynephiles who are "crossdressers" and autogynephiles who claim a "transgender" identity. 80% of convicted sex offenders have autogynephilia among their top 3 paraphilias. A full 60% of them "identify as trans".
a reply to: FunshineCD
The fetish of autogynephilia certainly predates the multi-billion dollar NGO push by Open Society, Stryker, The Pritzkers, et al, to proliferate it and codify the violations of consent inherent to the fetish into law. There's an entire subreddit of sissy porn addicted incels who, having decided they are "failed men", per Freud, are now actively teaching one another how to "transition into being women" so they can, effectively, become their own girlfriends. In the meantime, billionaire sexual predators are changing laws around the world to destroy child consent laws, destroy women's rights and safety, sterilize and genocide children who would grow up to be gay and lesbian, destroy the very concept of biological sex, and normalize the colonization of the human body as the last natural resource to be exploited -- and all for profit!
Autogynephilia/The Normalization of a Paraphilia for Corporate Profit and Control
r/transmaxxing
The fetish of autogynephilia certainly predates the multi-billion dollar NGO push by Open Society, Stryker, The Pritzkers, et al, to proliferate it and codify the violations of consent inherent to the fetish into law. There's an entire subreddit of sissy porn addicted incels who, having decided they are "failed men", per Freud, are now actively teaching one another how to "transition into being women" so they can, effectively, become their own girlfriends. In the meantime, billionaire sexual predators are changing laws around the world to destroy child consent laws, destroy women's rights and safety, sterilize and genocide children who would grow up to be gay and lesbian, destroy the very concept of biological sex, and normalize the colonization of the human body as the last natural resource to be exploited -- and all for profit!
Autogynephilia/The Normalization of a Paraphilia for Corporate Profit and Control
r/transmaxxing
edit on 4-9-2021 by DashVol because: links
a reply to: Boadicea
I wasnt gas lighting here. and Ok. do you do thing that are expected of your outward looks? if you are female, do you like wearing feminine clothes? If you are male ,do you do things considered manly? Gender is a mental reflection.
Here the following link is good to explain what gender actually is. Apparently it is mentally influenced by actions and looks,like a manly man bodybuilding or a woman wearing pretty clothes.
Gender is....
I wasnt gas lighting here. and Ok. do you do thing that are expected of your outward looks? if you are female, do you like wearing feminine clothes? If you are male ,do you do things considered manly? Gender is a mental reflection.
Here the following link is good to explain what gender actually is. Apparently it is mentally influenced by actions and looks,like a manly man bodybuilding or a woman wearing pretty clothes.
Gender is....
originally posted by: DashVol
Harmless?
Rising Abuse, Sexual Violence Against Incarcerated Women by Male ‘Transgender’ Inmates
www.womenarehuman.com...
a reply to: yuppa
All of those men, who have raped and otherwise assaulted the women who have been forced to cell with them, have autogynephilia. There is no differential between autogynephiles who are "crossdressers" and autogynephiles who claim a "transgender" identity. 80% of convicted sex offenders have autogynephilia among their top 3 paraphilias. A full 60% of them "identify as trans".
Bull shiite. Crossdressing is a fetish. And I see you totally ignored the part about only passable should be in a womans jail AND ONLY IF they are not hitting on them or attracted to them.
Seems to eliminate 80-95 percent then id bet.
I dont care what they ID as,if they do not look feminine they do not belong in female prison. period.
originally posted by: DashVol
a reply to: FunshineCD
The fetish of autogynephilia certainly predates the multi-billion dollar NGO push by Open Society, Stryker, The Pritzkers, et al, to proliferate it and codify the violations of consent inherent to the fetish into law. There's an entire subreddit of sissy porn addicted incels who, having decided they are "failed men", per Freud, are now actively teaching one another how to "transition into being women" so they can, effectively, become their own girlfriends. In the meantime, billionaire sexual predators are changing laws around the world to destroy child consent laws, destroy women's rights and safety, sterilize and genocide children who would grow up to be gay and lesbian, destroy the very concept of biological sex, and normalize the colonization of the human body as the last natural resource to be exploited -- and all for profit!
Autogynephilia/The Normalization of a Paraphilia for Corporate Profit and Control
r/transmaxxing
Wow.. you went full blown evangelical huh? I checked that place. That article is written by a extreme femi-nazi kook. I am a constitutionalist and vote for who is best. trump was last time.
And No i know quite a few who dress up for non sexual thrills. ru paul is a famous CD for one. and many others i am sure who do it for fun or a job. That lady"i use the term loosely" sound slike she was dumped by a CD bf or someone in the past and is trying to justify her hatred towards all males.
a reply to: BrujaRebooted
Then there's people the reddit troons that advocate homemade bathtub hormone concoctions to ignorant impressionable kids and other such things.
Then there's people the reddit troons that advocate homemade bathtub hormone concoctions to ignorant impressionable kids and other such things.
edit on 4/9/2021 by dug88 because: Look it up, I don't feel like explaining
www.urbandictionary.com...
a reply to: yuppa
Crossdressing IS autogynephilia. That's what it is. Autogynephilia is the clinical term for the fetish of crossdressing. There is no such thing as a "transgender" person; it's all crossdressing. As I already posted, there are two clinical typologies for men who claim to be women: 20% are HSTS, homosexual transsexuals who, because of internalized and societal homophobia, believe their lives would be easier if the world perceived them as straight women and who are, thus, using "transgenderism" as medicalized conversion therapy; and 80% are AGPs, autogynephiles, who are mostly heterosexual men with a fetish for LARPing as women.
There's nothing inherently wrong with having a sexual kink, as long as no one else is getting hurt. And that's where the problem is: (1) Women and children are getting hurt because a large part of autogynephilia, as it accelerates from secret pleasure to "identity", is forcing others to non-consensually participate in the fetish and these men are destroying laws governing consent and safe space sex segregation across the globe; (2) Other men are being raped by deception by HSTS; and (3) The men and boys who have been sucked into the Gender Ideology cult by a sophisticated social engineering campaign are destroying their lives and bodies.
The woman who runs that site is a painter and an environmentalist who got blackballed for believing in the fact of sex, while speaking at events about nature. I'm not even sure that she considers herself a feminist, much less a radical feminist. You can slander her (and me) with whatever vituperative invectives you please, but this overly emotional rage response to a blog based on forensic auditing only serves to emphasize why single sex spaces and services are necessary for girls' and women's safety.
Looking like a woman and being a woman are not the same thing. As studies related to sport have shown, men have denser bone structure, larger skulls, narrower hips, monumentally more fast twitch muscle fiber, stronger grips, bigger hands, etc. Even men who have been on HRT for a decade+ have an average of a 33% strength advantage over women's mean strength. Additionally, many rapists assault with objects, whether their dicks work or not: the impetus is sadism not orgasm. 97% of "men who identify as women" do not have any kind of genital surgery and 93% do not even take estrogen.
I'd hardly describe an adherence to basic biology as an evangelical pursuit. Particularly not when in contrast with an ideology that insists human sex is imaginary.
Real Drags Queens, who perform in gay clubs, are not HSTS; they're actors. They're not sexually aroused by their costumes, they live their day to lives as gay men and dress up to put on a show for other adult men. They don't catfish other men and try to trick them into thinking they're going to hook up with a woman, as HSTS do every single day.
Queer Theory Jeopardy
Crossdressing IS autogynephilia. That's what it is. Autogynephilia is the clinical term for the fetish of crossdressing. There is no such thing as a "transgender" person; it's all crossdressing. As I already posted, there are two clinical typologies for men who claim to be women: 20% are HSTS, homosexual transsexuals who, because of internalized and societal homophobia, believe their lives would be easier if the world perceived them as straight women and who are, thus, using "transgenderism" as medicalized conversion therapy; and 80% are AGPs, autogynephiles, who are mostly heterosexual men with a fetish for LARPing as women.
There's nothing inherently wrong with having a sexual kink, as long as no one else is getting hurt. And that's where the problem is: (1) Women and children are getting hurt because a large part of autogynephilia, as it accelerates from secret pleasure to "identity", is forcing others to non-consensually participate in the fetish and these men are destroying laws governing consent and safe space sex segregation across the globe; (2) Other men are being raped by deception by HSTS; and (3) The men and boys who have been sucked into the Gender Ideology cult by a sophisticated social engineering campaign are destroying their lives and bodies.
The woman who runs that site is a painter and an environmentalist who got blackballed for believing in the fact of sex, while speaking at events about nature. I'm not even sure that she considers herself a feminist, much less a radical feminist. You can slander her (and me) with whatever vituperative invectives you please, but this overly emotional rage response to a blog based on forensic auditing only serves to emphasize why single sex spaces and services are necessary for girls' and women's safety.
Looking like a woman and being a woman are not the same thing. As studies related to sport have shown, men have denser bone structure, larger skulls, narrower hips, monumentally more fast twitch muscle fiber, stronger grips, bigger hands, etc. Even men who have been on HRT for a decade+ have an average of a 33% strength advantage over women's mean strength. Additionally, many rapists assault with objects, whether their dicks work or not: the impetus is sadism not orgasm. 97% of "men who identify as women" do not have any kind of genital surgery and 93% do not even take estrogen.
I'd hardly describe an adherence to basic biology as an evangelical pursuit. Particularly not when in contrast with an ideology that insists human sex is imaginary.
Real Drags Queens, who perform in gay clubs, are not HSTS; they're actors. They're not sexually aroused by their costumes, they live their day to lives as gay men and dress up to put on a show for other adult men. They don't catfish other men and try to trick them into thinking they're going to hook up with a woman, as HSTS do every single day.
Queer Theory Jeopardy
edit on 5-9-2021 by DashVol because: clarification
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